What is the first thing comes in your mind when you hear the word FATHER.
CARING
LOVING
UNDERSTANDING
STRONG
HARDWORKING
PROTECTOR
and many more.
Words are not enough to describe our father. The man who contributes in bringing us to life. The man who loved us first. The man who always protects us. The man who always there when we are sad, when we are down and encountering many challenges. The man who always cheer us up. The man who first carry us when we are still a baby and who first kiss us even if we are still in our mother's tummy. The man who sings us a song and read us a story in order for us to sleep. The first love of all the daughters and the buddy of all the sons.
Do you appreciate all the hardwork of our father? Such as giving us support in studying, providing our needs, going to work early and loving us unconditionally. The moment they become father, that is the moment their life change. For example, back then when they still a single they spend their time with their friends drinking and hanging out but the moment they become a father they will become more responsible. They will now know their priority and that is to provide and protect their family, so that they work harder. When they arrive home they always have a surprise to us and we run to them and hug them. The smile on our face shows that we are very happy when we see them coming home. But as time goes by we grow and some of us will have our own life leads us to give them attention and neglect their efforts for us.
Like all mothers, they also sacrifice their life when they are still single just to give a good life to their family. And seeing their child grow makes them happy.
All fathers are strong. They teaches us on how to be brave in dealing challenges in our lives. They don't leave our side and be sure that we dont get hurt by something someone.
They don't want us to see them crying because they don't want us to be sad also. Thats makes them strong. Even if they are sick, the still continue working and do not let you know that they are sick so that you won't be worried about them. They are our protectors, they don't want others to belittle their children.
We should respect them no matter what happen. No matter what the situation is still they are our father who bring us to life,without them we are not here enjoying life. We should show our love to them, express our feelings to them and be thankful to them. Not all the time they are strong. When time comes and they get old, we are the one who take care of them, we should give back the love and care they gave to us. Do not abandon them just because they are old already. We should be patient to them like how they are being patient to us when we are still a child.
But they are not perfect, no one is perfect in this world. They are still human they make mistakes also. We should remember that. As long as they corrected it and learned from it we should forgive them, love them like how much they love us.
In this coming sunday, we are celebrating father's day. We should give them a warm hug and if you can create a little surprise for them. It doesn't matter if it is small or big as long as it comes from our hearts and we exert effort they will surely appreciate it.
I used to create father's day letter to my father and put our pictures to it. And i am so happy when i saw it to my father's cabinet. He kept it and didn't throw it.
Be respectful to them and don't let them feel that you don't care to them. As long as you're with them love them with all your hearts. Who knows that is the last moment youre with your father. Appreciate them everyday. We should be proud of our father for all their sacrifices to us just to give our needs everyday.
To all father's out there. Happy father's day!