Do you ever wonder what is the good age to get married? Maybe you think 🤔 "28 to 32"? Or others may think, "that's too old, you must marry at the age of 20s."
We have a different opinion on this matter. But, is there really an ideal age to get married?
Based on what I know, my grandmother, or my "Lola" already married at the age of 15. Too young, isn't it? It's because in their time... Their parents were the one who's in charge of choosing the husband for her daughter. That's why, after knowing that my Lola already menstruated, they decided to set a date and declared a wedding. You may think... "It's so unfair" or "They're not yet ready". Well... I think they're just fine with that. My Lola shared that at first she really doesn't know how to cook... But as time goes by, she just learned it. Because she doesn't have a choice but to do the house chores. 😂
So, that's the history. But for this millennial day, I don't think that rule is still applicable. Parents cannot control their children anymore. And people right now get married at different ages. Depending on their choice.
So frankly speaking, there's no ideal age for marriage. It's just that people feel that anytime between the ages of 25-30 is the best age to get married.
For example, if a woman wants to have a baby... She'll probably choose to get married at the age of 20s. Why? This is the time when women are most fertile and have the best chance of getting pregnant. While other people, who're choosy, or we can say "perfectionist" on choosing their ideal man or woman, tend to get married at the age of 40. Well, it's just fine. It's not too late to get married. I cannot blame them 'coz very few people out there are really worth marrying. 😅
But... Whatever age we choose, just don't marry if... it's not me. Sorry 😂✌ I mean, when you're not yet ready. 😉
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