Lola's care is the best (Grandparents love)
Grandparents love us like their own child, they fed our childhood days with stories, love, and care. They love to spoil us with everything, and I believed the common enemy for us grandchildren and grandparents is the parent, our grandparent really is amazing when it comes to their grandchildren, sometimes they have the stronger bond than to the parents.
Ever experienced growing up with your grandparents? especially to your grandmother, does it feel like it always be the best care ever. Like they spoiled us and treat us like their own daughter, even our mom scold us, they always there to protect us but also teach us lesson that we will never forget.
I remember my mom said to my grandmother that she was jealous because it seems like our grandma loves us more than her who is her own legitimate daughter haha, but I really understand my mom haha it seems unfair for her yet I love how my grandma explained it to us...
She said to my mom that "it's not unfair, yes of course I'm your mother but that's it, I'm your mother so I get to set and make rules for you when you are such a young kid, but I don't have the place to make rules for my grand children because it your place to make because you are their mother. "
Growing up with our grandparent seems like another amazing story to tell, I grew up with my grandmother on my side, her house is near ours so I just go there whenever I want, and seeking for my grandmother's love and care haha, I'm a Lola's girl so I used to go and visit my grandma if I have a free time to do so,
I spent my whole afternoon listening to her talks, her laughs, and also her chika haha, we are always like that, then after that she will rants about what our neighbors doing, about people she hate, about everything actually, but to be honest, I really enjoy that simple moment with my grandmother,
She will served my favorite food which is oatmeal haha, then after that she started to asked me how was my day, how was school, why I just visit her even when I have a lots to do, and other stuff she will just randomly ask,
She also love to talk about what my future will be, she said I should bring her to places she wanted to go and restaurants to eat if I already had stable job, that I promised her that I will do it just wait for a mean time hahaha I'm almost there,
You see I love the time and bonding moments with my grandma, it just helps me to relieved my stress in school and in everything, I just wish that she will always stay like that, happy and still strong enough, but sometimes I'm afraid to think the worst case scenario that life would bring us,
So I always pray for her long life, health and strength, I wanted to see her when I already achieved my dreams and goals, I wanted her to be there what ever happens.
So I just want to tell you all that we should enjoy every moment we spend to our grandparents, not everyone had a chance to meet their grandparents, we must take care of them, love them, and give time to talk and bond with them. Some grandparents feel that when their own child grew up and became a parent they will less likely to depend on them, then our grandparents would feel that they are not much needed, but when the birth of their grandchildren gives them another chance to became lively again to have a role to take care of their grandchildren and to spoil them with so much love like their own child.
That's it for today, now I need to actually rest for a bit haha I'm still exhausted from this afternoon class and decided to write this one, suddenly I miss my grandmother hahaha so I just need to free my schedule this weekend so that I could go and bond with her. Anyway have a great day everyone, happy Monday!
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aww. what a nice relationship you have with your grannie. As for me, I wasn't able to meet both of my grandparents on my father side and on my mother side, I wasn't really close to them. They already died a long time ago and maybe, I was too young to understand the concept of love back then.
Still, I really think oldies are just so sweet. I have lots of old folks whom I am close with and they are just so sweet.