When does life begin?

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When does life start? This question is asked frequently, and it seems to have several answers, but what is the correct answer? 

Some say life starts at 30, others say 40, while a few of us say 25; well, I think it depends on the individual and how they want to grow.

For me, if I were to answer this question, I would say life starts at the age of eighteen or when you finish high school, and you might be wondering why I picked eighteen.

Eighteen is a great age to start planning for the future, because you don't have to worry about so many responsibilities, at eighteen you are probably still living with your parents, and you don't have to pay many bills.

What better time to plan for the future than when you have little or no responsibilities? 

Sure, you may have college and all that, but young people tend to make one mistake, they depend heavily on their college degrees, causing them to have tunnel vision when it comes to achieving success.

Having a college degree is good, and all, but that degree may not even help you; I have seen so many people with lots of educational achievements, but they are not living the life you think they should be living.

People keep chasing degrees till they are 30, hoping that it will help them achieve the life they always wanted, and sometimes it does, but it only happens to a few people.

I am not downgrading a college degree, but we should also think of other paths to living well instead of chasing something that would increase our debts and stress levels, only to fail in the end.

I finished high school a while ago, and to tell you the truth, I am pleased I found this platform because it has shown me that making money isn't easy and hard work genuinely matters.

I shared my story on how I began readcash in a previous article; when I started, I didn't know what to do, and rusty didn't seem to be visiting my articles. 

The account was active for a month, but it only had 14 subscribers, of which eight were me, and 6 were my family.

I wanted to give up at that point, but I asked myself. 

"If you give up now, you would be wasting your life either way, why not keep on writing, and this time ask for help."

My friends in school insulted and mocked me because I had not made any money in three weeks of writing.

I was discouraged, I won't lie, but I knew that money comes from hard work and dedication, and I would eventually reap my writing benefits. It paid off since I am writing this article right now.

When I look at my friends now, all I see them do is play games, talk about girls, and socialize.

I am not saying this isn't good, and they are only enjoying their youth, but wasting your youth on things like that would not help you in the long run.

Nowadays, many young people waste their time on social media, and with so many social media billionaires, we will only see the number of social media addicts grow.

Sooner or later, when they reach 30 or 40, they will wonder what went wrong in their lives, and they start blaming everyone around them but remember, when you point at someone, three fingers are pointing back at you.

Don't blame others when you refuse to use the opportunities you had when you were younger.

In your youth, you are allowed to make mistakes because you have time to correct them, but when you are older, you may not have the same energy you had when you were younger.

I would recommend planning for the future at an early age, but that doesn't mean if you didn't start at eighteen, you won't make it in life; some billionaires and significant people in society made their wealth in their 40s even 70s.

I am writing this article to tell young people never to let life pass them by; we should always plan our lives to be in control, no matter what happens to us. 

Have dreams and goals you want to achieve because they will push you to become a better person.

"A dream can make a person feel alive, or it can kill them instead.

 But to exist, just because one's been born, is the sort of notion that I hate, I can't stand it." - Anonymous."

Thank you for reading! Have a productive day ahead!

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For me, life started when you have your own responsibility. That'll make a different perspective in our point of view about life and struggles. If you have a dream, work for it and yes, never give up! You can do it. ~Manju

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2 years ago

Hehe, I love that quote. Dreams are important, and as I said they can make or kill a person, but that is what makes them so fun.😁 I also agree that life starts when we start having responsibilities.

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2 years ago

It's good that you didn't give up and moved on and we have you here with us today. When things are not going well, the merit is in asking for help, thinking and acting, doing everything to achieve our purpose.

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2 years ago

Exactly, Diana. Asking others for help will greatly increase our chances of succeeding in what we do, especially when we act on what they tell us to do, and do it effectively. Thank you!

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2 years ago

Now that I'm reading your article,,, I'm very scared I may not earn for a month!!!! I don't think I even have any subscribers yet( I've not been notified,,, and I don't know how to check)... I'm only a week old though... :(

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2 years ago

You have 22 subscribers, and don't panic even if you did not earn the first month! Focus more on interacting with other users, and getting more subscribers. That will help you get more audience from Rusty! Happy new month

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2 years ago

Same to you bro... I interact every time... I don't know who rusty is though... But I'll keep interacting....

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We all know that we have different perspectives in life. Since i am the only girl in our family, as my age goes higher i start building up my own dreams. As I joined read cash fam, i know how to manage my time, even though i dont have many subscribers yet, and the @TheRandomReader noticed me once but yeahh i should lose hope because as what you have said "money comes from who work hard and have a dedication". Thank you.

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2 years ago

I started planning for my future even before the age of 18. I am the first child of my parents and right from a very young age I already knew I have a lot of responsibilities waiting for me in the future, so I already started preparing for it by amassing skills that are helping me now and will still help me in the future

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2 years ago

I trust you because you seem like a very capable guy, and being the firstborn a lot of responsibilities will be thrown at you, and it would be best to be prepared for it early, instead of delaying. Thank you!

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2 years ago

I think ... life begins when you are aware of living. No matter what though, you should never quit being alive as long as you live. There are lots of people out there who are just breathing without the essence of life anymore.

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2 years ago

Yeah, when we grasp that we are living in this world, I think that is when we truly start living. It is sad but that last part you said is true, so many people are just breathing without life.

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2 years ago

yes.. :) I just hope we don't get to live like zombies.. :(

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Yup am agree with you the exact age when our life is started is eighteen, at this age we want to explore the world but as we grow we do mistakes, learnt from them. Me also learnt lots of lesson and did lot of adventures after 18, 😹

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2 years ago

I think it is the person can only decide, if they will start there life maturely. Also the responsibility of the person.

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2 years ago

Exactly, my friend! Thanks for dropping by!

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Okay this was very incisive.. and yes you are right many of us sometimes make the mistake of waiting for our lives to begin .. forgetting that the key to the drive of life is in our hands …eighteen for me might be too young because one is just starting out and different people learn in different way and in different speed .. life is hard sometimes we just have to be make plans and have faith that we are moving in the right direction

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Yeah, we don't have to necessarily start at 18, but the point is we should start early, and take control of our lives. No one would care if you are poor in the future, they will even mock you, so that is why we should not waste our youth, and do things that will benefit us in the long run.

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Yeah that’s true okay I get the point now

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2 years ago

Ah huh. By the age of eighteen we are still overwhelmed with life that we tend to try different things altogether and we forget to do what we really need to do.

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What I think is life start when you want it to. Depending on how you manage life and take responsibility then life begins. If you decide at the age of eighteen to start what is referred to life, life start from there.

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2 years ago

Yeah, it all depends on when you want to start taking responsibility, and it is important we start early because the earlier the better.

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2 years ago

Indeed, where is the line after which a non-human becomes a human being? The beginning of the heartbeat? I think that line is birth.

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2 years ago

According to me life Start when you developing into infant in your mother placenta. Actually life has different phases. We go through all of them. Every phase of life has difficulties and we learn from mistakes. But, if we talk about maturity yes it comes between 18 to 22 year.

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Yeah, there are different stages in life, but when we talk about maturity I guess we can say 18-22 years because that is where we learn how to take care of ourselves without our parents.

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University degrees are a great achievement because they require great effort. I have two. They teach you that everything must be obtained if you fight for it. Thanks to my degrees I have obtained everything I have ever wanted. And now I complement it with my achievements on the platforms.

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You have two? That is amazing. What I was talking about is how Nigerian universities are, you enter and spend time without getting anything, even when you work so hard for it. Degrees are great, but over here it doesn't matter how many you have, they usually pick who has more money or skill. I wasn't trying to downgrade a Degree at all.

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No. I am not thinking that you downgrade degrees. What I want to emphasize is that just as we strive to obtain titles, so do we strive for many things in life. It opens our minds to continue knowing and learning.

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