Sometimes you need to learn to be quiet even when you have a lot to say.
Date: 11th June, 2022. Saturday
Bright Saturday dear. Another day just made it's announcement. The month of June is crossing it’s 11th day. We are having our beautiful life and yes, it’s 2022. The year of revolution, obviously in my point of view. People are more busy in their daily life. They are showing their extra ordinary works to make sure to have a better way of living. You, me, all around us are in this race. We are witnessing many ups & downs of society, human civilizations and nations. Newspapers and electronic media are spreading real news while human beings are spreading fake rumours. The whole world is full of conversations. Some are worthy but maximum of them are for time pass. Now, you have two options. Either you can join the fake and fade conversation or you can learn to remain silent even you have lots of things to say. Because sometimes remaining silent is the best option.
We speak, we shout, we share our opinions. That's us. We think and go through the way as we visualize. We tell others how we feel and what we feel. Each and everyone here on this planet earth has their own point of view to explain things. We want people to listen us, we crave that people may understand our feelings and see things as we see it. That's why we sound like we know everything. Just look around you. You, yourself know this better, don't you mate? There is always someone in a group who tries his/her best to attract people towards him/her to make them understand about their feelings.
On the same hand, there are people who remain silent and prefer that silence. They don’t want to share their opinions or feelings. For them, joining those communications are just time pass and they remain silent. They only think about the welfare and work hard for achieving their goals. I know nowadays, these people are rare but someway you can meet them. They choose work over talk. That's the key point of their success. It doesn’t mean that they don’t know about what people are talking about. They do have knowledge about the ongoing debate but they just keep themselves away from it.
My point is that, which team are you going to join? A team which talks much and works less or the team which uses words when necessary and works hard. The equation is simple. All you need to do is to join the debate. Highly depends on you. Just sit somewhere else and think about it. Going through the flow and talking whatever you want will only increase some crazy followers but your moral values and respect nature will go down. I know that you have vast knowledge about the topic. But I request you not to involve on this matter. Let it go.
For example, the World Cup Football is heading towards us. Definitely there will be some heated conversation with two different types of supporters. Each supporters of a definite group will defend their favourite team and disclose some facts. Other group will do the same. Now this topic will increase the nature of your talkative mood. Maybe you are supporting one of that group and to show solidarity, you will argue with others. This will only increase one toxic fan to the group. You should have done something else at that time. You need to learn to be silent when something crazy and chaos creating situation is going on. Even you know those facts, please remain silent. Let them shout, scream and march. Just hold your nerves. It will gain you success because you would not misuse the time. That's why I'm suggesting that.
The world is always ready for a reason to create something problematic. Don’t be a reason of it. Maybe your funny talk may harm someone's personal feelings. So, don't waste your potential in some unnecessary topic. Keep calm and learn to remain silent even you know the answer or debate on the topic.
Speaking up must be done in the right time, right place, and right way.💗