People believe love can be found anywhere, churches, in the market or even on social media. It seems the online love is the most trending now. Dating someone you have never seen one on one, this kind of relationship is rampant these days. I am not against it though but I take every online relationship unserious, especially when you have never met for the first time. My reasons are simple
Lies and deceit
Disappointment
Mistaken love.
Online relationship is mostly built on lies and deceit, you claim what you are not and sometimes say what you don't mean because it will take time before you are caught. Online relationship sometimes it is seen as a joke to some people, or away to get over a bad experience especially relationship issues. The probability of cheating when dating online is high compared to dating someone you know.
Have you ever thought about what will happen when you finally met the person and he or she doesn't appeal to you and maybe you have fallen deeply in love? I will rather date someone who knows me very well, at least there won't be room for disappointments when it comes appearance. Pictures can not tell everything, your height, and the way you walk are not shown on pictures.
Mistaken love: You believe you are in a relationship while your partner doesn't feel like that.
These are reasons one can kick against an online relationship or love although some online love are pure and genuine but rare to find.
Can you be in a serious relationship with someone you met online?
@Dreamer @Ashma I need your opinions now.
Hello @Tunuu
Well, I think I'm the best person to tell you that you can find love online, take me as an example, I found my love online, it's not kinda completely online she knew me but still I met her online for the first time and now it's almost 1n1/2 yr we're happy couple. Although we met once in 1-2 months, but still we've a happy relationship. So the point is love can be found anywhere, you just need to keep your eyes open and yup there are some people who aren't serious about their online relationship but that's their purpose, I mean they just need a companion without any commitment, we can't judge that but yup both partners should be aware about it.