Why do guys cheat?

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The most common saying among ladies that have been heartbroken is "men are scum". This is always not true but because some ladies have been unlucky to have fallen into the hand of series of players, they generalize every guy they see because of the pain of heartbreak that they've gone through in the hand of the wrong men. I have come to save ladies even though I am going to be using Steve Harvey as a landmark of answering this question.

A lot of ladies think that men cheat just because they want to. This is not always the case even though it is true for some men because they're just known as good players but other guys really just want their lady to be there for them. Once a guy notices that he's losing the attention he used to get from his woman, he starts asking himself several questions that you probably cannot even answer by yourself. He starts wondering if he's really good enough or if you were just managing him all these while. These thoughts if are not addressed properly lead guys into depression and lower his morale and most likely drive him into cheating on you with someone who must have given him the attention you deprived him of. ALWAYS CHECKMATE YOUR MAN!!!

Another reason why men cheat is because of too many red flags. Sometimes, guys try their best to gather all the guts they have to woo a lady that might even like them but some ladies are just kin about being hard to get. It's not as if they do not love the guy but they just want to make him know that they're not so cheap to get. This is an example of red flag, a guy never wants to continue for so long trying to ask you out, you have to let yourself go unless you have made it clear to him the reason why you aren't ready for a relationship yet. Apart from this, which he must have agreed to, playing hard to get is going to make things even worse for you as a lady because you're indirectly raising red flags and no guy wants to stay so long because he also has options.

Take home

  • Guard your men with all jealousy

  • Pay attention to details in relationships

  • Ask questions in your relationships

  • E.t.c

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There's no excuse for a man or woman to cheat. If your girl doesn't give you attention, talk to her about it. If it's her job or anything that she can't really get time for your relationship and you can't deal, walk away.

You can't be cheating with one person and the other is for keeps. Help yourself and use the door, period.

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2 years ago

😂😂 Yoruba men aren't wired like that.

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2 years ago

I have said my own o🥱

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2 years ago

😂😂 if someone wants to cheat they will cheat there is no long story. Everybody go chop breakfast laslas

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2 years ago

Lmao

Y'all that have lost hope in love

Love still has hopes in you tho

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2 years ago

Wahli! No long talk. Breakfast go reach everybody.

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