What is it like to be in a private relationship?
Before I often wonder what does it feel like to be hidden by someone. Hidden, in the sense that the other person wants to keep the relationship in privacy for peace of mind. Not because the other person is ashamed of having you in his life but just wants to keep you for himself. It's just that you are a secret that needs to be kept because both of you are at the wrong time.
What does it feel like to be in a private relationship? All your photos and memories are kept only in the gallery with a privacy code to unlock. You wanted to tell the world, who is that person who makes you happy and loved but you just can't. You wanted to post every candid shot you have of him to show off that you have the best guy and how you are being treated so right, but once you do it, the world will go against it.
Secret dates on rendezvous are special and always the best. You will feel the thrill and excitement of every place you will both go. Sometimes, you have to be behind closed doors so no one will ever see you. Everybody knows you but they do not know the thing between you. You can't go in public places because there might be someone who will get curious about why are you together. It will always be the place where only the two of you know where it is. The place where you can call your haven and love the person freely and no one judges.
Sometimes, being in a private relationship, makes you feel less. You feel insecure about others being flexed by their beaus. You can't be the other person's profile picture on his social media accounts, you can't be tagged or mentioned in posts that your relationship can relate to. There will be doubts in a low-key relationship. When you are together in a public place may it be with friends or just the two of you, you act like just friends. You wanted to share one plate with him but people will wonder. You only take glances at him, so one notices and secretly checks on him without letting the others see. But, I think there will be no problem as long as both of you know the reason and you keep the consistency in the relationship.
It will never be easy. You have to trust your partner that is only the key to keeping a private relationship. It's a good thing also, so people cannot meddle and both of you will keep each other peace of mind. So, whatever it is, just stay in love and that makes the love grow. The world may be against it, but both should be stronger to fight for love.
I know it because I am in a private relationship. Even so, I am happy and contented.
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Hi! It's me, Noelle. I am sorry for being so inactive for the month of June. I will make it up to you all, guys 💖