Forgive others

Forgiving is quiet wasn't easy as we deal it seriously. To be honest its hard to deal this kind of behavior that we had especially it is meant to our being. Somehow, it taught us on how to vow down and make our heart open.

Eventually there are days that we find out someone has been spreading rumors about us. Of course, no one is thrilled to find out our friend or relatives has been a traitor, cheater and everything that might involved ourselves get hurt with this kind of scenario. When this things happen, it is natural to get hurt and angry to someone.

I know when the pain is fresh, you may vow that you never forgive the person who made you upset.

I'll give you some scenario:

I think I already share this one but I need to express it here.

I know I should forget of what my uncle done to my family and I keep trying that one but still it keeps on my big head. This uncle of mine always make war to their siblings, he is on the point also by taking seriously their common estate and properties and he don't care about his father power.

Somehow, I been involving his over thinker mind that might him triggered. Actually, I just lend some money worth (20,000) $400.93 to his father which is my grandfather . I just made this decision even I don't have stable work for me to utilized with this important matter of mine as I can work it out as easy and can access anytime. My grandfather don't have any hesitation to give because he wanted me to get hired from the work I've applied and we have already some things agreed. When my uncle knows about this, he reacted in a negative way. He told us that why I got that serious amount maybe I might fooled his father or anything that he's really angry with me. He even treated my mother with the words that I got hurt and really make me seriously to look forward about him. Do you know what is it? He even question of my mother faith towards religion, he exactly said this "Wala kay Ginoo". I'm speechless because obviously it is my mother and probably I am faithful with God that religion doesn't matter at all as long as you have God and he dare to tell it even he don't know what my mom side about this Faith.

I know in my part that I shouldn't take this seriously as long as my grandfather don't have any reaction about what we've agreed. I always tell my mom that let them be and now I know whose the people help me with this lowest point in my life.

I'll always set my mind that I should forget it and forgive them.

After some time has passed and opportunity comes to make this heal. Probably, Forgiveness is there if you open your heart always. As I possessed this kind of behaviour I must say that it is an easy in my side to forgive my uncle.

Forgiveness doesn't mean it's okay to hurt you gain and it's quite possible that you need to end the relationship base on what happened. Some actions are unforgivable but most aren't.

Holding a grudge or clinging the pain will just make you feel worse. To make you feel good and completely heal, you have to forgive. Once you have forgiven, surely there is happiness, joy and more love because you deserve PEACE.

FORGIVE AND FORGET

OTHERS.

PEACE AROUND THE WORLD✌

CIAO✨