Don't conclude yet unless you heard the other side

Happy Friday dreamers!! How's your Friday night?

Since I was still not move on about what happened on my nephew and to his Mom, I don't have any energy today. I can't avoid to overthink about the kid. And if you are asking if there's an update, yeah there is. They already find the Mom and talked to her but unfortunately, she is firm not to come back to their house and not to talk nor explain everything to his son. In simply, she totally choose to abandon the kid. As much as I want to remove that on my mind, I can't help but to think about it all over again. Actually I should be excited today since it is the come back of Blackpink but sadly, I can't able to fully enjoy their tracks because of that. But their song " Happiest Girl" would be a perfect OST on my mood. Maybe the title is happy but the song itself, urgh it is totally opposite of that.

I was trying to vent out my emotions to other things. I get my phone and play random videos. Random to the point that I don't have an idea why I played those videos. Maybe, I just want to consume my phone's battery. I scrolled up back and then until I watched a short clip of HOPE episode. I got interested to the video so I click it right away. There's a boy and a girl who is already on courting or talking stage. The feelings are mutual, label is the only missing on their relationship. The girl even said that she have a plan to said yes to the boy but suddenly her ex-boyfriend came back and want to win her back. She became vocal to the boy who is courting him that her ex went to her work to talked to her. The boy who is courting the girl saw her talking to her ex boyfriend. Then without hearing the side of the girl, he conclude that the girl choose the ex over him. So he leave the girl without explaining what he really feels. The girl don't have an idea why the boy became cold to her. She became clear that she only wants closure to her ex that's why she talked to him for the last time. But after two weeks of MIA, she find out that the boy who is currently courting her already have a girlfriend. Of course ,she asked to herself why he did that. On that episode, they read a letter for each other and asked some questions. Later on, they choose to give chance to each other since they are now both single and they still have a feelings to each other. I can still find the kilig or spark while watching them earlier.

After watching that video, one thing that I realize the most is in the relationship communication is a must. Hearing each other side is really necessary to fully understand what is the exact situation or what really happens. We should not assume everything because if we only believe on our instinct, maybe it will became too late to fix the real problem. We should conclude yet base on what we see, maybe there's a story behind why she/he did that actions. That's the purpose of our ears, to listen up to the side of others and to weigh if that story supports on the things that our eyes see. Sometimes in the absence of the whole information, we lost and jump to the worst conclusion. In protecting a relationship not only a romantic but any kind of attachment, it is important to hear the other side or else your relationship would be at stake. You should not rely on your haka- haka or speculation. There's a saying that " Maraming namamatay sa maling akala. (Many die because of wrong presumption). In this scenario, I can also incorporate accounting basic rule " Don't assume unless otherwise stated". We should not stick on our assumptions without knowing the real deal of it. Behind of that assumption of yours, I believe that there's a fact behind it. The choice is yours whether you live with that or you give a chance to hear his/her side.

Ohh gosh I didn't notice that September is just so fast like that. We are already on the halfway and in a blink, October will coming on our way. Time flies so fast but here I am, spending my time to lay on my bed everyday haha. But one thing that I thank about is I'm still alive and kicking. Despite on the struggles I've encountered throughout the months I still overcome it. And that is my biggest flex for this year. I hope you feel the same way. Keep safe always dreamers and have a great weekend ahead!!