When a child goes somewhere, he stays silent, talks to strangers, but does not stop talking to us. Is it a problem? How do I change him to mix with everyone? Everyone talks about him.
Wait wait. Do you want to change the child for what everyone says or do you want to make the child social for the child? Or do you think the child has a problem?
Your child has no problem. Rest assured. This is his personality. Such people are called introverts. Introverted kids don’t feel comfortable outside of their familiar boundaries. They become silent in front of strangers, they wrap themselves up. Many times even if someone asks a question, he does not answer. That same kid is very fluent with acquaintances. Then no inertia can be seen.
What to do? Do nothing. Don't even try to change him. Instead, divert your thinking to good things in life. Let him be like him. Never insist on talking to others, mixing. If he feels comfortable, he will talk to himself. If someone says something, the answer will be straightforward, "He's an introvert, so he loves to be like himself."
Let the teacher know at the beginning of school that your son / daughter is introverted. This will make it easier for the teacher to take care of him.
These kids are very thoughtful. Anything they notice deeply. When asked a question, he answers thoughtfully, saying less nonsense. Most of the world's scientists are introverts.
They do not like social gatherings. Because you have to face a lot of strangers. They enjoy being with some people they know.
Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection. Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection. If he only says the names of two people, then invite only those two. Celebrate her special day not like you, but like her.
If he goes to someone's house, let him be like him. Time to adjust. You can ask if you want to play with other kids. But do not force play.
Stop blaming them. Stop teasing kids like "why aren't you talking?", "Why aren't you going to play with those kids", "why aren't you sharing your toys". Don’t ask the child to perform in front of others, he is embarrassed.
Even if he jokes in front of others, don't say anything about him so that he is made small. The kids won't understand the fun, they'll understand you're teasing him. Similarly, if others say something about him, he will protest without accepting it.
Parents of introverted children need to be more careful than parents of extroverted children. Because these kids get the most emotional trauma from being parents. Even in the crime of being an introvert until the child is beaten by human words.
Put yourself in the baby's place. You feel comfortable being covered in front of people. But everyone around wants to forcefully expose. How do you feel? An introvert feels exactly the same when he is forced out of his comfort zone.
So mom and dad, don't worry but be happy with your introverted baby, keep him happy too.
interesting perspective🤓