Don't just look at your Wounds forever

Your wounds is probably not your fault, but healing is your responsibility

-Denice Frohman

Wounds really exist. We can't deny that even we are too much careful, there's still a time that we accidentally get some wounds. Sometimes we even asked ourselves where we get those wounds. In life, there's so many wounds that the world could give to us. The wounds that cannot only be seen by our eyes but the wounds that our hearts can also felt. I believe that the most painful wounds is the one that is not visible to others and we, ourselves is the only one who can heal it.

Just like in normal day especially when we are still a careless kid, when we suddenly stumbled then we noticed that we had wounds, what is the first thing that we do? Some of us will cried first and shout "Mooomm" while some of us will immediately get some alcohol and cotton to clean it or just put a band aid on it. You know that scene can also be reflect on how we deal on our wounds today. I'm not just referring about the wounds physically but also the pains we had in emotional aspects. To heal our wounds, some of us need someone who can help them to endure all the pains. Sometimes, we even shared and tell to our family or friends that wounds we have in our heart just to lessen the pain right? Sometimes we even cry hoping that it will lessen the pain. But there's some brave person who choose to found a cure on that pain by themselves. It is simply because of they don't want to bother someone anymore. They don't want to let others know that they keep some wound sin their hearts. For them, it is already enough that they are only the one who endure the pain because they don't want other people also feel the pain that they have. It's better to keep than to share.

But as long as we tried to heal our wounds, I believe that it's a good move already. All of us became a victim or maybe still a victim of wounded life right? But we should not just look on those wounds forever. The longer we look on our wounds, the deeper we identify ourselves a sa victim.We even pitied ourselves because it seems that there's no cure to it. We just accepting the fact that this wound will be there forever. That you carry that for life time. And by that time, it will gradually be harmful to us especially on letting go that wounds. Sometimes by keeping that wounds, we also not allowing ourselves to see the good things that surrounds to us. We tend overlooked greater things because we are too focus on that wounds we bare inside.

I know that recognize our wounds may be good in able to identify where it hurts or what is the exact healing we needed. But instead of just focusing on the wounds, why not focus on how to heal that one? Maybe some of you will asked me, how? Or reason out that you really want to heal but you don't know what's the first step you need to do. I actually feel that way sometimes. I also believe that healing really takes time. We cannot force ourselves to just move on within 24 hours especially when the wound is already deep to the point that it already make a mark on your heart. You know what, how ironic that sometimes even we are willing to make a moves to heal, we can't because it seems that time doesn't allow us. Just like us, healing is also weird sometimes. Sometimes we thought that the wounds was already heal but the other days, it will hurt us again. Everything will become fresh again in our mind that it seems that it only happened yesterday. It’s a process with no definitive time frame. There's no deadline in healing. You just have to allow yourself to keep going and know that when all is said and done, you are going to be okay.

Maybe that wound can be part of your life but I just want to remind you that, it is not your whole story to be told. That wounds may be a part of your progress but it's only took a chapter in your life. Allow yourself to heal. It doesn't mean that the damage will never be existed again but it just simply means that the damage cannot control your life again. Be free and hold up yourself. Remind yourself that your life is not full of drama and tragedy, you also deserve to experience some romance in life. Not a typically romantic love from your special someone but a love that you can also get from your family, friends and even to yourself. I also believe that in every wounds we healed, there's a beautiful beginning serve for us. So I hope that everytime will find their peace after healing all the wounds we have inside. I believe that by time, you can learn how to heal and how to be genuinely happy again.

Greetings!!

Hello fellow dreamers of read cash universe. How's your Saturday so far? I hope that despite on hectic and tight schedule,I hope that you can able to rest. Give yourself a break. It seems that I'm good at saying it even me, myself and I can't give a break to myself hahaha. But on the other hand, it's so satisfying to see that I have a progress today somehow. I hope you too.

I would also grab this opportunity to say my warmest " Thank you" to all of the people who still supporting my journey here. To my sponsors, readers and commenters who motivates me to continue what I've started. And also to Rusty for always showering his support to me and to all of us here. May all of our journey here as a blogger will continue and bloom. 💚🤗