Breakfast na National Cake

Breakfast na national cake, it go touch everybody.

It don touch my guy.

I dey wait for my turn Oh.

That's the chorus a popular song in my country which depicts how breakups and heartbreaks are common in the society.

Today is Valentine day and I am not here to preach to you about love and all of that infact I am here to say the exact opposite. I am here to talk about the rate of broken relationship and unfaithfulness in relationships and to tell you that true love does not exist in our society.

Unfaithfulness in relationships and infidelity in marriages is so common nowadays that people see it as normal. People don't even expect guys or ladies in relationships to be faithful to one another and expect them to cheat or be cheating. It is a common thing for people to insinuate such things as it is common and rampant in our society.

People think in such a way because it is a man's natural tendency to like more than one woman. It is actually natural just like in any male animal to mate with more than one woman. A man cannot boldly say he likes just one woman, that is practically impossible. He might be in a relationship but there is a lady out there that he likes. He is only in that relationship because that girl is offering him something the other girl is not. Once he is out of that relationship he will move on to that girl he fancies.

Just like the saying that there are many fishes in the oceans, there are also many women out there especially the beautiful ones. I don't think you can ever run out of beautiful women in this world, there are so many. Most men are not satisfied and will want to be with any beautiful lady they set their eyes upon, whether romantically or sexually. Men are attracted to beautiful ladies and if they find a lady more beautiful than their girlfriend or wife they will probably cheat on her.

Generally men in our society aren't raised to be faithful to their partners and are told they can get any woman they want as long as they have money. They don't see women as people who should be cherished but as properties to show off and be used as they wish. Women haven't tried in this regard. They haven't made the situation any better and are even making it worse.

Women nowadays are after only one thing and that is money. Once a guy has that, that is more than enough for them. They do not care what the guy is doing for a living. Whether he is an internet fraudster or an armed robber. As long as he has money and lots of it at that. They do not care about love and men that truly love them but are after money maybe because it gives them a sense of security.

No woman wants to suffer even though they might tell you otherwise. They want a man that will grant them security in form of money. They do not want to hustle with you. This is why they go after yahoo boys who have already 'made it'. This doesn't help them as this boys abuse them in ways that you can only imagine. They know that they are only after their money and not because they truly care about them as such they treat them as trash knowing that they can get any other girl they want.

In short, nobody is really faithful in our society. We are after our lustful desires and satisfaction. We do not love we lust. The society does not help the situation at all as the meaning and definition of love has been messed up. People do no longer believe in love because of the experiences they've passed through. Broken marriages around us. The society celebrating divorce and celebrities portraying it at as normal.

Money itself has messed everything up as people see it as the most important thing in any relationship. Nobody wants to suffer but that doesn't mean the love of money should cloud your judgement. Money is important, yes but it is not the main thing in any relationship. Love, commitment and perseverance is what holds any relationship together.

Young men should start to respect ladies and see them as people who should be taken care of and not handled anyhow. They should not succumb to the pressure of making money at a young age and if a woman can not stay with you at your low point then she is not the one for you.

Ladies should know that money isn't everything particularly in a relationship and that money cannot buy you happiness or infact love. You should love a guy for who he is and not for what you can get from him. You should learn to stick with him through thick and thin because that is what a responsible and mature partner does.

The fact that broken relationships are common in our society is because mature people aren't in this relationships. People who don't know the meaning and aren't ready for the sacrifices. If you know that you are not going to be committed, just please save everyone the trouble.

Till next time guys and know that breakfast is a national cake and it will soon reach your turn.