7 Rules of Life (Part 1)
March 23, 2023What's up everyone!
This blog is gonna be a lengthy one, so I divided it in two blogs.... Please bear with me and go through each one, very carefully. I won't waste your time and discuss each of the rules one by one....
Make peace with your past so that it won't disturb your present
Making peace with your past is an essential step towards living a fulfilling and happy life in the present. Whether it's a failed relationship, a traumatic experience, or a mistake that you regret, holding onto the past can create a significant amount of emotional pain and distress. Instead, it's important to acknowledge and accept the past, learn from it, and let go of any negative emotions associated with it. When you make peace with your past, you free yourself from the weight of regret, anger, and sadness, and allow yourself to live in the present moment with a clear and peaceful mind. By doing so, you can create space in your life for positive experiences and meaningful connections with others, without the burden of past traumas or regrets holding you back. So, take the time to reflect on your past experiences, forgive yourself and others, and focus on living fully in the present moment.
What other people think of you is none of your business
It's common to feel self-conscious and worry about what others think of us. However, the reality is that other people's opinions of us are not our responsibility, and we should not let them dictate our actions or our sense of self-worth. When we focus too much on what others think of us, we can become trapped in a cycle of seeking external validation and lose sight of our own values and goals. It's important to remember that everyone has their own opinions and perspectives, and we can't control how others perceive us. What truly matters is how we see ourselves and how we live our lives in alignment with our values and beliefs. By letting go of the need for others' approval and focusing on our own growth and happiness, we can live more authentically and confidently. So, let go of the need to please others or seek their validation, and embrace your unique self with all its strengths and flaws.
Time heals almost everything, give it time
The passage of time has a remarkable power to heal many wounds, both physical and emotional. Although it's not a cure-all, time can help to ease the pain of difficult experiences, and allow us to gain perspective and clarity. Whether it's the end of a relationship, the loss of a loved one, or a major life transition, the initial feelings of shock and grief can be overwhelming. However, as time passes, we gradually adjust to the new reality, and our emotions begin to stabilize. With distance, we may gain a new understanding of the situation, and even find meaning or lessons in our experiences. It's important to remember that healing takes time, and there is no need to rush the process. By giving ourselves the space and time to heal, we allow ourselves to fully process our emotions, and emerge stronger and wiser on the other side. So, be patient and kind to yourself, and trust that with time, you will find the strength and resilience to overcome even the most challenging obstacles
No one is In-charge of your happiness, except you
The responsibility for our own happiness lies solely within ourselves. We cannot rely on external factors, such as material possessions, relationships, or even other people, to bring us true and lasting happiness. Rather, we must cultivate a sense of inner peace and contentment by focusing on our own thoughts, actions, and attitudes. This requires taking ownership of our own lives and recognizing that we have the power to shape our own happiness. By pursuing activities and relationships that bring us joy, practicing gratitude and mindfulness, and cultivating a positive mindset, we can create a sense of fulfillment and happiness that comes from within.
Remember, no one else can control your happiness. It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that someone else is responsible for our happiness, but this couldn't be further from the truth. Happiness is a personal choice, and it's up to each one of us to create and maintain it. While others can certainly contribute to our happiness, it's ultimately our own attitudes and behaviors that determine whether we feel happy or not. By taking charge of our own happiness, we free ourselves from the limitations of external factors and empower ourselves to live a fulfilling and meaningful life. So, take control of your own happiness, and don't rely on others to provide it for you.
(To be continued)
Part 2 of this can be read at 7 Rules of Life (Part 2)
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Honestly I am holdong back to what i wanted to do wear and talk about. . i am so worried about religion and if what people around me talk behind my back about me. It made me loss confidence and opportunities