The importance of 3C's in a relationship

In this generation it is actually easy to enter in a relationship, with the use of technologies and social medias you can talk to your loveones or even confess your love. Many people actually do that kind of thing. And the downfall of having an easy access to relationship leads to losing the real essene of love. Teenager right now, court and let others court them not for the sake of the love but for the sake of showing off to their friends. That they have a beauty as their partner. Also, as the phrase says "the easier you get it the easier it is to let go". This leads to broken relationship. Even people who's in serioua relationship fall into break up.

In a relationship 3C's must be have all the time. So that the bond will be stinger time by time and so let's talk about this 3C's that I'm talking about.

Communication

As they said Communication is the key to success and even key to the success of the relationship. A healthy communication is very important so that you can freely share your feelings effectively. Also, being able to share your thoughts, opinion on some topics that you'll both gonna enjoy is the best way be connected to them and have stronger bond. People tend to be scared to communicate and share their Thoughts because they might think they might upsetting their partner. But that shouldn't be the case.

Partners who loss the sense of communication tends to break up after some period of time. A relationship who lack of communication won't work. Your partners is not a kind readers than can know your thoughts. Thus, this will make them vulnerable to overthinking and stuffs.

Contentment

Everyone has flaws, mistake, and problems in life and that's something we can't change off that's why both side should understand that their partners are not God who has everything. Accepting others, including their flaws and being content on what they are or who they're including their presence will boost the happiness and satisfaction of one another, this making the bond stronger. Contentment helps who recognize and identify which is wants and needs from your partners. Expecting much from your partners which you know they can't actually do will make you feel disappointed. That's why, being satisfied and contented, will make you not to desire more than what you actually need.

Consistency

There are people who thought that being consistent is boring for you are very predictable. That all you actions is easy to read of. But that's not just the case of being consistent. When you are consistent, your partner will feel comfortable and relax to you. S/he know who you truly are and that they can understand you very well. Consistency is not all about behavior. It can also be being consistent in communication, being consistent to everything. consistency means checking in on each other on a regular basis, being there when you are needed, and having a sense of commitment to the process of a relationship, getting to know each other, and being with each other. In addition, consistency is about honesty, because being consistent and showing what you really are all the time without hiding anything foster the trust from your partners.

But isn't great in surprising by showing other stuffs and do different things with your partners in some time?

Author's message

Relationship is not a game or a like entering an entertainment show that all about enjoyment and happiness, it's actually a roller coaster ride from the rise of enjoyment, happiness and the downfall, of fights, arguments boringness thus this will measure you how you'll gonna handle your relationship with one another. That's why, this 3C's is very important that no matter what happen, this three shouldn't be loss.

Ps. I lazysnail is not a love expert or whatever you might called me. Actually it's my first relationship with mahh badii and make sure to be my last. That's why it is important to know every bit of things that is important to strengthen the bond together.