You are not happy, I know! But you want to be, don't you? Even those of you who have already objected to this conclusion of mine are actually convincing yourself that you are happy. But honestly, right? You may be overwhelmed with everything on the outside, but what do you have inside? Do not run away from the truth! Few today are consciously happy. How many lucky people do you know? Because I honestly 2 - 3. People are also dissatisfied with the feeling of damage. This happiness is not happiness.
If you really want to be happy, you need to constantly work for your happiness. But really constantly. If you really want. Nothing good is achieved with laziness and fears. True happiness requires overcoming your own worries and laziness. And if you do it, it just comes, it doesn't wait for you to look for it. Happiness loves brave, active, self-confident and well-meaning people.
And no, the table and the drinker do not bring lasting happiness. They bring relief and temporary release from tension. The company at the table requires neither activity nor courage. Self-confidence and virtue after the third brandy are deceptive and hollow, no matter how serious and safe they seem to you.
An indication of happiness is gratitude, but not the one we say out of courtesy or obligation, not in the saying is the key. The gratitude that fills you with grace, the gratitude that pushes itself from within, it is the sign of happiness.
Gratitude and action. The third mandatory ingredient is faith in the good. The belief that your actions are for good. Whatever happens along the way, you believe is for the better. Because no one guarantees you unhindered and trouble-free. Whatever happens, the belief that what you need is happening, nothing that you think you shouldn't, will give you strength in the future.
Our problem is that we prefer to give up instead of continuing to believe and continue to act. Insecurity and laziness take away happiness, they do not give.
Happiness lives in action, not in passivity. Happiness is nurtured by confidence, not by caution. Happiness loves cheerful and communicative people, not distrustful and frowning. Happiness is faith. Happiness is trust. Happiness is love shared. Happiness is freedom - freedom of will. Happiness is the wisdom of God.
Do you, in fact, love happiness, do you enjoy the happiness of your neighbor? If there is envy, there is no happiness. If there is anger, there is no happiness. If there is fear, there is no happiness.
What do you love? What inspires you? What attracts you? What are you enjoying? What are you smiling at? What makes you feel alive? The answers to these questions are different, but they all keep your happiness and wait for you to go and get it. Don? I believe. But until you try, you can't tell if it's true.
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