How Scars can be a Good thing?
Scars are painful and we acquire it in so many ways. Some people acquire it due to their loss of awareness, some have scars because they choose to have it, some scars are caused by our loved ones and there are scars that we don`t know that it exist. There are two types of pain first is physical scars and the second is emotional scars, they both hurt the more we think about it.
Many people struggle in every day life because of their scars.
We have different scars, sometimes we keep our scars as secret and we left it there until we forget about it. But it`s not always the case, sometimes we need to address those scars and let the pain out, the more we keep it as a secret the more it will destroy us. In the first few days it’s okay to let it sink in to you so you can think how you get that scars, or who put that scars to you. The more days that will pass the more ways you can think on how to recover fast from that scar or how to fasten the healing process.
Some scars are too deep and it can`t just heal. When the scars are too deep its time to seek help, its time to talk about it to your friends. Ask questions to your friends how they handle their own scars and how they’ve heal it. Talking about it will help you recover faster and it will prevent the scar to consume you from the inside.
“The more you hide your scar, the more it will hurt”
Many people see scars as lesson that they either learn or not.
Those people who have scars emotionally and physically see scars as a lesson, lesson that they learned in a hard or sometimes devastating way. The scars we obtain from our journey of life is the lesson we will never forget. Every scar has a story whether it is good or bad, happy or sad. That story will be in our minds forever and when we encounter the same instances we will know how to handle it so that we won’t be experiencing same events that we had before.
Scars will bleed and become painful, but it will be like a stop sign so that we would be able to think twice before doing the same mistakes over and over again. That stop sign helps us and saved us in so many ways, and by that we can be wise for the coming decisions we will make.
There are scars that the more we think about it the more we will feel pain and cry, but it is okay. The more we cherish and know the pain the stronger we get. And the next time we feel pain we must be ready to face it and to not fall back quickly. The more we have scar, the more experience we have, and with that experience we will more ready to face our future.
There are many good sides of our scars that we do not see, because we always focus on the bad side that would either hurt or become miserable again. But there more to scar than pain and bleeding. Take every scar as a lesson, take every scar as a blessing in disguise. Because if we don’t get those scars we will continue with that path that eventually would hurt us more.
“That is the true meaning of scar. The deeper the scar is, the more we feel pain, the more we feel pain the more we will be awake.”
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I used to be ashamed of my scars and I think they are awful. But as time goes by, I realized I shouldn't be ashamed of it, not anyone should be ashamed of having scars because scars can teach us a lot of things. It may give us some valuable life lessons.