Give Up What Weighs You Down `Date: March 2, 2022 (Wednesday)` You wake up in your room and you feel a different ambiance in the surroundings. The morning light feels so gloomy than the usual. The singing of the birds in the morning doesn't travel in your ear anymore. The cold breeze is like a neutral air roaming around the world. And your morning coffee tastes bitter unlike what it used to be. In short, things have changed in a snap as you wake up and you can't do anything about it.
Change is inevitable. We can't be the happiest person in the world most of the time. On the positive side, we can't always be the saddest person on earth especially when we experience the blue side of life. Life just go around a cirle, sometimes we're on the upper part of life, and then we travel to the lowest part of it. These experiences both bring something good in our lives if we know how to handle them. They will take us far if only we will embrace them positively. Moreover, right now, you may be pressured or you may be down and you don't know how to handle them. It seems like you're carrying the world world and you can't look for people to help you as it weighs so heavy. You're blinded with darkness and you feel like no one's there to helo anyway. Needless to say, you even start mocking yourself. You feel like you can't do anything good in this world. It seems like you will never be on the good side of life; the brighter side of it. In a nutshell, you are bruising yourself with your own thoughts. And little did you know that it's giving more weigh in your heart. ***"If you want to fly with so much colors, you have to give up on things that weighs you down."*** Our mind is a traitor to us in someway. It makes us think of things we are not. It drives us to say hurtful words with ourselves especially when we can't control what we're thinking and we are allowing it to shift to negativity. With that, we have to train our minds to think positively; to shift on a different channel when things are starting to get gloomy in our minds. We have to convince ourselves not to indulge on the negativity that our minds are extracting, instead, we should keep those negativity stuck out of nowhere for it not to visit our minds anew. Not to mention, those thoughts, if we can handle rightly, will help us unload all the weighs that we are carrying and will take us to a better place. My heart is so full thinking about the positive and generous people surrounding me. You have made me the happiest and I feel grateful for that. Accept and Love Yourself Sometimes, this is so hard to instill in our minds. It's hard to love ourselves when we have so much things we don't like about us. It's hard to think that we are enough when we can see a lot of flaws that others don't have It makes us feel down or sad and we don't know how to handle it. Just so you know, it's important for us to accept ourselves whatever we have. We have to accept that we have flaws and we are not perfect. We have to accept that this is our reality and we can't live the life of others. If we will be able to accept ourselves freely, we can then learn to love ourselves more. We can learn to love every bit of us that we can no longer think that we are not enough. We can learn to love ourselves freely when we take down all the negative thoughts we have for ourselves. Release the Pressure and Keep Moving Forward No matter how rocky the path may seem, we should go and keep moving forward towards the path that we wanted to take. It's true that we feel pressure, we have so much doubts with ourselves, we even feel like we can't achieve great things in life, but those things are only negative words from your mind which is not you. Release all the pressure that you have in your heart, and keep moving forward to your dreams. One day, your future self will be grateful at you for staying firm in your goal to walk the path no matter how stormy it may seem. Stay Positive in Life Staying positive is a must. But I also agree that we can't be positive all the time. However, we should not allow ourselves to stay on that side no matter what. We should shift to the brighter perspective. Because what truly happens is that, whatever you think will be attracted in your life. So think positively, and you will see that things will be brighter in your life.
Closing Thoughts It's indeed so hard to face the world if we feel like the world is against us in someway. But then again, that feeling is created because of the thoughts we have in mind. To be honest, that's not the reality, but since our minds are extracting it, it feels like the truth. Not to mention, if we want to fly, we should learn to give up the heavy feeling in our hearts. We should accept ourselves, love ourselves, release the pressure we are carrying, and keep moving forward. One day, we will be able to see the positive result and we will be grateful ~~for that.~~ ***Stop holding on to that heaviness in your heart, it's not worth carrying for. Release them and you'll feel a great relief.***
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In early morning everyone woke up and feel some different thing's and having a great time also , we can't imagine we are the happiest person ever in the world and this is absolutely great to make us happy and great this morning bring a lot of fun enjoyment and happiness And I know we are not saddest always but we are happy all the time when we want
We have a choice how we embark the day. It's either we embark it positively, or negatively. But always choose the positive one.
You are right, my friend LeticiaFelize,in what your article says that sometimes when we wake up in the morning we feel a lot of changes, but we have to be strong and fight no matter what.
Well said my friend jen. We have to remain firm and courageous to face the challenges in our life. Keeping a positive mind would help.
Yeah we should accept and love our self coz no one do of how we love our self. And yeah releasing presure and toxic people and negative thoughts is one of the key of a happy life. Just keep moving forward for good.
Well said my friend.. Let's not wait for other people to love us. Instead, let's learn to love ourselves first. Love your input by the way.
Yeah my frwind, its a inspirational article at all.
the burden only makes life difficult and difficult to be active, life is happy but because the burden makes it feel like not living anymore. let go of what happens because when the burden is released sincerely, life will be calm.
I agree, if we put too much pressure on ourselves, the more we feel suffocated on the life we're living. With that, we should learn to release them and a better feeling will continue.
It is indeed hard to accept our own self, our flaws but if we won't learn to love ourselves then life is more difficult to deal.
Well said my dear friend. Moreover, if we won't love ourselves, who will? We should not wait for people to love us, instead we should love ourselves first. Self-love is essential.
Truth is that a lot of us do not love ourself enough. And that is a problem. We also keep negativity when it can be intoxicating. Letting go as you I've said is what's best and maintaining positivity as we love ourself.
I agree with your my friend Aimure. The problem with us is we keep on indulging negativity although it's not bringing anything good in our lives. With that, we should indeed unload what's not necessary to carry in our lives and for sure better days will be embarked afterwards.
Freeing ourselves from things that are pulling us down is one of the best decisions we'll ever make in life.
Yes ny friend, it's like carrying a heavy bag at our back, and after we unload it, we will be able to feel a great relief.
Absolutely.🤍
My dear Leticia, I completely agree with you, grief and depression can all come from our minds. We must train our minds in the direction of positive energies and the beauties of life. By having a beautiful mind and paying attention to the goodness of life and those around us, and appreciating our blessings, we can see the world through a more beautiful lens, and be at peace with the world around us.
This is such a wonderful input my friend Ellen. We should train our minds to think of the brighter side of life no matter what. We should not allow that hands of negativity to pull us down. We should try to be more grateful on the things that are happening in our lives whatever they are. In that way, we will be able to see life full of vibrant colors; a better one, ceasing the negativity to creep around our minds.
You said it right, we can’t stay positive l the time but we should always give priority to ourselves we should believe on ourselves. The life will be happier when we start giving importance to ourselves.
Well said my friend Niazi. All we have to do is to cleanse our minds, flushing all the negativity away. In that way, we will surely be living the life we always wanted to have.
This is very nice. With all that is going on in the world, it is easy to get dragged down and overwhelmed by life's expectations. This usually brings a negative mindset and these tips above are truly wonderful!
I'm truly in awe on how you complimented the thoughts that I have shared my friend Daria. Anyway, we should keep the positivity in us intact and release the negativity away, always.
Positivity in the life make our life beautiful and perfect, stay positive and happy😘
I totally agree my friend Roojoroojay. If you want to live a life with a happy heart, release all the negative energies that are going om around.
Exactly dear.. worries doesn't help in any way. It only adds to our troubles unnecessarily
I agree my friend, it only adds unnecessary baggages that will make our life worst.
Sometimes we need to drop that thing, that feelings in sake of better life & livings. Agreed.
Well said my friend Lucifer. Unloading those baggages would be a great help to feel fine and to see a clearer view anew.
Thank you for taking your time to remind us of the important things we need to always have at the back of our minds. 🤍
I appreciate that you're here as well reading my thoughts for you all my friend. Have a great day ahead.
I have related so much. The message contains here had hit me. Thank you for this article.
No worries my dear friend. And I'm glad that you were able to relate to the words that I shared in some way. Nice meeting you here!