Showing affection sometimes is not only a matter of being together, detachment can also be part of the relationship, because this can be presented as a form of independence, where two share a common place.
The above approach is right, because each person has a family nucleus, my social environment and unique interests, all this forms the personality, and it is important that always in a relationship people maintain their own identification, because when you stop being to please the other person falls into an error and problem that can later bring dire consequences for both parties.
The truth is that I agree with the author and psychologist Walter Riso, when he exposes his theories on dependence and love, the author expresses that it is important to value oneself, to fall in love with who we are and not to suffer for the love of another which should be a harmonious sharing.
Undoubtedly, affectivity and we live it in different ways, but we all agree that it is essential to love and value the other person. The practice should also be to love and value ourselves to be able to enjoy with our partner all those things we want to share in union with him/her.
When the attachment becomes very evident, it can even break with the privacy of the other person and this is wrong because it can generate anxiety and fear, distrust and a possessive relationship where signs of rupture begin to appear because the limits that allow harmony between two are not respected.
Definitely love is something beautiful, we can not go through the world with fear to live that feeling, on the contrary we must explore it, ideally only once, but if not it is not the end, because while we have life we can continue to dabble in love until we find a partner who is ideal to share our dreams.
The ideal is often not a pretty face, or a beautiful body, but what is pleasing to the eye also beautifies the heart, the good thing is that when we fall in love the other person always looks beautiful.
Certainly a popular saying goes that when we begin to see the defects in the partner, is when we are unfailingly ceasing to love.
Over the years love as a couple becomes harmonious sharing, this is nice because it is a feeling of a future together, in addition to the value given to the family when people are finally united in sincere love, then comes the detachment with the children, which should be cautiously because our little ones will always be small for us.
The important thing is to recognize that to love is not to be attached to someone, and much less to the feeling of being with someone, to love is to want to share with that person everything in an integral and unison way in love.
From now on in any of our affective relationships, we must evaluate our behavior, recognize that we can be a couple without consuming the space of the other person. A warning to young people is to stay away from those controlling people, because the one who loves you respects your freedom.
Freedom does not mean not loving, it means being able to express feelings for many people and choose one, the one who becomes the center of our affections and in whom we see our future family reflected.
Love without attachments is a blessing, it is like a fresh rain, or an evening where the sunset looks beautiful, when two can fall asleep at the same time, at that moment love blooms.
So my friend reader, to love without attachments is a blessing. Always keep your personality, and enjoy the life shared between two.
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