You Are What You Think Of Yourself

How do you see yourself? What do you think of yourself? Each of us has different perspectives in this world. Each of us sees the world different.

You see and feel the world based on how you think about it. Just because you see that way does not mean the others see that in that way as well. We are all unique given with different abilities and skills in life. Sometimes, how you see yourself also become how other see you as well.

The success and contentment also depends with yourself on how you see and think about it. The beauty of everything depends on how you see it as well. The filters and senses are found inside your perspectives. One of most important thing you can see, is yourself.

The way you see something is also the way how it matters to yourself. Sometimes when you see something too much or you feel like it's not good or hurting your senses it would start to matter to you because it has something to do on how you see it. Everything that we see and think about start to become connected simply because we think about them in the same way. Sometimes it leads to generalization which sometimes we thought right but we actually not.

If you don't know about Self-concept, it's a matter of your self experience, images of yourself towards your view, and the things you heard about the other people towards yourself.

Think about it. When someone keeps on telling you that you are weak, you will keep on thinking and thinking about it until you believed about it in your whole life. You will get to easily believed that what the other people say are true and it affects your own perspectives towards yourself and even to the whole world. When you start believing something, it start to become true towards yourself.

Have some time to reflect. Have some time to think whether what they say matter. Does it matter? Is it valuable? Do you have to live believing that? The answer is No. You don't have to let them say what you want to hear, it's how you see yourself that matters the most. Learn to change the wrong perspectives you have and do not stick to it forever. It will do no good to you and even to the people you surround.

Instead of thinking about how others see you, why don't you just focus on the things you can do. Develop them and be the best version of yourself that you never imagined you could be. What are your potentials? Use them to contribute to this world and as a weapon to become a useful individual in the society. What about your passions? Start to hone and develop them and there you will find enjoyment doing your hobby.

I need to end this with a saying, "Not you think about yourself is true," Sometimes in life we are stucked in a wrong mindset. We need that deep inner confidence that we don't need to ask from the other people. We don't need to ask permission from them to do so. It's you, yourself who can do it and bring a great change. Stop the self-doubt and be something bigger than ever. Do not be afraid to sail the huge winds for they will bring you to your final destination. Do not let the thoughts of the other people make you doubt your whole existence. Yes, we are not perfect and sometimes we fail to do the things that other people want us to prove for them but think about it, it doesn't matter whether they are satisfied with you or not. You are the one who is in control of your life and not them. But if you allow them to be the master of your life then you are also allowing them to corrupt your mind.

You are the one who own your story and do not let the other decide how it would turn out to be. Create your own beautiful stories in life and stop all the ugly thing you believed about yourself. It won't help you to have a better life. No one is worse and we can be better individuals. Don't be too hard to yourself and do not think just because someone see you that way then you will start seeing yourself that way too. Live a life with a beautiful perspective and mindset.