Small is a word friend. But its depth and breadth are limitless.

Which some short-minded people do not understand or do not want to understand.

The word friend literally means friend, ally, friend, relative, loved one, lover or benevolent person. And the word friendship literally means friendship, friendship, camaraderie and friendship. The word Suhrid means good heart in the dictionary of Bangla Academy. Mitra means ‘friend’ and the word friend means ‘companion’. The word romance means ‘love pot’ or ‘man worthy of love’. In a word, boyfriend.

With a little thought, the word friend comes very close to two things. One is friendship and the other is love. Friendship is a different heart between two different people. Although it sounds like a light word. Even after this, its meaning is extraordinary and sacred. Friendship helps to build the holiest relationship between two people. And there is no chance to separate it from human life. Friendship has become an integral part of every human life from ancient times to the present day.

Some people need overall support to survive beautifully. Those people are above many big interests. One helps the other to survive. Sociologists say that life is incomplete without friends. No man can walk alone. Although many experiences with friends are not pleasant. The one from whom the deception is obtained is not a friend.

Boy-girl friendship creates respect and cooperation towards women or girlfriends.

Because the condition of friendship is respect, good manners, giving due dignity, help and cooperation. If I don't make friends, how can I show respect to him? How can I cooperate with him? God is pleased with what you do. And, do you know why eveteasing is? Because they can't mix with girls. They then treat the girls in a contradictory manner. But when they have friends, they will understand, "I am treating him so badly. If I treat my friend badly, I will feel bad." Remember, the friend who helps, gives the right status, is the real friend. What does that mean? If a boy helps his girlfriend, then that boy is the real friend of that girl. Now if it is said that it is haraam to befriend the opposite sex, it means it is haraam to give him dignity and help. But in fact, if you help women, if you give them dignity, God will be happy. Rather, God is displeased with eve-teasing. So the thing that cuts off eveteasing, where there is help-cooperation, how can it be haram?

And, many have said that if friendship lasts a long time, it becomes love. Reactions occur between the opposite sex. In fact, this tension does not always turn into love. Many times it is seen that intimacy is increasing due to the surge. But since there is no responsibility in each other, it cannot become true love. Many people think that boys and girls fall in love when they make friends. In fact, that is not true. If you fix your mind a little bit, you will see that you and another girl are each other's best friends, but not each other's lovers. With a little effort, you can build a relationship with a girl who is not a best friend but a lover. Hey Dad, if you can make a difficult subject like physics, chemistry easy to read, then why shouldn't it be easy to omit love.

So in the end I can say that friendship between love and friendship is good and permissible. I can't say anything about love because I don't know much yet.

#writing_by @Meherun