Slaps of Reality
Ignorance is part of human nature, people are trying hard to see things on just one angle that they want, and try to ignore the other views. People tend to be denial on things that they themselves knew that it is really the reality and it just slaps them on their face yet still they are trying to avoid the hard slap of reality and just stay still on what they believed.
Life is harsh sometimes, there's a lot of wrong holes, wrong timings, a dark areas, a storm surge, a turbulent waves that humans faces everyday, yet people will always be people, even it hurts, even it's pain them, and make them suffer, people will still deal with this, a lot survived a d just continue to fight yet others don't because they easily give up.
Now I just want to share on this article the reality slaps that I just noticed in how many years of my existence in this earth:
Loving the things you hate in your Childhood
This really slaps my present self, you know when we were just a child we tend to hate some things our parents told us to do, like sleeping in the afternoon, back then I used to escape from my mom because I hate sleeping in afternoon, but now that I'm already a grown up, I crave for sleeping especially in afternoon haha. Next is staying outside, back then I feel uneasy staying indoors because I want to spend my whole day playing outside, but now I just want to just stay indoors rather than to go out. See I started to enjoy things that I hate in my childhood.
Love alone is futile in relationships.
We all know that love is an important element people should possess but love alone is not effective when it comes to entering a relationship, there's a lot needed to make a relationship work, like commitments, trust, understanding, patience and money. Of course love alone cannot put food on a table. We should be practical especially today.
Mistakes are just mistakes if you don't learn from it
We always says that mistakes are part of life and it's really is, and it's normal for us to make one, or more but mistakes is just a mistake if we don't gain lesson from it, if we just did it again and again, and we are just running in circles of our mistakes and it's a waste of time. Mistakes should be a lesson not just an error, it shoukd not stay as it is rather it should be a moral to us humans. We must learn from our own mistakes.
Blaming others feels good than looking at the mirror
I really admit this, I know it's inappropriate to blame other for things that I knew I was the one who caused it, for my own shortcomings in life, yet it really feels good to blame others for your own mistakes that to just reflect on the mirror and see who's to blame. I know it's bad and really a red flag but yeah. But this is back then because I realized that it's my doing and it's my responsibility so I shouldn't blame others for this instead I just fixed it ln my own and be a better person who is responsible for her own doings.
You will loose a lot of things and people
It's normal and natural to lose some because things and people just come and goes, some may leave some may not, but in this journey there's a lot to lose in order to reach your journey, you may outgrew someone or they outgrew you and itvs okay, life will alway be like that. Sometimes letting go is the only solution to move on and prioritize yourself than others.
Closing thoughts
We shouldn't let ignorance enveloped ourselves. Humans are far stronger than anything and we should be starting to chabge and grew from within then spread it to all. Positivity is great yet we should accelt those reality even it is a hard slap on us. Be the best version of yourself no matter what, problems just come and goes we need to deal with it because it is part of living. Even how many slaps we get from reality we shouldn't stop, instead we learned from all of it and make it a motivation and inspiration for your own growth.
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That's it for today hehez have a great weekend eveyone, happy Saturday to all of you my dear skies. I'm so glad that I could finally rest after a loong week of stress and exhaustion but there's still a lot of pending activities I should be doing but my body and mind just decided not to hahaa. Kidding maybe I should do it if I have the will. Anyways have wonderful night and stay hydrated everyone!
Such irony noh? But of course, changes happen and it's up to us whether we accept, adapt or try to repel them :)