Recreate

October 8 | Saturday

Life's a ride. One day we'll feel overwhelmed and sorry for ourselves with all that's happening in our lives. Then on the other day, we would feel like life is great. It depends. Life is like the weather. Sometimes rainy, sometimes sunny. It's not perfect though. It's not always butterflies and rainbows. I think sadness and pain are just perfect as they make life balanced.

I read somewhere on social media that life gets sadder as people age. Do you think so? Somewhere in the adulting stage, life would be messed up. I have tried being on Twitter, I searched the people that I know. They look great in person but when you see through their eyes, there is a sadness that lies. When you contemplate, it seems like they have everything they could hope for and it seems like everything is going well in their lives. Not until I read their tweets.

I think we all have our depressing episodes in life. Maybe work stress and peer pressure triggers it. It's innate. Sometimes they just don't manifest because we are content with the progress we do on the daily basis or we are too occupied that we don't have time to have a breakdown but when we are tired and restless, all of the insecurities would come out and we would be anxious about life.

I believe in that notion though, like life, Christmas becomes sadder as we age. Maybe we have just romanticized and fantasized about life so much when we were kids that when we are finally adults and have an understanding of reality. The harsh reality. We become disappointed.

Life's not to be blamed. Our perception messed us up, not life. We fantasized about life so much when we were kids. We can't blame our younger version too. We were naive then and we have so much faith in people and the world. I think we have to shift our perspective and stop blaming life. It's time to quit labelling life as 'unfair'. It's time to stop blaming our destiny.

Let's start creating and living the life we want. Let's start romanticizing how we want our life to turn out. We only have ourselves to blame. The accountability lies in our hands.

So, when you don't like how your life goes now, make a move and recreate it.

Hello friends! How have you been? How's life treating you lately? I hope you are doing good this weekend and that you are enjoying your tea.

Please take your time and be a princess/prince today and tomorrow before we become slaves of our work again on Monday. Lol

Thanks for reading. Until the end.

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