Do you believe in the saying "Cheater is always a cheater"? Among all the activities, those busyness I am encountering these days, one that makes me triggered is seeing my bestfriend crying just because her boyfriend cheat on her.

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My bestfriend don't like to enter a romantic relationship, but this boy keeps on making her feel butterflies in her stomach, the boy always shows effort and prove that his intention is pure and sincere. I personally saw all of these, until they reached anniversary, and everything went so good. One day, the boy needs to go back in his own place to work, he promise to work hard for their future.

Fast forward

After almost 3 months of working, the boy chat my bestfriend and say sorry because he is now a father; yes, he make other girl pregnant, and because of this they need to break up. My bestfriend wants to ask a lot of questions but the boy doesn't respond again. He left my bestfriend hanging with lots of questions and heart broken. Until two days later, my bestfriend stalk the boy's ex, then she found out that they come back to each other. No one is pregnant, just an excuse to go back to his ex.

Before my bestfriend and the boy are officially in a relationship, one of our friend already warn her that the boy is a cheater, but because of love, we believe that the boy change, and will change because of her; after all this what happened. What a literal boy, not a man

I just share this story of her, to remind every girls to listen to your instinct; even for boys out there. I don't know why, but seems like as a human, especially for girls, we have this superpower of our very own instinct. Maybe some of you in here, those who are victim of cheating, before you finally caught him/her cheating, you already sense that there's something wrong.

I was once a victim of cheating, and just like the excuse of my bestfriend's ex, he make other woman pregnant. One thing that I am truly thankful to God is that He save me from a wrong person. Before we had our relationship, I already know how cheater and flirty he is, but he change for me, but still the sayings "cheater is always a cheater", belongs to him. Overall I'm thankful that we broke up. Just imagine how I take of myself, to have my first boyfriend as my last but nah! Lol

For those you are fighting for their heartache because of cheating, just let yourself feel the pain and cry as long as you want. Let yourself feel the weakness, until finally your heart and mind says that it's time to be strong again. I always tell to my bestfriend to embrace the pain, until she will feel no more. It's true that time heals, and just like the bone our heart undergo a healing process. Crying is normal and heartache is normal, especially that your love is true, the best revenge that you can have is loving yourself more. Just think how you become more without him/her, you will just realize how that person make you less; just a blessing too.

That's it everyone, just want to share what I feel.

I am so happy that finally I was able to publish, thanks to rain; it's a blessing in disguise from God. How are you? How was your day? I may not be able to comment in your articles but I'll try my best to visit at least:)

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July 16, 2022

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