Never Settle for a One-sided Love

If you feel like you're the only one putting energy into the relationship, the one coming to compromises, the one who makes a lot of sacrifices, the one who does the effort, I'm telling you, you better LEAVE! If you feel like you're underappreciated or disrespected in the relationship, LEAVE!

You don't have to stay in a relationship wherein it's off-balance like you are offering so much more than you're getting back in return. It's not fair to stay while you're feeling unfulfilled and you feel like you need and deserve more than this, or if you're looking for more.

It doesn't mean that walking away from a relationship that gives you less makes you someone who has a very high standard, and it doesn't make you greedy. Your expectations aren't too high, the relationship must be balanced. You should feel like both of you are giving the same effort.

No one should be trapped in a one-sided relationship, so you shouldn't! Don't force yourself to stay in the same situation just because you're used to it. Never allow your history to hold you in place. Your guilt should not be the one deciding your future.

You don't have to feel bad walking away from someone who doesn't even treat you right. Yes, moving on, forgetting, and letting go might be a hard time, but that is not enough reason for you to stay. Your options are not limited.

Happiness is always in your choices. Whatever it takes, choose it. You can choose to chase after genuine love. No need to settle for one-sided love.

You should leave if the respect is one-sided. Be with someone who prioritizes everything that you have to say, cares about your ideas and opinion and listens when you say no.

If problems arise, leave if you're the only one who compromises in the relationship. Don't put too much energy into fixing your problems when it's only you who tries to do it. You're not the only one who's always wrong every time you fought, stop saying sorry every time. You shouldn't be the only one to set things right. It should be done cooperatively. You should be on the same side. The relationship is not worth fighting at all when only want is willing to fight for the relationship.

Leave if the relationship is one-sided. You should feel that you are prioritized, valued, and cherished. You should be with someone who doesn't make you think about whether they think about you or not. Be with someone who will give you everything, not only half.

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Hi, It's me, Noelle. Been away for a while, how are y'all 😊