Spice it up!

It's a wonderful Monday from here. How're you all doing? Have a fruitful week ahead. I was in the church yesterday when my pastor was talking about relationships. He mentioned the high rate of broken relationships nowadays. Then, I started thinking about some minor causes that could bring up a broken relationship. I pinned-point boredom.

Relationships are always beautiful and lively at the beginning but it comes to a certain stage that you find boring.

Many couples are facing the challenges of a boring relationship. It's getting so boring that they feel the love is no more there. It's normal and humane for you to be bored of someone you're deeply in love with, you're so addicted that you're getting bored of your partner. Are you in a boring relationship? Spice it up! However, I've come up with a few simple tips you should try to spice up your boring relationship.

Express your love often

You may ask 'why to express our love often?' Yeah, it's so obvious you both love each other but expressing your love often will reassure your partner that you still love him/her. Expressing your love often will also strengthen your partner's trust in you and rekindle your love.

Try new things together

You're one of the couples that have never gone on a date with your partner, set dinner or lunch dates in your partner's favorite place and spend quality time with him/her.

You've been going on dates with your partner but just within your vicinity, change your location and create more fun. You can also bring up some of your lovely memories.

Discuss your goals and dreams together

Everyone loves being in a relationship where they can freely discuss their goals and dreams with their partner. You can spice up your relationship by discussing your goals with your partner, it makes them feel special. Create a space for them in your dreams and watch out for the magic; it makes them feel loved and this can rekindle your love.

Prepare surprises for your partner

Imagine the happy look on your partner's face when you prepare a surprise for him or her, it's priceless, right? Yeah, that's right. It gives him/her a sense of belonging in your life. The excitement can take your relationship to a whole new level.

Prioritize your relationship

Place an important value on your relationship. Do not take it for granted. Invest your time and attention in your relationship. A little sacrifice wouldn't hurt; make sacrifices for your relationship. Create more attention and time for your partner and build it up.

Listen more, argue less

There will be many circumstances to have arguments with your partner but do not argue, instead just listen. Respect your partner by listening more to them than arguing.

Create yourselves space

Being in a relationship doesn't mean you should be around your partner 24/7. Give yourselves space and do not be too clingy. Spend some time alone doing other things; hanging out with your friends and having fun.

In conclusion, every relationship has ups and downs. Be consistent and enjoy your relationship.

Thanks for reading💓💓

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