Rejection is not someone wanting you out of their life but instead it someone that God wanted out for your future.
Once on our life, we experience rejection. We feel that rejection is the hindrance on our goals right? Sometimes, we tend to be demotivated because we feel rejected. There is also some of point on our life that we asked God " Why you give me failures and another struggles even I've prayed for a smooth life?" We are too focused on doubting someone or maybe ourselves everytime we got rejected. We think that we are not enough that's why we got a rejection in life. But you know what, sometimes your rejection is a sign that God allowing you for redirection. He guide us to the better path.
21 years of being human on earth, I can say that I've experienced a lot of rejections in life. I remember that there is a time that I'm so depressed because I thought that it will gonna be the end of my life. Sounds exaggerating right? Seems that the whole world hates and treats me unfair.
I've experienced rejection on my own family. If you are aware, I already share here before that I'm not close to my mother's family for the reason that they discriminate their own members. For them until you are not a professional , you are nothing to the family. So I feel rejected because everytime I tried to reach them out, it seems that they don't see me. They ignores me literally. My mom knows this too so sometimes she and her family argue because of it. I honestly admit that it really hurts my feelings before. Rejection from your own family is another level of pain. But I also learn how to used this rejection from them as my kind of redirection. How? I already accept the fact that I can't convince them now instead I need to prove to them that I'm worth it enough. So because of their rejection, I also motivate myself to study hard and double my effort in everything I do in life. Now, their rejection becomes my inspiration.
Another rejection that I've experienced is when I was looking for a University before. I feel like that I've got rejected because even I passed all of my dream Universities, I still don't given a chance to study there. It's because of the limited slots though. Slot is my major problem before. That time , I feel like I don't have any hope to enrolled in any school but thanks to God because He lead me to find RTU to become my University. But it's not the end. Another rejection was given to me when there is no remaining slots for my first choice so I don't have a choice but to enrolled on my second choice. It's still incline on my first choice ,so I grabbed the opportunity. But if I was so devastated before , now I can say that I'm happy because I can able to meet a lot of people and a sort of friends there. Maybe God redirect me to the career that I should belong. I already accept that it's might be my destined course and profession soon.
From that kind of rejections I've experienced before, I learn a lot of lessons in life. One of it is , not all our prayers will be answered the way we wanted. It's either on this two, maybe God already answered your prayers but you still didn't realize it because it's not your expected answered or maybe He is telling you to just wait because He prepares something better for your future. Another thing that I've learn is "Rejection is not an indication of failure" because if we can used this rejection as our opportunity and we look it to the positive side, we can realize that it's not actually a rejection but instead a redirection in life. It allows us to be more braver and be optimistic on the decisions /actions that we do on our life. I start this article with a quote and I will end with a reminder. "Don't ever think that you always got rejected but rather you should be thankful because you was given a chance for a redirection".
Hello dreamers. It's another article from your crazy dreamer. I'm glad that I can able to published tonight on despite that I don't have a topic earlier. I just let my hand to type all of my thoughts in my mind. Thank you for your support,like and comments. I really love seeing those kind of appreciation 🤗🤗
Rejection turns to redirection, if you think this way, it means your taking rejection in a positive way possible, instead of getting hurt or affected.