Good afternoon once again! I am here because I want to express my feelings in regards with those people who knows how to borrow money but don't know how to return. First of all I would like to mention my friend @BCH_LOVER I read her article and the same thing happened to me. You can visit her and find the most recent post she had. So I will no longer state here about my history when it comes to money, one thing I can say is that I hate people who asked for help but abuse your power. It's not like that! And this is for those MAKAKAPAL ANG MUKHA!
Money
So why we need money? Why we asked for help to lend us money?
So why?
To spend with friends? To buy luxurious things? To show that you are rich? NO!!!! The money you spend is supposed to be the money for my food and family! That money I let you borrow? I'm supposed to be the one to spend it. But why did I let you borrow? Because your looking down as if you don't have any other choice but to ask me. Well I did let you because you promised that sooner or later I will return the money. So okay! I understand!
But how long will I meed to understand?
Days, weeks, months later you never hand me the money I lend to you, I ask of you have but you answered, none and rejection. But found you at any restaurant eating, and buying luxurious things???
How did that happen?
Soooo this is how your gonna response to the person who helped you? After you used the money, after you buy things after you eat food with the money I lend you, you let me wait and throw me nonsense words?
Lol! I worked for that money.
I have my money because I save it for myself, for emergency, and to sustain my needs. We all work to earn money.
Yes we have friends, when a friend asked for help, we help. But when we needed help? No friends are present.
Are they really a friend? Or they are just my friend when they needed help?
You know if someone is good for you, be good to them. Never abuse a single person kindness. We should put in our minds that these person is the only one who helped me during my darkest time. Well it's not that I am asking for a return but I ask for the money. I trust you to pay me back, I gave you enough time, but you give me reason ro be mad at you!
How am I supposed to help you again when I already know this is how your gonna response?
Because of money I lost trust with my friend.
I don't have reason to feel guilty, it is my right to ask for return because that is my money, I work for that. You should put on your mind that I also need a money to spend. You are obligated to give me back the money I let you have. Because that is how we define friend helping each other. But I don't think so now that I know you, your not a friend you abuse !my kindness and I will never lend you Money again.
So this is just to express what I feel for those people, if tou want our friendship to stay still then treat me like one. I am good to good people. And I understand when you needed a help, but I hope you will understand if I won't help you again.
To lend money for me is okay, but ro abuse my kindness? Its a nono to me.
Good afternoon to all, to my sponsors and subscribers I hope you have a wonderful day!
Got to go I need to prepare for a dinner.
Salamat!
Money allow us to make more friends and sometimes we lose some friends because of situations like you mentioned. Nice to meet you