Expectation hurt's you

In most cases we are the biggest reason behind our sorrow or sadness. Yes i think we're our own Biggest enemy because we don't have trust on ourselves and we do trust on other. That's hurt later but than time was gone.

Let me tell you how we are our biggest enemy or we are the reason of sadness.

When we expect everything from other and when other can't do what we expected from them than we hurt and sometimes totally broken when your expectations were so much high. And you believe it ir not but we all expected from other rather than us. Maybe we don't have trust on us and have more trust on other.

I think it's just a myth that

World is based on Hope/ expectations

Okay might possible it's true but I'm sure it was true in past not in present now world is changing and with every day it becomes more Cruel and cruel no one wants to see you happy except few person than why you expect so much from other.

In my opinion now a days even we shouldn't ask to someone from pray of our successful life because most of our relatives not satisfied to see us happy.

I'm not saying that i never expect something from other, no I'm at this stage of life after expecting much from others and than once i also broken but now i think if i was broken than other not broke like me.

It's only 2% that people do what we expected from them and other 98% will not do what you want than it's good that you never expect anything from other's.

Perants expect something from children

It's okay they're perants and they have right to expect anything from their child. But i think being a perants give a choice to your children that he become what he wants. In our society mostly perants expect that our child will become a pilot, doctor in future but in fact child even not get a job in future than it's hurt.

I'm also a Mom and I've child , but i never expect that she become doctor or pilot in future. It's her choice that what she wants to choose in future. I'll guide her, I'll tell about some discipline or braches of study too but it's on her what she chooses.

Mostly Perants choose the subject of their children and sometimes children don't have interest in that subject and so children never want to do study. So i think let our free children to choose the subject.

Take an example of online world

Obviously when we all join readcash we've dream that may Random rewader visit our article too just like it's visit to our senior article. But we don't know what's hardship our senior faced during the blogging journey.

We expect much from random rewarder and when it's not visit to our post than we hurt.

Today i read an article of sister @Roojoroojay and she's our senior too and i learn many things from her but again rusty didn't visit her article and she keeps on waiting but at the end she feels disappointed but she said that she learned a lesson from it. You can also read her article from here.

When i joined Readcash, i also expect much from rusty but than i understand that it's a Random rewader as it's name tell us and it's a robot, as rusty said too that it's a robot and still in working process so don't mind if i does any mistake than why we human always find pop up notification from a robot.

Seriously now i just write and i remember here once jane said that she's enjoying the community engagement and her day isn't pass without leaving comment on others.

Ending thoughts

Sorry if my words hurt you but, My aim isn't hurts you and i just try to understand that we shouldn't expect anything from anyone no matter it's a robot or it's human. In real life have trust on you that you can do it and imy sure that you can do everything you just have to do some hardworking. Or in virtual life or in your blogging life, enjoy the writing and you got something too at the end because it's the rule of nature that when you do hard work or give your time to something than you surely get something too.

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Thank you for reading my article

And thank you for your love and Time