Listen, Learn, and Grow!

19-OCT-2022

​Life is not a competition about who struggles the most. Yes, you can have the same struggle as someone else but that does not mean that you have to deal with them in the same way or react the same way. Everyone has their way to deal with the suffering they going through.

Your way of dealing can be different from others and vice versa listening to someone's story and telling them how they should feel or react is not right. Give your opinions but never forced them to do this or that. You can not justify someone's emotion if they are feeling it least you can do it by their side and show some sympathy and moral support toward them.

Maybe what they are telling is not even the entire story so it's important to just listen. Sometimes, some people don't sum up their courage to share every terrible thing that had happened to them before. If someone puts trust in you, you should respect it and just listen to them. No need to give a lot of unnecessary speeches to them just be with them at their hardest time.

"Learn to Listen to Others"

We all are struggling somewhere in our life so respect each other's struggle if you can't then stay silent. Stop deciding how one should feel, reply and react to certain situations. When you are listening to someone's else problem you should avoid talking about your problems or struggles, just appreciate each other, understand and forgive and move on.

His struggles are bigger than mine:-

Just a few days back I met someone from my city. If I can say he is the most sensible, kindhearted, and mature person then it will not be wrong.

Mostly, I try to stay away from most of the people (boys) in my life, especially in the virtual world coz of their shit thoughts and flirtatiousness. But after knowing little about him I find out a gem.

Wait, let me clear up something first.

He is way bigger than me. I mean an experienced guy going to complete his thirties soon. Haha,

Before digging into the main subject. One question arises in my mind.

Have you ever talked to someone and felt like the next person is in more pain than you but still he is so patient and you are so ungrateful?

I always give time to people before trusting them completely. If anyone wants to open themselves in front of me I always carefully listen to them first without passing any kind of judgment.

After listening to his talks, his pains, his struggles, and at the end betrayal I felt like my pain and suffering is nothing in front of his pain but still, the person is so patient and motivated me to do my best in my life.

The only painful thing that come to my mind was who are those people that will make life hell to find real peace in their life?

Well, the only thing I learned from him is to be patient in every difficult task of your life and never look back once you move on. Live every moment to the fullest and leave the rest. There is a lot more coming ahead. Just be focused and determined to achieve your goals.

I think it's enough for me to look at myself and be grateful for everything.

Have a lot more things on my plate but will conclude it later.

For now, I am ending it here coz it's too late now Oh Yes, I have early morning classes at the university so will see you all around. Bye-Bye

The End...

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