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People have never seen me, no matter what I do, and I've always been a ghost to them. Because there is always someone smarter, more talented, stronger, or more attractive than me, ordinary children like me are treated like ghosts. We are invisible. But to be honest, I've learned to embrace being a ghost! Ghost have more fun anyway. Go about like a ghost and give no care to anyone else and then peoplet notice at times. Ghosts can be everywhere, but no where all at the same time.

Don't worry about what anyone else is, be enough for yourself and things will fall into place.

I've felt this my whole life. People cut me off, when I speak, they don't listen, etc. It's hard, but I'm learning to push on and be strong. People are self absorbed. You have to be all of those things to yourself, for yourself first. I will not say that you aren't because that would invalidate your feelings so I'll just say this instead, you have us. And that is because at one point, you touched our hearts and changed our perspective in life for the better.

I used to be like that but therefore I understand that I'm more unique and capable doing a lot of things without any heavy expectations in other people around me and i called it freedom. I used it in my advantage I build my empire without noise and they started to notice and ask who I am.

Yes were invisible but we can look for an advantage of this...invisible can freely improve without them knowing.

time will always tell.

There's always perfect time for everything, its either you wait or find, we cannot control everything in our life that's why, if you have the power to take an action go for it, its either you lose or win in that action yet time will tell, if its absolutely yours or not. We Have enough time, so handle it nicely. Trust the process. I don't know a lot about what you're going through right now. But please know you're not alone on this. Whatever you are going through that you think is making you weak it will pass. You've gone this far and you'll definitely win this battle again headstrong.

U want to go on but the thought of giving up and vanish from this world still wander around in your head. Yet, most times, your thoughts are already yelling for you to give up and put a stop to it. But, you couldn't or wouldn't. For some, they must not give up because they dont have any choice but to continue. All they have to do is to take a rest, take a break and start again.

One way of conquering your fear is to face that one thing you feared most. If you emerged from this as a victor, then there is nothing in the world you would be afraid of.

When you are strong people expect you to be strong always. They have created a picture of you as a super human who never gets weak at any point, that's just a wrong picture of you in their mind. No one is ever strong forever, at the end of the day life breaks everyone, and you sometimes need time to get back up and pick yourself up to be yourself again. But the bottom line Is you'll always get back up and be fine again maybe not immediately but eventually.

Hating yourself because of something negative you see in yourself based on other peoples judging eyes, it means you want perfection in yourself. And that's positive perfection comes from God alone because He is Perfect. Only He can give you that assurance and affirmation with self fulfillment that you are indeed perfect for who you are. God made you perfect for His purpose, God made you perfect to fit in your own individuality. He made you perfect for His unconditional love, and He is so delighted in you, no matter what other people say about you, still, you are precious and perfect to be so you.

  • Most of the time you hate yourself because of other people's expectations you're trying to meet.

You're trying to find joy in forcing yourself trying to please them. The truth is, their expectations will never be satisfied, so you'll end up hating yourself. Live life the way you wanted, not the way how people expect you to live it. You hate yourself because you have a wrong focus. You focus on pleasing other people than pleasing yourself. Focus on you and realize that you have to be you, the you who is capable of committing mistakes and is also capable of learning not to commit the same mistake again. Love yourself.

We can hate our self sometime due to some decision that reflects our today. But don't hate yourself too much. As everything happens for a reason. Instead of hating yourself, take it as a lesson and prevent issues recurring. In the end only yourself can be your saviour. Don't be too hard on yourself. Trust the process.


Final Thoughts

We must accept what's the reality of life. Accept yourself from your past and what you are right now, Therefore life would be much easier. In this world of full of judgments just be you, one day people will accept just the way you are. Don't chase, attract. Give yourself time. Soon enough, you'll learn to love your scars, your flaws, your what-ifs, yourself. Believe me, it's one of the best things that'll happen in your life.

Blessed sunday everyone!

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For me, what's best is tanggapin mo na lang ung past then continue living your life. We can't undo our mistakes kaya much better is to move forward lang and if other people dislike us, its not our prob anymore.

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Just do your thing and don't try to please anybody. Your presence matter to those who are truly into you.

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Truly and wonderfully defined. Love and make peace with yourself, your past, mistakes, scars and move forward, we are flawed yet beautiful.

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True langga we should accept kung anong life natin from the past and to the present because it will make us to feel the freedom.

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Ako kung feeling ko na ghost lang ako sa isang tao yung bang pag may kailangan nakikita ka kapag walang kailangan parang hindi ka nag exist. Well hahayaan ko lang yun at mag sumikap ako at ng hindi ko na rin sila pansinin inumpisahan niyo ako and kaya I go with the flow hehe. Ganyan lang matutu tayong maging independent sa buhay kasi walang ibang tutulong sa atin kundi sarili lang din natin kasi ang mga friends aalis yan sila once hindi kana mapapakinabangan not all but mostly.

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