Why Is It Hard To Accept The Truth?
Its often said that the truth shall set you free but when you see the reactions people give from getting the truth you'll realize it'll have all been better should the truth not be told, a lot of these fuss and banter would have been prevented should you have concealed the truth or at least just lie. I've slowly realized that people just want to hear what they hope to hear they are not ready for anything else, I said slowly because it took me time to realize this fact, most people really aren't ready for the truth, their mind can't take it and so it breaks them. Yes, of course it's better you tell them the truth cause it's the right thing to do but then the reactions are often unpleasant and regretable.
Who Is a strong man, who can deal with whatever the case maybe, its really not by strength nor by position, it's by the building of the mind, to accepting even the toughest of cases. Many people still have their fears, their fears still remains in a room without lights and they are scared to even address the issue, how they how it wouldn't be the subject to be treated one day, eventually the world spins towards that direction and we all have to face our fears, the question then is how prepared are you to fearing your fears, to hearing the truth, do you know what to do, have you a plan to deal with it.
I've knowingly drawn a line between fear and truth, and this is most truths that people are scared to bear are truths they dread. For example a blackmailer has it coming soon, all through the times he or she has been enjoying freedom, there have been this side of truth that always want to interfere with their present, as they sit quietly, slowly the memory of their wrong springs up and they are quick to shut out that thought so that they wouldn't deal with the possibility of things coming to light, the day of reckoning is always approaching and no wrongs have yet been successfully hidden without its seeds germinating.
They surely would be amazed when their fear catches up with them, you can literally see the confusion, the hope that this dreamlike situation would simply end, but it doesn't right. Someone might have been preparing their mind for the future, maybe not someone by a mere thought whispering the truth into his or her ears but they choose to ignore, scared to dwell in the thought of it. There are another class of people who are rarely taken unawares, it's almost like they expected anything and are prepared for anything, you'll wonder at their degree of calmness when others are yet confused. Basically they aren't scared to dwelling on the truth.
I always say this, that for everything coming there is a possible sign, its just that's most time we refuse to see and believe especially when trust is involved. Trust in it's way gets us scared to think on the truth, when it should be the other way round actually, if you really trust a thing or someone then you shouldn't be scared to think about the bad of the thing, its good you believe but then proof yourself right by testing out the bad. But most times trust often doesn't make us think and plan ahead, and so when the unexpected happens there they are crying as though they were blinded all through. We often see this in relationships.
Just as I was explaining there are those people who are rarely taken unawares, they think through all possible truth, they aren't scared of hearing the truth, they aren't scared of thinking deep about the truth, they aren't sacred of dwelling in the truth, at least they see and experience the truth then they determine if they want to make it their truth or totally discard it or better they just pend it and observe more carefully. Imagine being in a relationship and you notice some behavioural changes from your patner, and your mind is telling you something is off and your partner might be doing some wrong, judging by the time and investment into that relationship some may be scared to accept this truth and find a plan for it., however others won't.
In the coming future one would be totally heartbroken and devastated while the other would still appear as the winner as though he or she knew it was coming and has dealt with it way longer before now. However both individuals got same signs, same truth but one was scared to accept and the other wasn't. It doesn't mean the truth is true, it's just a observation that could be fact or mere thoughts. If you haven't read and your mind keep telling you that you cant pass this exam, you could choose not to listen to that thought or choose to listen and find a way out of it. All I'm trying to make you see is that we shouldn't be scared to think on the bad, the unpleasant and the unwanted, think on all things, it'll help you plan better.
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