Discovering yourself before marriage

Many women suffer in marriage when they rush into marriage with a man who does not know his responsibilities in marriage and who cannot tell what a woman truly needs in marriage.

It is very important to state here that when God created Adam, God didn't proceed to give him a Wife immediately! No. He followed a process and principles.....

God first gave him a "HOME", then a "JOB", then God gave him a "PURPOSE", before God gave him a "Suitable Helper", not just a Wife!

If any man lacks this process, please don't rush to become a wife to him, else he will abuse your purpose in his life.

Dear Men, If you have not discovered yourself or your purpose you don't need a woman yet, same thing applicable to we women.

Not every man is a husband material and not every woman is a wife material, some are still in a process, don't rush it.

In creation, after God had seen these qualities in Adam, God now said, It is not good for ADAM to be alone.

Some of these guys you are dating, God is still saying "It is good for them to be alone until they develop HUSBAND potentials". But we women, will not allow them to be alone, that's why they keep abusing you and misusing you in relationship.

You are going against the divine pattern, Dear Brother/Sister first discover yourself,your purpose, before looking for intimacy.

Infact, it's more important to discover your purpose in life because according to research, many successful people in life already knew their purpose even before getting married. You don't need to have all the money in the world but what is more important is that you know your purpose in life and also start working towards achieving them while you're still single.

The wife/husband God is giving you now is like a helpmeet, I promise you that immediately they see the purpose in you and know that you are ready to go any length just to achieve your purpose in life, they will give you their full support and together you can both achieve that purpose.

Note that all I've been talking about since also applies to we women. You don't have to solely depend on marriage for financial breakthrough, you are going to marry the man in order to become his helpmeet and burden sharer not a burden to him. Don't bring all your family problem to him and that is why it is very essential you already have something doing before you get married.

I come in peace ❤️🙌...

May God direct and align you to his will/purpose for your life... amen..

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