Ways to know good friends

I avoid a kind of friend badly.That is the gossip.Suppose five people open a group on a messenger and make a bad comment about someone, they make a Mimi about him.And when one of these five is rotten, the four of them open a group on another messenger and make bad comments in his name.Three of those four have opened a new group, only to speak against one another.

Friends like this are not really friends, they are just a time bomb.Because the moment you walk away from them, they will open a new group and make bad comments in your name.The way I choose to be a true friend is to talk about how my friend is speaking out against someone he doesn't like. Is he talking too much against her?And Alhamdulillah I am not an ad in any group where gossip is spread against others.I want them to tell me directly if I have made a mistake.But in my absence, you will make bad comments about me, criticize me, I hate these people.There have been people like this in my life but by avoiding them I am happily at peace in life.This does not mean that you should avoid everyone. You will only avoid those who laugh and make fun of you.And I don't want friends to tell me that even if I made a mistake, they would tell me that you did it right.

I wish they would correct me if I did something wrong or help me to correct it.When I was working with my friends after finishing my studies, a friend of mine was living abroad and he hit me hard and said if you want to go out of the country then I have to go now. Because of his words, I am established today.The things we always do are not always right. Your friend should point out the mistakes.And if no one does it then he is not your true friend.I am very happy because I have such friends in my life. You think you will share everything with your friend who will always support you, but you don't need a friend who will make you a reality.

You may or may not want a friend who will always support you, but I want to have a friend who will challenge me, catch my mistake.They show me the way. Because before the parents, they also help us to understand the reality.So we should have friends who will catch our mistake.This does not mean that you will change all your friends. Just match any friend who is helping you to move forward.

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