The Uncertainty of Life

In this life, we’re meant to toss and turn every coin. Every road doesn’t have a clear destination. The bridges sometimes are connecting the wrong places. The wind doesn’t always have the right direction. In a world where everything is uncertain, how are we supposed to fight?

Hello, everyone! I am back again with some words out of nowhere. I am jumping into different ideas about the future but all I can foresee are things that don’t have a hundred percent possibility to happen. Is this scary? Yes. But is this something new? Definitely not.

We’ve been dealing with life’s uncertainties ever since we were born on earth. So, bother to look back for one second and reflect. There had been a million of times already that we were so anxious and worried about something but open your eyes and look at where you are right now. You are here standing tall despite the fears that once controlled you and kept you away from the things you wanted.

If something is pushing you away from a goal just because the situation won’t go your way, it’s only a matter of bravery and self-trust.

Bravery

You have to understand that brave people experience failures. They take a small step sometimes then fall down on a cliff. Being brave doesn’t mean you know to yourself that you can succeed and reach the top. Being brave is believing and holding onto the unknown. Bravery comes from the heart.

Self-trust

Self-trust isn’t built by receiving validation from other people. This is a matter of relationship between you and your inner self. The connection will build trust and confidence.

How to overcome the uncertainty of life?

I’m far from being a life coach because my life alone isn’t a finished puzzled but all I know is that life’s uncertainty will never go away—however, you can be bigger than it. Life won’t always give you the answers, in fact, the more you search for answers, you’ll only get more questions. That part of life is something you have to understand even though it is unfair because how can you possibly move one from one thing without exactly knowing every details and reasons?

But, it takes courage to put something behind and be bigger than your old self because that is how this works.

We can’t let the hole consume us until we’re deep down on nothingness. We do the action, we find ways, we create solutions.

What if we don’t have a choice left?

Sometimes, we fool ourselves by believing that there are no choices left when in fact, there are many, we only can’t accept the fact that things didn’t go our way and we are not ready to take another step because we often think it’s taking a move backwards, but it’s NOT.

We have to remind ourselves that though this world is full of uncertainties, on the other side of the coin, it’s also full of possibilities and that is something we can hold on to.

So, if you’re reading this and you’re unsure about so many things about your life, know that future is something you only look forward to, not something you have to live with today. Because today is about the present. You can worry about tomorrow but you can’t let tomorrow ruin your today.

Let us work on the things where we can make a difference, shall we?

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Thank you and may you have a blessed holy week.

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words by me :)