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"Does your MAN have something to say on what you're gonna WEAR?" Hello read cash fam, how's your weekend? I hope everyone has a wonderful day. I wasn't able to publish yesterday as I got hooked reading at Wattpad and the moment I was done it was almost 10PM.. Haha, that's it. I got distracted, LOL. So instead of squeezing my brain to write I just spent time scrolling at Shoppe (online shopping). I was looking for something to wear for our incoming trip at **Anawangin Zambales.** It was a beach resort as agreed by my officemates. https://www.facebook.com/anawangincove/ I am not into swimsuits, I never actually tried wearing . I am not comfortable. My office mates were having a discussion about it just last week and they are urging me to have a try. They even pointed out that it was a beach . Jan (one of my officemates) added that there are even some who still have the guts to wear two piece with those cellulites and stretch marks. ( ***He is not body shaming, just giving an example***). So what was the reason I wouldn't as I still don't have those? My answer? I am not used too, I don't have the confidence to parade my chubbiness!. Yes I wear shorts most of the time but two piece? Awww passed. I was talking to my husband through a video call while scrolling at Shoppe when I found these.

**Image source.** https://shopee.ph/product/35129186/2145963992?smtt=0.541220323-1650783821.9 I find it perfect! I am confident I can wear this all throughout our escapade. It is not that sexy right? Plus it has a cover up. I was so excited and I am planning to choose and add this to cart. Due to my excitement, I showed it to my sweetheart and I was surprised when he said ***" NO"!*** With exclamation point, charr! Though he added ***" Okay you can wear the shorts but look for another top. I don't like it when you wear that. Share your screen, let me see what you're choices."*** And that's it! Seems I will still end up wearing rush guard. I know some might react but I guess men are different. Right? I know some men, well one of my office mate is one of them. They are okay with their "woman" wearing sexy clothes. My officemate was a photographer and his girlfriend loves the beach. So most of the time he was the one taking pictures of her " girl" wearing those sexy swimwear. Not only that every time we have a company event, her girlfriend ( also our officemate actually) was always the star of the night. She was always gorgeous and at the same time sexy. She slayed it! My other brother was also one of them too. I always saw his photos together with his girlfriend who is always wearing sexy outfits. Well she was indeed sexy after all. Though sometimes I felt uncomfortable. Even my mother one time complains to me when she saw on Facebook the photo of my brother's gf wearing a provocative swimsuit. You know my Mom is an OLD school. Yet we have nothing to do with it as the way today's generation dresses was far different compared to before. Fashion completely evolved! There are also men who are conservative. Ahaha this is where my sweetheart belongs. Though not too much. I mean, I am always wearing shorts. Dresses which are above my knee. That was perfectly fine with him. He just didn't like me wearing shorts that were " TOO SHORT" . What we call ***"pekpek shorts".*** Also he doesn't like me to wear something with a low neckline that would obviously show cleavage. He believed in a motto " for his eyes ONLY". Awit!

**Image source** https://www.google.com/search?q=pekpek+short+meaning&client=ms-android-samsung-gj-rev1&prmd=ivn&sxsrf=APq-WBv0nq_euH_5ixoJbogOZafVxmwIVA:1650786331380&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwic1oanmqz3AhXTqVYBHc6SBeQQ_AUoAXoECAIQAQ&biw=412&bih=734&dpr=1.75#imgrc=eFkhkomo_nkvGM That was fine with me as I don't dress like that. I was conservative, maybe because I grew up in the countryside. Only now that my fashion style has changed since I've been staying in the city for years. Still I don't always go with what is in " fashion trends". Maybe there are still some men that are more conservative than my husband. I think it is because of the place (country), upbringing, attitude or simply GENERATION gap. As I have mentioned above, fashion has completely evolved. If you're gonna check what is in trend now. You will just ask yourself , what happened. haha. ***What about you? Do you like your "Girl" wearing something sexy? Or are you the conservative type too?*** ***What about you ladies? Does your MAN have something to say on what you're gonna WEAR?*** As for me, what always matters is that I am comfortable with what I am wearing. ***04:00 PM*** ***04/24/22 _ Manila_Philippines.*** ***Noise cash*** https://noise.cash/u/Lhes ***Telegram*** https://t.me/Lhes18

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