Do you really know me?

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3 years ago

As imperfect humans, we have a tendency to make quick assumptions about people and their motives. We even judge other based on the color of their skin, the shape of their face, or the size of their body. All of us have a tendency to judge others by their outward appearance. But, the question is: Do you really know that person? πŸ€”

It's true that we can learn "only a little" about the person from what we see with our eyes πŸ‘€. BUT.. We cannot fully understand them by simply looking at their outward appearance. So what's my point? Try to look beneath the surface β€” at the inner person. Well, we cannot read hearts, so we will never understand others. But we can do our best.

1. Try to listen πŸ‘‚

To avoid jumping into wrong conclusions about people, try to know their background and situation (everything s/he had been through). It can helps us to "hear the facts" before giving counsel.

2. Get to know them

Maybe sometimes we concluded that a person who seems unfriendly is actually shy, or a person whom you thought to be materialistic is hospitable. See.. Rather than judge another person's actions, do your best to understand how s/he feels. Put yourself in his/her situation.

So the lesson is when dealing with one another, may we be determined to listen and learn.

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Good article.we should how to solve this ignorance people. Among the people of different β€˜ should increase awoken.

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3 years ago

Thanks for appreciating. ❀

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3 years ago

Your points are very reasonable concerning judging people. Even Psychology doesn't give 50% result sometimes. We really need to understand people very well before judging them.

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3 years ago

Yes. But sometimes its hard to control. Yet.. We still need to do our best.

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3 years ago

Just like the saying don't judge a book by its cover. Nice article.

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3 years ago

Sorry for any inconveniences it might have caused you just relax and stay calm

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3 years ago

She can do what she want. But atleast try to consider other feelings.

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3 years ago

That was why I said sorry . I know how you feel about it but maybe she didn't know it could go that way and also be ready for critics when you are exposed to a lot of people , take it normal and move on

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3 years ago

This kind of person is not a person who can understand you. He is selfish him self as well. Trying to judge someone for no reason. He may criticize your work but not your personality cause he didn't know you at all.

We are all anonymous in this platform. Giving is not something that you can force it will came from the hear. I wonder how selfish he was too ?

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3 years ago

She's already 1 month on this platform, but looks like she's not a good example for the newbies.

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3 years ago

Just ignore her bro , your articles are good ,she's harsh sometimes ,just ignore her , readcash don't like post like this

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3 years ago

Okay I understand it now. Sorry.

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3 years ago

Just calm and relax sis. Everything will be okay. Just ignore it and start to smileπŸ˜‡πŸ˜Š

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3 years ago

😊 Thank you

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3 years ago

😒

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3 years ago

Why? I read it again.. Is it nakakaiyak? Ano english nun?

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3 years ago

Some people were like that. Just ignore them or prove them that you'll be better. Goodvibes lang tayo dito. Spread Love πŸ’• Always choose to be kind 😊

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3 years ago

Thanks Yen 😊

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3 years ago

Kalimutan mo Nayan sige sige maglibang hahahaa Okay Lang Yan bro my MGA two tlagang feeling perfect , walang PaKI Alam SA iba Basta masabi Lang nila gusto nila, Hindi masamang mag bigay nang payo, Ang masama Yung sumusobra

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3 years ago

Haha.. Oo, now I know kung bakit sya ganun. Ako pala dapat kumilala muna sakanya e, bago humusga πŸ‘€

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3 years ago

Okay Lang Yan nalahanap sya katapat

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3 years ago

Dont waste your time and energy for that kind of person. chill. just pray for her😊😊

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3 years ago

Nice writing.

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3 years ago

Thank you

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3 years ago

Hey hey chill.. I understand your feelings towards her as she must've hurt your feelings BUT , let's not go shame others just because we were hurt and was embarrassed by them. She hurt you, you're mad or sad, that's fine. your feelings are valid. just let it pass. Don't mind her. If you're hurt with her comment reply your thoughts to that comment. Let's not put her on articles. She didn't do something illegal or anything. She must've hurt your feelings and must've insulted you but as what we say in tagalog, "ang isang pagkakamali hindi matatama ng isa pang pagkakamali" .. I feel for you, really, that comment is really hurting. But I just don't see the need for her to be posted.Actually, she has been contradicting some of my articles or some of my thoughts in my articles since I got here. (though she's the first person to upvote me I guess) But she keeps on contradicting some of the things I say. She even screenshot her comment in my article and put it in one of her articles to make a point. And it felt bad for me. But she didn't copied anything in my article so I was fine with it. My point is, let's be mature even if other's cant.

BUt then I'm thinking this might be okay. But then I think again, maybe it's a bit too harsh but she was harsh too.. urghhhh hahaha... I don't know this is your post, it's your thoughts, who am i to judge that. haha. maybe I'm just worried that this platform will begin to be have more resenting posts than those helpful ones. ang gulo ng pag-iisip ko, noh? haha

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3 years ago

Okay I got you. I understand your point. Thanks for saying that. I'll just edit my post. πŸ‘

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3 years ago

ayyy. don't do that dahil lang sinabi ko. It's your decision. Article mo yan eh tsaka feelings mo yan. Magkaiba lang siguro tayo. :) pero what she called your aticle is sooo below the belt ha... that's not nice.

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3 years ago

Di.. Pinag iisipan ko na din talaga kanina kung ipopost ko to. Actually wala ako planong imention sya, kaya lang nagawa ko e. Pero.. Sorry. Nadala lang ako ng emosyon ko.

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3 years ago

oo we understand you naman. ok lang yan. may times talaga na madadala tayo ng emosyon natin. That's what makes us human.

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3 years ago

This is mostly like my point just stay calm @Myt.24 and move, that is what makes the game going without critics It won't be fun and with @Jdine's opinion of not putting her on articles I really love that let's maintain that bridge. You were hurt but don't put it on topic , tolerate it and let's move on . Thank you

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3 years ago

I was calm eariler but I can't say that now haha. Cause someone just did the same thing to me earlier haha. Only that the person didn't include my name. I commented,though in her article explaining my side and (maybe) I become emotional haha.... the person was expressing her feeling about her article that I rejected. And saying that she can't take it. I checked via a plagiarism check website. If the website did something wrong or I did something wrong, I would to be corrected properly and not be posted (although she didn't include my name and I thank her for that)

It's really sad when people starts to post articles about how think they interpret what you did or decision is. Where's the respect and fairness to that, right? I still don't think there a need for such articles. We are in a platform with different kinds of people but if we respect each other, and I mean each other-bothsides, maybe we can all really enjoy the platform.

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3 years ago

Respect is the key and I support that. I know that feeling of disrespect, thanks for your opinion and I love it

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3 years ago

Thanks as well.. :)

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3 years ago

I've also been criticized by her many times. Both good and bad criticisms though. I respect her opinions too. But I think calling someone's article cheap just because you don't agree with it is not right. It can discourage especially newbie authors. We can always express our opinions here but with respect.

PS. Kalma sis. Keri yan. Sa mga ganyang comment tayo mas matututo at lalawak ang ating pag-unawa. πŸ™‚

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3 years ago

GNyan tlaga Yan sya haha basher

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3 years ago

oo sa akin din kaya. halos lahat ng sabihin ko kokontrahin niya. haha. pero di din ako nagaagree masyado sa mag kontra niya. minsan inilalaban ko din yung part ko ahaha...

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3 years ago

Napost ko dinaya dati binura kolang , nung bago Lang ako , pero minsan Naman my point ung sinasabi nya pero ngaun msyado na e

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3 years ago

oo minsan may point naman ngayon parang nonsense na minsan parang malayo na yung narating ng pagiisip niya ganun. tulad nung sabi ko dun sa post ko yata or article na kung wala siyang maisip na topic eh mag hanap sa siya google ng ideas. Ayun kinontra niya kesho daw pag nag google at kumuha ng ideas hindi na daw creative writing tsaka dapat free writing lang daw ganun. haha. kinontra ko din sabi ko maghahanap lang naman ng idea di naman kokopyahin yung content. madami kasi sa atin minsan nap[apaisip ka na, ano kaya magandang isulat ngayon na tungkol sa ganito sa ganyan. edi mag search ka. hanap ka ng topic ideas tungkol sa gnito tungkol sa ganyan tapos mula sa topic na yun gumawa ka ng sarili mong article. wala nama masama dun dba haha. pinabayaan ko na lang din. balakajan kako nalang sa isip ko. haha

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3 years ago

Hahaha. Kakatawa ka Jdine. Wag na kayo magcomment about sakanya. Baka pagmulan ng gulo. Idelete ko nalang din kaya tong article? πŸ€” Sa palagay nyo haha

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3 years ago

hoy di pwede! kasi yung mga nakuha mong points dito, idededuct sa points mo haha

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3 years ago

Ayy ganun. Nagmamalinis pa ee noh 🀭

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3 years ago

hahaha ok lang yan. wag mo nalang masyadong dibdibin alam mo na.. pag nagpost tayo dito anjan na lahat ng klase ng tao na makakabasa ng articles natin. dapat handa tayo sa hamon ng buhay.. wahaha

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3 years ago

Okay okay. First time ko kasi makaencouter ng ganun. Well, knowing na ganun pala talaga sya kahit sainyo. Ako nalang mag aadjust. Kakahiya naman sakanya. Joke ✌️

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3 years ago

Hindi ka nag iisa sis, marami tayo haha

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3 years ago

Hindi ka nag iisa sis, marami tayo haha

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3 years ago

Salamat ahh 😊

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3 years ago

haha oo ganun talaga siya beshy. Don't let it get into your mind. madami pang ganyan. may isa pa pero secret nalang ahahaha

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3 years ago

Hahaha.. Parang gusto din imention ahh πŸ˜‚ buti nalang marunong ka sa buhay. πŸ˜…

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3 years ago

hahahaha balik tayo duns a nangopya ng article mo? gawin ko din kaya bisaya, ilocano at iba pa ang articles mo? haha para multi dialect and language ang peg..

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3 years ago

Haha.. Sige subukan mo. Mamemention ka din sa ibang article nyan πŸ˜‚

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3 years ago

Sakin din hahaha minsan nagsasagutan kami sa comments nyan, tapos minsan di ko na lang pinapansin masyadong malawak pag.iisip nyan sa sobrang lawak wala na point minsan Hahahaha may pinagdaanan ata yan, base lang sa mga articles nya and minsan sa comments nya sa articles ko..

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3 years ago

hahaha kaloka ka. kami din minsan eh. haha hayaan niyo na positive vibes lang tayo dito para masaya ang platform. pabayaan niyo na mga hindi mga ibang tao. as long we know we don't harm or hurt anyone go lang ng go..

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3 years ago

She's just like that, I often got critics from her both negative and positive she's really active in doing that, but despite that I didn't mind. There are people really like that, like thier opinions sometimes out of the line 😁😁 but still I'm her subscriber lol. Maybe it's just her way of expressing herself, things she can't do in her real life. She even commented one of my articles saying "No offense but this is not an article this is mere questioning about what's happening now" but I just shrugged it off and didn't reply to her comments HAHHAHAHA! In this kind of environment we should learn how to accept critics from others, learn the art of deadma. But just that sometimes she's crossing the line. Sorry for the word miss if you read this 😁😁😁 Peace be with us all.!!! And to you Myt.24 just don't mind her, your article is not cheap, everyone is not doing cheap just that we have different opinions. We are not entitled to criticize someone's articles below the belt after all we are not in a competition.

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3 years ago

Pambihira. Idelete ko nalang kaya tong article. Parang nakakapasama talaga e haha.. Sorry na. Di ko naman talaga intensyon na pahiyain sya. Tinuturuan ko lang sana ng lesson, ee kaso di pala ko teacher 🀭

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3 years ago

Hahahahhahaa remove mo na lang yung ss nang comments nya para di nya alams at remove tag jusko baka e banned ka ni read cash hahahhaa. Hayaan mo na yan may pinagdadaanan ata yan 😁😁😁

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3 years ago

haha natawa naman ako sa "may ponagdadaanan" haha bad kayo hahaha

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3 years ago

Meron tlaga besh, base lang sa mga articles nya at minsan na rin nag comments yan sa articles ko, I think she's abandoned by her dad and mama nya mdjo ma attitude din kaya. Ganyan sya parang bully sa iba kasi ganon pinagdadaanan nya. Venting out her emotions outside her real life

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3 years ago

Nabasa ko pa nga lang tong new article nya. So totoo yun? Kung ganun talaga pinagdadaanan nya. Then nakakaawa din pala. Kaya sya ganyan kasi yun ang environment na kinalakhan nya.

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3 years ago

Oo parang totoo yan, kase kung hindi bakit sya ganyan. May article ako e publish basahin mo para maintindihan mo sya hahahhaa

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3 years ago

I don't know. I don't want to go that deep into her life. balasyajan

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3 years ago

Pwede pwede. Haha, nu bayan πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ kayo pala makakadelete nyang comments nyo.. Di ako haha

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3 years ago

Na edit ko na yung comments ko wala na name nya πŸ˜‚ walang delete delete friend edit edit na Lang, laban lang alaxan hahahhaha

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3 years ago

Hahaha.. Ewan ko sainyo πŸ˜‚ salamat ahh haha

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3 years ago

haha walang delete delete laban ng pilipinas toh parang abs cbn lang yan ahaha charot!

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3 years ago

Pinaglalaban ko nga.. Kaso di naman ako pinaglalaban 😩

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3 years ago

hala siya. hahaha yun pa din ba topic natin or parang iba na??? haha

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3 years ago

Ayy hala.. Ano ba topic 🀭

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3 years ago

Yes, you are right. Life becomes what is desirable, according to how much learning has happened. We don't seem to know most of the people with whom a lot of our own association takes place. Although, we tend to listen to them, and learn more about their personalities.

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3 years ago

It's because we cannot read hearts. So instead of jumping into conclusions.. We need to stop, observe, and listen to that person. It's the best way (I think) to avoid judging others.

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3 years ago

Never forget that you'll only see what another will show you though because in the end, no matter how hard both of you would try yo get through to each other, there will always be a few things you will never know or will still be surprised to know

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3 years ago

It's true. We can't even understand ourself sometimes, so it's really hard to the other people to do it too. But atleast we do our best to understand them by listening and knowing them.

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3 years ago

Yes,your right, as far as I know the probability of you getting critized or judged by other people is high. There are always people like that and I will not get shock if there is someone talking negative about me. It's part of the society your in and there's nothing you can do about it. The question is what will you going to do to yourself about it. I mean you can't do anthing to them so just let them be. Just to do whats you gonna do if you knew you were in the right path and position. Words cut deeper than swords you know and it heals slowly. So don't cry or sulk in the corner, just strengthen your mental ability and don't let it get reach to you. Because if they said something negative about you, their conscience will not rest and bother them. And you, you can sleep peacefully at night knowing that you haven't done anything wrong. In your article, you asked if is true that you can learn or know a little about a person by just seeing them. My answer is yes because there's a 50 percent probability that what you foresee about her is right. But as you began to see them often then the probability might increase.

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3 years ago

Thanks for this informative and awesome comment. It's really true that words are like swords.. So we need to be very careful on using words. Like what I actually did today, I know it was wrong and it can really hurt others. So I'll be very carefull nextime and try to be positive at all times (although it's hard.. But I'll try my best).

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3 years ago

One of the severe weaknesses of humans. "Bias" people are tend to label with something although they have no idea about who you really are. Very nice post. Thanks a lot :)

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3 years ago

We have this saying that "Don't judge a book by its cover. "

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3 years ago

Yes. It's hard sometimes, but it can be a really big help if you achieve those. πŸ˜‰

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