Is it ok to keep secrets?

Hello friends,

I would love us to discuss a very delicate topic which is keeping secret in a relationship.

Is it okay to keep secret from your lover?

We all have secrets but some are uglier than others and we feel the need not to share it with anyone.

Well, that is why it is called a secret because people don't know about it or just very few people do. 

When you enter a relationship, you promise to be truthful, to share everything with your partner but are you really truthful about everything?

Do you really tell your partner everything?

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I feel if you truely love someone just as you claim you do, there should be no room for secrecy because when you keep secret it means you have something to hide.

A relationship whereby one partner is not being sincere to the other will never last long and so if you really want your relationship to last then you should laid your all your cards on the table.

Many sweet relationships has gone sour just because of a secret kept by one partner that was later discovered by the other partner.

We all know nothing is hidden under the sun for long and one day the truth will be out so why not just come clean and tell your partner no matter how ugly it might be because a partner that truly loves you will stay no matter what.

Please don't confuse telling of secrets to lying in a relationship, that is two different subject matter.

If there is something you have done in the past or in the course of your relationship and you know if your partner knows he or she will walk away and you decide to keep it a secret, that secret will keep tormenting you untill you open up and the worst is if karma decide to show its head and you start experiencing the repercussions of your actions.

It is better you come clean so you can have a clean conscience than to hide a secret that eats you up inwardly.

I tell you, no matter how ugly that secret is, if he or she truly loves you, they will never break up with you because of it and if they left then they any the right one for you.

I know some persons will not agree with my analogy on telling secrets so I am heading to my comment section to read about your thought on the matter.

My next post will be about lying in a relationship so please stay tune.