Timing, Testing And Tweaking Your Mindset
What's your focus on and is it in understanding of you being a better version of you, or better your integrity... sometimes we ask ourselves **“who am I to receive this promotion and who am I to receive this blessings”** and then of things are going too good we speak and expect the bad.. what's getting ready to happen cause this is so unreal and we refuse to accept being blessed, so the reverse is the case and we speak the opposite things... Then again sometimes we are in a space where we are struggling and we start to say what did I do to deserve it? And we forget about grace..
We should be prepared for the intimate mystery of life because stuffs happens and you're going to loose people, there might be a lot going on that you don't have answers to or a good explanation for. It's just the world turning and it's either going to be good or bad or even worse but please don't look at it as a direct result of some thing you've done or did in the past.. and likewise when things goes on your favour you shouldn't have the ego that you did it all by yourself... there will be good and bad things that happens to the good people so even in this space be careful what you speak into the atmosphere because often times what you speak determine what you'll believe..
You see how covid came and there was a new change for over two years now, everyone had to confirm to doing things different because if you don't do what necessary of you then you are much more prone to have this virus and fully exposed.. Every season and time requires its own efforts and "what do you think you need now?"
Change your mindset and shift the mindset to speak differently that you can go from favour to favour and winning to a winning season and even expecting more.. You've suffered too much to loose now or drop out now, you've got to be in expectation cause that's when things start to change... what if all you need to do is to pray that no one will take your place that its going to be all you and even if you don't get it now the right timing will be it..
Listen you are not going to be aware, that's how God works and all you're going to do is to everyone expectant coz you and I don't know when and how it's going to work.. just like you place your bet on auctioning an item, no one knows the person that will place a bigger fund.. I saw an auction that someone nobody expected to purchase that item actually got it, it was times 4 of what the last person placed and that was huge.. So are we always mad with God when we don't get what we want instantly, its up to him to bring it to manifestation so all you have to do is keep believing.
We need to move away from worrying and from the rigid understanding it’s so bad that it takes all our attention from the main focus… it makes me weep of the number of times I’ve allowed grieving take over my mind but I still had one little thing pushing me through and that was hope, hope that the things I use to be wouldn’t be my demise but a stepping stone for me.. one thing I could really be sure I did was fail at the test, missed the timing but still able to tweak my understanding..
Be sure to be thankful for your sanity, as long as you still have the breathe inside of you you’ll fulfill purpose.. There’s something about worshipping that shakes the blessings down, while waiting keep praying whatsoever your situation is now don’t make it worse by complaining all the time..
Today is the last day of the month and a time to look back over November and count the blessings of the month, for you making that amount was poor coz you see others making it big… the mount you’ve made so far equals your efforts, so if you want to be better move out of your comfort zone..
Thank you reading and this was meant to be released yesterday but I was really occupied that I missed the timing… a form of encouragement to everyone, its just a matter of timing your miracle and satisfaction is on the way…
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***November 2021***
We Have To Stop Hating And Working Against Each Other
You know this quote about critiquing in private, there a lot of things people say behind you and work so hard to see you fail.. Why are you angry or why will people have that mindset of putting their friends or partners or colleagues and every other person down and its basically for no tangible reason.. Even if it is, do not absorb a lot, allow things slide.. You'll see a man get stabbed over something very small, so many things are happening outside these walls..
You see this happen in relationships, when you're not treated well and been disrespected and if you lost him or he lost you that isn't the right person for you.. You see this with colleagues, out of anger you create a lie just to ruin that person.. Like seriously what was the reason behind this.. I've met someone who told me that he wished another fellow worker dead and I was really trying to figure out why and the main reason behind that.. That's a wrong mentality, you should settle your differences and tell the person right away what he or she did that you don't like..
Seriously people need help, these are issues that needs to be treated immediately and urgently.. You hold on grieve too much that it consumes you to act too quickly. You love that person but still wish for a lot of chaos upon that person, as humans if we become too sensitive it will be later that we'd realize the intensity of what we've done..
As humans we have to learn to avoid being a danger to ourselves and to everyone around us, what if we are the toxic people and not the next person we tag as being toxic.. We read comments or articles and we focus on ruining that user, why not correct that person to be better next time than go ahead with a strike that sends that person packing.. Where you see a lot of people being hurt by either partners, family and even work mates, it will take the grace of God for the affected person to come off it.. The feeling of betrayal or been disrespected has created a stamp within..
The thing is what it shows, is that everyone shouldn't have this illusion of envy and hate.. Your purpose should be how to see that this person or that person can get better, we can be happy for the success of others.. We don't know the struggle towards it and if your believes aren't towards seeing someone get better or appreciate people who are better than us, that character of bashing of so many thoughts or destruction will never stop ringing in your head..
This is a message to be concerned about others, be at peace with helping people grow and even if they are above you still be happy for them.. the good things we do in life always attract a lot, and even for those who are doing better based off of our influence will look back and bless you as well..
You’d notice one significant thing with teachers, not just any kind but those that have a good heart towards the people they teach always want to see them doing well and even surpassing them.. that should be your new self towards others, be cheerful and caring and as we approach the month and season of giving feel free to bless a soul…
Thank you for reading, I love you all..
Happy Monday..
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***November 2021***
That’s Your Goal, Not All!
When everyone is questioning the opportunity, you are taking really good advantage of it and beyond normal… you may hear people say a lot and ask a lot of questions, “can you make it and can you acquire this and more within a frame time..?”
when there‘a a casting down, to you that’s your time of lifting.. so this is the time to shake off those limits and the time stamps that has been your mindset towards your set goal.. you’re vulnerable but should that make you a weak person.. You can’t please everybody and you must trust me with these words, if you want to carry them along you must make sure they see your destination and support you..
I’ve been in a condition when I would seek someone else opinion about everything.. and it became a problem for me coz every little attempt, I wait for a response.. Until I was completely honest with myself I knew where I was headed so I chose to move all by myself or seek like minds… truly only you have the answer to these clause, if no one is ready to support all you do then that person doesn’t deserve you.. “What sort of friends do You keep?”
You’ve got to build more blocks as you move on, do not accept defeat for an answer and feel free to spread your wings.. and do not settle for less. I talked about contentment recently, fine you can have all of this and still be contented and at the same time working towards that desired route..
So recently I was talking with someone who just saw his results today and that is the waec examinations for west Africa and he passed all his papers.. then he started telling about how he prepared towards it.. he was multitasking, having an exam and still doing a lot of things coz he blogs too and I chipped in one good question “How did you cope?”
He wasn’t limiting himself and even though he had exams to do there was still something more that he had to add to it.. I know this will sound funny to you but this guy had the determined spirit, even after his papers he went back to what he outlined as a daily progress… where am I driving at with all of this… is for you to focus on the main goal that you set for yourself and make sure this coming year is one in which we wouldn’t feel reluctant and unprepared…
If you end up making it nobody cares of the process, but you’ll see them running to you just to celebrate your success… So maybe you have to work out how better you can be and how fast you are now.. If you’re in a condition where no one is giving you the same vibe and energy then you have to be alone on this…
So even before the new year, plan a new strategy that no one knows… this will you to strike more and come out victorious.. there are factors that limits our progress and I will mention just two, Feed and retain… When you easily absorb everything set on the way you fail and fall easily..
Our mindset changes when we hear that someone dropped out of the race, why don’t you keep running and when you get there you can look back… the people you walk with may have just a quarter side of your intentions, their vision isn’t close to yours if you slow own when they do.. then you have a longer time for yours to come into actualization and sometimes it never happens…
Do not act upon the wrong motives and do not stop doing what you do till you get there… battles just be won in 2022, but are you ready to take the win… the next step to avoid distractions is to get inspiration from people that have had stories of life… from there you get motivated, it could be in from of books or journal and that works…
These two has to stop for you to have the courage to push through… thank you for staying with me on this one…
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***November 2021***
Initiate Your Healing
In this space, this is for those who are currently single or you’re getting ready to be single like in a week or two or more and you’ve been through some tough things as it relates to your relationships or things that happen to you in life and it affects how you show up in a relationship.. this is where we’re at and it’s an important work because only you can do it, like you can come to school for four years straight and if you don’t do the work you ain’t leaving anytime soon.. the work has to be done by you and no one else….
You really don’t have somebody able to do everything for you so the first and the only step when you seek healing… What have you learned from love so far, individually you learn love from various sides and when you see that you can evaluate legit stories of anyone you admire and see how they operated and see how that touched and made an impact to you..you look at healthy and unhealthy relationship and you can know the outcome of each..
So if this person is living an unhealthy relationship you should know the suffering and pain when it gets intense.. and check out the healthy ones too..”how are these lessons showing up in the reality of today? The healing starts from evaluating and accessing every bit of information and the results you’ll getting…
What if your problem could be low self esteem and you just need to identify how you want a relationship to be.. you can talk to people and hear them out in relation to their life..and so in a healthy relationship there will be arguments and disagreements but both people will want to see it corrected and resolve this issue.. both will want to apologize and leave that lifestyle and a that’s what you want to imitate…
So the next step is to take on that style. And after determining what you need then write down them all down.. Make an investment into yourself to get good knowledge.. it’s never late to learn and you’d see how blessed you are to be filled with this understanding.. what’s your definition of Love?”
Identify the red flags before jumping in, it’s not healthy and when you can see what good from bad then your healing and evaluation starts.. and if you’re already present in one and you feel this isn’t what you planned for, you still have to learn from this same process. It will take long to but always be ready to learn and study the process then use that same idea to resolve yours..
If you feel that you can’t do that alone please talk to somebody and make sure you clarify everything… now as you look back with this new knowledge picture your brain having some sort of a note saying something positive to you and grabbing everything that says you can’t do it.. then go from that same code after reading through courses and educational books and people who spoke the truth so that you’ll know how to battle this..
So basically learn new form of knowledge and apply it, it will help you break through and also help you heal..
I hope this makes sense… thank you for reading and I wasn’t feeling too well today so this will stop at this length…
Love you all..
***November 2021***
“Would You Get Striped Of The Blessings Before Showing Gratitude?”
How about you make this day the lord’s day and a day of gratitude, and really good through the process of literally thanking him for everything… Lord thank you for the shirt I got on, Lord thank you that I could see right now, thank you that I could talk right now, thank you that I could type this article, thank you for air I breathe… like a lot of time we go through life and we got so much to be thankful for but we don’t really take the time to say thank you…
We often times ask for what we want, we asking for blessings and instead of taking the time to say thank you for this Lord and thank you for that as well.. and whenever you feel like you’re running out of things to be thankful for one thing you can realize is that every breath you take when you cannot count blessings then count every breath you take… anytime this happens remember for you to exhale and inhale that is a blessing in itself and you have to take your time to process that…
We move around and we look and we compare other lives, singles looking at the married, those without jobs looking at the ones with, finances are tight and finances are loose and we struggle finding the joy and the peace where we’re at and that’s a very negative mentality… would you see a man or a lady with billions of dollars and says I want to be just a normal person again, you will never see that happen..
Look at the life you’ve achieved and the kids you have, the education you’ve received and all other things that have happened with you and yet you’re moving forward but contented with where you’re at presently.. When you can cunt every blessings envy and jealousy cuts down completely, shift your mindset and let your daily kids be around attaining a growth personality.. Where you’re get to a level and say yes!! I’m truly blessed and things shall come to my rising..
Going and coming I’m blessed and I will never live in want but embrace God’s blessing and this literally makes me cry because even in my unfaithfulness he has never failed me yet and he’s never going to now.. However far you can break all of this down should make you think through how worse it would have been.. In this moment that’s what you have to do coz when you’re in a place if gratitude your life is going to change…
You can be in a negative side with your account balance yet you don’t know how you’ve survived this long, you could have been in the hospital bed but you woke with no signs anymore, you wouldn’t have known noicecash and readcash when you did but suddenly someone or something lured you here, the times you stayed and learnt about the new things that came shouldn’t that tell you how merciful our God is..
Go from scarcity to intense gratitude because your past didn’t haunt you, depression and anxiety didn’t attack like it used to, you didn’t die in the process, you where miraculously saved from an accident. If you are reading this know that a million people wish to have this life you live but didn’t get the chance to, not that you’re better of but it’s all the grace of God..
I think this tells us more about showing appreciation, if God decides to toss you aside would you make it on your own in this world… the year is almost up, what are you grateful for?” It’s less than 40 days to a new year, grateful for your life, for your family, for your loved one, for your friends inclusive of your virtual friends too… go back to the picture and see where you are now to when you started and start giving him all the praise…
Thank you for reading.. I do hope this changes our perception of life and the real idea of thanksgiving… I hope the week is going well enough for you all.. this was inspired from @Freedom007 recent post on gratitude.. here https://read.cash/@Freedom007/grateful-2-8f24ce7f
God bless you all.
Happy Thursday..
***Novemeber 2021***
“A Lot Of Other Stuff That Go On That We Don’t See, Lesson Or Not?”
This is a lesson in perception and just understanding that right there changes you from worrying to being free and to live happy… A lot of times we just get caught up in what people show us and it’s a lesson and that is you never know unless you’ve shown, there are things a lot of people go through and when you see them one on one you’ll be amazed how they are still standing… not going to lie, if you where hit by the same heat I’m not sure you can live the next minute. So would you now look at the grace you have…
“let me take it back to the beginning of a friends story… at 15 he was already making a lot through what he was doing, but when I approached him now that he’s 24 my mind mind was blown away after listening to his struggles and journey.. he knew what he wanted to do behind closed doors when no one was watching and had a strong over view of where he was headed.. firstly he started with photography and he got a camera of his own, did that over a year and made a few bucks taking shots of models with his design..
He made money editing and when he’s brand got more noticed he got popular and then more earnings streamed in.. but since he liked fashion so well he built something really interesting with some apps then went on to make some shirts and made some profits from doing all that then reinvested. And that kept being the new pattern which was working for him but guess what he lost everything like literally everything… he ran into a road block and that cost him all the money he earned through hustling…
But that didn’t stop him, he had it in him and you’d always want to be around him cause he is a genius… so he looked for someone who would support his idea and his talent and it kind of worked.. At the age of 16 he got his first sponsorship and overall it was a day he would never forget.. there was an event he hosted all by himself at that age but still lost a lot because of the turn up, I think if he hosted something now people wouldn’t hesitate to pay a visit…”
But you know what lessons I learnt from him, he didn’t see anyone above him like a God but he dealt deeper and searched for what will make him shine and started with the little that was available… not that he’s brand is massive but he has something that can never stop growing.. these where just the little things he faced cause he went all in and even borrowed money from his friends and family.. and really pushed himself to the level of exhaustion.
So if you want to start your own business get ready coz it’s going to be one hell of a ride… You may not have an entrepreneurial support but you have to start this even though there will be countless trial and error and so many failures but I promise you that it’s worth it at the other end of it..
Not to discourage you but you don’t have to envy anybody, you’ll be surprised what he or she did to get to that position. It maybe your boss or someone you see having a lot going on even as you try so hard to imitate it wouldn’t add up… what you have to do is for you to build your own career and your vision and then finally add efforts and wisdom towards it..
“Rome wasn’t built in one day” a really famous quote, the energy you’re showing must be put in the right things that will yield you a good result.. I just met him in a party and we both discussed them he told me his last life and how he got to where he is now.. I think he one of the youngest entrepreneur I have seen that makes it big time.. I called friend because I was startling to know him as likewise him too, and that was how my mindset changed.
I really appreciate my reader as you all are wonderful and the main reason why I still do this… God bless you all..
Have a good night rest…
***November 2021***
“Happiness Is Going From Failure To Failure Without Loosing Enthusiasm”
Facing failures we loose the will to keep trying, then when a message says start over that even adds salt to the open wound... it's very human to do that but let me tell you something excellent itself is not normal, so if you want the best out of life you can't do what's just normal coz unfortunately it will win over you like literally jump past you..
A lot of people are desperate and you can tell from their reaction to certain things of life. Look at failures eye to eye and stand up for yourself as a man or a woman. Think logically if you're ready to take full control of what's happening sacrifices have to be made and the more realize that you become wiser, smarter and listen more...
Look at your life first and then come to a realization that it's going to be very tough and so that's why you can't spend all day talking to the walls coz nobody is going to hear that. We have a lot of things right in front of us and we don't understand the concept of why we keep on re-doing the same process without success. Then all of a sudden you grasp the idea and start taking things as a stepping stone to another level and from that as well to the next level of success..
What if I told you that you've got to go to God, you're looking for an easy way out but do you really know what people are going through or have been through... the sleepless night, the prayers, the energy and time dedicated to fully make something come alive... You have to restore patience, if you realize what they've been through you will see that you haven’t done 1 percent of what they all did..
So you have to realize that what you're going through in this season of want and lack or some thing even worse than that, Is going to make you watchful and observant.. So understand this coz you'll get to a place where you have to find peace within yourself... Put on the will and tap into those things and put your body on a full motion and the next is to max out on those little areas...
**“Do you really want happiness?”** This should ring at you daily, you can’t do this by accepting the little failures… In as much as this is one things you need to handle, take a look at what you intend to achieve if it’s worth putting in full attention you know how to create a good strategy to it… I pray for everyone still believing God for one thing or the other, God will bring them to manifestation and you’ll be among the first testifiers in 2022… coz when you looked back of how you did it, you will be happy with your self…
This was intended to be short… thank you for reading through.. this was really to encourage you not to give up or keep hurting… look on the brighter side and that’s always the winning side.. Love you all.
***November 2021***
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A 100$ A Day, “What’s Your Vision?”
Recently I had a discussion with a friend and we where talking about visualization and the impact that it can really have on a persons life.. so look this isn't a motivational speech or any thing you may imagine but something I have pictured to be really helpful to me and to you as well. You might think this wouldn't walk but I think the power of visualization is probably one of the strongest thing in seeking out success... whether in an entrepreneurial space or fitness or your career or with your relationship, whatever it may be..
How beneficial is this?" Firstly this helps more if you can be more direct and open to the goals you want to set or have been set.. you may see people who started a journey but still yet to earn anything but never see them quit, it will be important to put in your mind that it is possible to make a particular amount of dollars although you may be failing but you can easily be reminded of where you're headed..
You wouldn't fully understand this cause you will fail like countless times and to be honest with you, this is what I visualise for myself so I have this placed as a reminder on my phone and I get motivated each time... maybe what I earn now could triple soon but I must have to learn contentment as well as hustling...
You could be putting efforts but yet nothing is coming forth or even close, so for you it could be how do I make a 100-1000k? So its crucial to dedicate new strategies and methods...
Let me be real I'm still failing like a million times over but what I have envisioned is just around the corner... and with time I'll get there and even surpass that.. that's how far a determined mind can take you.. and when you cross that, you set your next milestone and try to do a lot more so you make that happen then you move beyond that... How interesting will it be to earn at least 1k a day, so it wouldn’t always be monetary terms it could be family goals, relationship goals, school goals, career goals..or even a car and a house..
But it all comes down to you and for you to be successful in your life generally where is your stand point and with no path to follow you'd hit a hard rock and still not rise up.. To utilize these mindset, identify with where you're at presently and think this over "are you ready to give up that position to be better?"
This would been a clickbait but I already made things really clear that it's a walk through and maybe we could have this vision together and also could close friends with the same goals.. this sounds funny.. So please have a concrete target, you can start with something or an extra stream line of work that can get you far in accomplishing all of this.. if that is the dream...
The heat will be much and the expectation, even as you try to make these changes don’t feed yourself negatively by abandoning the important things you ought to do.. take everything along with you, and you will be really fine… I know of a friend that makes a lot online through surveys, and earns much more than I do, he’s drive always move me to be better while at it…
So this may not come through this year or this month but I do believe hardwork paves ways and it wouldn’t be long trust me… you may put this vision on hold due to how things are presently but make sure you still have an objective to fulfill ahead of you… Trust the process wherever you find yourself… I’m sure with God all things are possible, make sure to ask him to bring all of this to manifestation and he will come through…
Thank you for reading through... and to every reader and upvotes God bless you.. You are the reason I'm still here and still feel good about writing...
it’s a new week and I wish you all success… I really do love you all.. so take care and always be happy and cheerful..
/November 2021/
A Productive 2022
I believe the first aspect to being productive everyday is simply understanding your bigger goal or bigger picture very clearly but also having the ability to take it day by day. A lot of people really struggle with this, they get a goal in mind like I want to be on a lot of blogging platforms and I want to make $50 a day when they haven’t made their first article and yes of course the entire process is going to be incredibly overwhelming and it’s going to be tough to get through that day to day work.
But one way you can still have the chance of becoming better is if you could still break it down, it becomes less daunting than it really has to be and it can actually be fun when you look at it from a different perspective. So the biggest and the most important thing is aiming high but also having the ability to work your way up and not allow your ambitious goal scare and not that I’m here to do that too but if you want to be better then be better while at making progress..
The second way of getting it all done is your task criteria or list and set them based on the essential things that needs to be done, you shouldn’t wake up everyday and be positive then it’s 5hours already and nothing is been done then, the next 24hours still nothing.. So when you have a list of things, with a little bit of determination then you can sit down and that’s some form of a strategic plan.. You’d see that your daily achievements will get better, it’s hard to follow through but when you can complete 3-5 things on that list.. You’ve won for that day..
Then lastly do not ignore the process, for everything you do in life you will pass through something to get there and sometimes more challenging processes towards your goals.. but in as much as you believe the process and your mind is made up to meet with it, there will be a change.. nonetheless every outcome you see today started with something and that something could just be so little but as they keep on doing that same thing, it brought about the big surprises…
I am 100 percent sure that you’re going to see a significant transformation in the quality of your mood, the quality of your work just across the board.. and these are things that myself and my friends are still trying to master, definitely it will happen with time it’s just a matter of keeping them in-front of your mind and doing that same thing everyday.
So I just wanted to share a little bit of wisdom I picked up from a few lessons in the last couple of months going down this journey of mine and still on it and trying to take as many people with me with good understanding of what is true… which more recently it seems to me that I’m doing the right thing and it’s just a matter of time and figuring out the best practices for you to follow..
I do hope this will be helpful to you as you start doing the basic things to be better…
From what I have written, these are the three aspects that will help you through 2021 last quarter and beyond into 2022.. we can be great and it starts from out today.. If you need to work on yourself, you’ve got to do it right although I’m also trying to get better but I know it wouldn’t be long till we get used to this… simple steps like understanding, scheduling and awareness will take you far..
it’s easier said than done, but you can have your style and system of doing things and still make do with this.. God bless you..
***Happy Sunday.. Take care and have a good day.. starting from today I pray that you’ll be more productive than any other week or month of this year..***
/November 2021/
Your Actions Correlate Directly With Your Self Image
It's natural for you to believe any thing but the thing about these labels we put on our self is, it is just a mental framework that we set up which isn't the permanent reality of who you're going to be for the rest of your life. This woke me to be conscious of the labels we subconsciously put on ourselves we'd realize how many things in our day-to-day life that we just automatically do or assume that we can do which causes a limit to our potential...
It may sound weird but its the reality, coz most people don't look deep enough inside themselves to figure out what these labels are, so what if I challenge you today to check through the labels you put on your self if they are actually pushing you forward or holding you back and that's a reflection of your self image..
Every experience we encounter creates a mental image and it's perfectly inline with your self image which the brain is always going to try to get us in line with what we created already as a self image... let's look at it this way, what if you where somewhere who had this special way of communicating to people and everybody has known you for that and then you're called some one with a good accent... you'd notice that you've learnt that all your life, and everytime you go outside and speak with people you'd expect that to be said to you...
If you can continue to push through all of that, then you can go against the years of self image you've created and if you can continue to push through all of that you can be better at creating what is right... if you are being controlled by what the environment say you are and you constantly make efforts to break that you will always feel the breakthrough. If you can take action and see success you can break the initial tag and labels and be a better you..
"So what interesting thing from your past have you overcome?"
Do you feel it controlled you for long and changed your perspective on a lot of things or just few things.. And lastly "are you still called that?" It's not easy to be let loose out of all of that but consistently we shine through cause of the willingness to be free...
If you show good actions, then you'd be tagged a good name.. that's juat how we tend to call every one that has maybe been a mentor or an icon... So let your life style be one that attracts good name, something you always want to be called all the time... Show goodness to people, do things beyond normal, change your life style and growth mindset...
Thank you reading through... happy weekend and always stay happy with a smile too...
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/November 2021/
The Biggest 2021 Lessons
I think that these lessons have been learned only through my personal failures and successes but mainly from the failures. I found that The more things you take on in your life the more your try to push yourself the faster you'll fail and the more you'll will learn. I've come with a pretty big realization recently and I want to share with you all.. because I feel it may help one or more of you move forward from wherever you're at right now..
There is a ton of information and knowledge and strategy and tips whatever word you intend using on how to be successful, it's a lot of info out there and I think that this is an amazing thing but I think if you're not careful it can be the downfall of you before you even begin to rise. So let me explain why it can be dangerous, the first is similarities because if you are similar to me and you lacked a role model to follow when you're just beginning it can be very easy to blindly follow somebody without doing any research or even going ahead to understand if what they say truly make sense. This can be developed sometimes after you've gone through some experiences yourself but when you start with a bright mind this is what traps you...
The second reason is that a lot of these strategies out there especially for people who are just getting started, the main thing they focus on is the step by step and the day to day task that need to get it done in creating some thing and lastly how are these things focused on self and personal habits and how has this year led you to build your self either through writing or doing anything else..
The best thing I have leaned so far is that, The focus needs to be in building a good path and that is sure but you also need to devote equal energy to become the best version of yourself.. without daily and healthy state of mind it's hard to create something unique for yourself. Even as you try to do that you've got to develop creative thinking and move past the level you are presently in... for every writer who has developed on this platform has had their success story and the right decisions that led to this...
Take note of where you are presently, "do you like being there?" How can I make my standards change and how do I become my best self that makes an impact in my business or every other thing I do... Firstly accept your position, then move beyond it.. you'd notice that you become more open to new and brighter options..
Consistent daily focus towards improvement and not jistvstauing right day and not making good use of your time.. So many people who have succeeded right now never knew those ideas could make waves like it did, like you will see YouTubers blowing up tech stuffs and getting much followers to see their content... that should tell you the amount of risk put into it.. Every single try to improve as well as understand how you would be able to improve too.
Have a believe in your potential, it doesn't matter the percentage even very life would take you high up.. motivate yourself when you are solidly behind, that will help you break walls that surrounds you... Don't take these things for granted as it Will help you plan more and be more efficient in 2022 and beyond...
These are the two points that will give you a growth mindset, towards becoming successful... and even as you do that, maintain your health and don't initiate plans that will cost your life. It will take a slow motion but you'd win the race soon.
Thank you for reading, I hope this will make an impact and you'd see things differently... you're doing better still work more and out more efforts... for your information even the best craftsman still works hard as well, people in the same line of business making it still put much efforts regardless of position.. So if you want to be above follow precepts and guides... Love you all.
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/November 2021/
“Why Do We Overcomplicate And Overthink Success?”
Figure out your ultimate vision which dosent have to be that concrete and down to every last percentage, you just need to understand where you want to go and then literally break it up into what must done daily. How has these visions helped in your day to day lives and what have you improved on these couple of months?
Take for example you could do two things you could go to the gym tomorrow and you have the most intense work outs ever like 3hiurs straight and after that you're going feel fatigued and you're going to feel like you just killed it and that you did an amazing job which obviously anyone who sees you knows you did but is that going to push you closer to where you actually want to go. If you're working out it's very likely that the goal was to build muscle and strength and gain physique but let's be serious here you jistvdoing one intense sport every week wouldn't get you anywhere close to it, the thing that will bring forth good results is going to the gym consistently over some set period of time so as opposed to one or two days of going super hard if spread into multiple days you should see a lot of improvement compared to the latter.
I think this is what hurts a lot of people even when they go with the process,of starting anything whether online or a blog or any other thing and you set a, goal of achieving a 100k in a month or some thing even more but you'll be choked up with work that you wouldn't be able to achieve that. I was always someone that sees so many authors and falls in love with books immediately but I was never consistent with it and you'd see me flip through the first 20 pages then I'm done and it's been like this for a while now.. But what I should have done is set a goal and not pressurize myself so much to read as many books but try to cover one.. So i shifted my goal and I started loving some amazing books..
Changing the smallest things into a daily discipline help to get you through a lot.. this happens in every area of your life, stop overthinking and Overcomplicating success or your success story... stop adding and adding to the goal because of the people you watch daily then you stress the brain cause it can't process all at once, but the focus should be "what can I do today that will push me closer to that goal?" then daily repeat the same and as it continues you become open to more initiative as to the how's? and the Why's?.
Relating all this to being an author on readcash, so let me give you an example of what this implies here...So if you're just getting started that dialy discipline would be testing each day, testing each area of creative's, testing what kind of genre are you, and testing your mind to accept the outcome.. You must know that there are no shortcut to any thing in life and if you want to be better set the goal.
When you set the goal as to what kind of earning you want to get every month do not focus on any tiny efforts of what it would take to get there but focus on the daily guide that will get you there without problems.. Figure out the way to test several methods to figure out what helps better, study writers entrepreneurs, fashion icons then when you get the perfect idea go for it..
Then lastly take off that perfectionist life style, when you test and fail you would want to kill yourself, but when your mindset is to set so many networks everything gets better with each trial.. everyone's got their dseites so please don't choose a complicated route to it because at end of it all someone else will take that idea and get there before you do...
Thank you for reading, be willing to be the best player... are you ready player one?"
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/November 2021/
How Can You Possibly De-Attach From Every Negative Feeling
**How about you redefine failure as the price you pay for achievement and success.**
There maybe a moment this year like a big opportunity to really change your life, instantly you dropped the ball. Maybe you lost focus or you didn’t take notice of the market value, whatever happened you really had a big opportunity in front of you and then you let it fall without you really getting the grasp of it. This is one of the things that keeps you away for months and even years, it consumes your imagination and future worth in anything…
Negative feelings such as, “I failed in the past I’m gonna fail again or I could never do something as great as that first thing that I did” How can you possibly be free from all of that? What has really worked for me because let me tell you something about myself, I have failed a lot of times like really a lot on my journey which I’m still currently on and even though I’m still within 3 figures at the moment I still had times where I failed at the most simple things…
New ventures, pre-sales on new tokens, trading, just to name a few of them, I may have failed even more than anyone reading this today but I wouldn't stop I’m still going to keep pushing through and maybe it will be worth it later.. “what could have been the problem or what you did wrong” and when you do get an answer, you take a step further to be better..
**“What went wrong? was I not observant enough? did I act alone when I should have seeked help from my friends?”** there will always be a solution to it and this is applicable to every area of your life as well.. so please do your findings.
When it comes to the failures and disappointments that’s when the your biggest lessons are going to be revealed to you, they can shape you and make you ready so when it’s time to take advantage of what is available to you, you grab it all at once…
But **“how can you move on?**” You should realize you’ve been walking in cycles in the past and maybe you didn’t take it seriously when you ought to. You weren’t fast enough or you weren’t just into it at that time or you where forced in by your friends…
The opportunity will be there to learn and another to get you out of the situation, so please create you crypto plan and take full actions according to what you have…
It makes you optimistic and helps a lot to get you out of that failure after that figure out what you want to do for the coming year not just a week or a month… write a plan of what it is, it’s always personal so you have it all within you and equally start taking action. I promise you that everything will work for you and fall in place..
I am no crypto genius whatsoever but I have learnt from my friends who are doing great ‘to always study’… Every single time you approach him he says he will create time to teach, coz crypto is just the same way you learn in school or any other thing.. Every single day should be positive, if you are willing to hodl them let that be your guide and you intend trading or swapping and making profits then that is good as well, do not let these small mishap’s discourage you from this lovely eco-system and as a newbie most importantly..
Let’s work it out together, everybody has their individual stories to tell and my last words will be trust the latter not the now you see…
Thank you for reading till this point… remember to always take your health seriously and if you feel down please pause and have some rest…
***November 2021***
“Fight For Your Children When It’s Deserving”
I tried so hard to be fluid, so I want to remind you that a lot of us here are parents and a lot of us will become parents if you’re not a parent and I want to bring this to your notice to fight for your child… and what I mean by that is you have to make sure you go up to the school where they are at, meet the teachers and whoever looks after them and let them know that you are raising your child to be great and you expect excellent from him or her coz you are there for almost 8 hours daily and if you can’t do that please let me know.
The kids today go through a lot, you need to also keep them in check … not too over protective but let them know that you are watching everything they do even though you don’t do it… check their homework, if there’s anything that need to be done then help them with it.. You can’t study with your child for 2 hours daily and expect less from him, you’d see them doing so much better in school..
Sometimes it is hard, like deeply hard but there are channels that can help you help them get better, youtube is a good place to learn new ways to approach the problem. Or find someone who does it much more then seek advice from them. It’s your care and if you can’t sacrifice at least $5 -10$ a month for tutorials then you really don’t want them to import. If you work a lot during the day, send them to somewhere they can learn even in your absent, then also allow them in some extra curriculum activities or a sport activity… it helps in the learning process.
Do not overthink it because I know it’s hard, when you’re worried about life, stress, paying the bill, relationship, pain in our body, loosing mothers brothers or sisters these are stresses on parents that it becomes too easy for kids to be left behind. If you see beyond your present idea and consider these little kids as your legacy then you must put efforts to make them great regardless of anything in your past or presently occurring.. If all you focus on is putting food on the table and clothes on their back and you didn’t consider their mental health, spiritual and physical well being then everything you did was for nothing.
You want to compare to your own parents, you’re still average in what the job title states.. Just do the job that needs to be done it doesn’t matter what your mind or what people says.. **“Are you really doing what is right and are you to true to who you say you are?”**
You have a vision, let it be covered with love. Without this it is hard to take up your children through school, when you start your tuition may look like a scary movie but you will make sure that you send them off to school. I could remember my admission into unilag, there was no money to pay school fees and acceptance fee back then.. but my mom never stopped until I was fully registered, she’s an example of good mothers who still see educating their kids as a top priority.The money came through at the end and I got to know the value of education.
Make sure to engage them in so many things, extra activities to make them feel happy.. studying too much sometimes could be overwhelming, so as they do other things they get even better with the regular school work and assignment.
In conclusion to what I have here, when it comes to the health and safety of our kids, don’t hesitate to do something.. show them love in their hurt and guide them always..
Thank you for reading, I do hope we got the message… For every child we have more responsibility but you must treat them equally..Are you ready for it? Is it becoming too much?” Am I doing what needs to be done? Do not inflict pain on your kids because of what happened in your past… I have a neighbor that rain down curses on her children because of the smallest mistake, And I keep wondering if she’s in her right mind.. These are children who came out of you and you call them names… Unite your homes and be free to approach your kids on the areas they need you most.
November 2021
“How Does Loving Make You Look Weak?” We Need People Like You
The question is “Should you love more?” I got to really break down the instances when you should love differently because when we see a man or a woman truly loving that means that you’re too faithful and we are used to seeing relationships where either parties cheat. You’d see an instance where a woman tells another woman that your man should love you more than you love him or a man says that to a woman it kind of mean that this person should love you enough to be 200percent faithful to you, love you and cherish you..
So I was asking my friend about that and she said that’s just too much today and it’s crazy.. because obviously you aren’t seeing all those fancy stuff happen and you’d see people in this form of an internal war that being someone good is not just me, and being someone who would show the desired love and cherish and also respect my partner that’s just not going to work.. Can you be a keeper, like literally bringing life into the relationship and respect individuality between you both, you see that as something impossible..
Like you know if there isn’t control men are often times called the weak link and everybody wants you to be who you’re not.. What if you go against that and respect your women’s minds. You’d see homes that have devised a wrong tactics and often times too hot for each party to bear.. loosen up a bit and do not conform to what the world says but how you want to show love and understanding.
If anyone’s saying something different to you please block that person completely because that person wants you to fail in that relationship… Do not make friends with people that wants your downfall, you may see it as pride and authority but you don’t know how you hurt your partner by depriving that person to shine just like you do.. he or she shouldn’t be your experiment to practice what you haven’t in your lifetime..
You can’t always practice what the world neglects you on into your home coz every one in their decent mind still see you as the problem, self reflection is important..
“Was this my intention while going through with it..How do I get through with it? I’m I doing what is right?” I can’t keep on doing this. We need people like the real you, who is compassionate, loving, peaceful and kindhearted..
Allow love flow and be at peace with yourself for doing that… the harsh reality is those people who want this don’t even show the love back and they all be wanting care and faithfulness… **“Initially what was your love built on, how did you become so close and what made you so close?”** If that is dealt with in no time you should see that return..
Listen, if I’m not who you want me to be do not judge me as a friend or whatsoever it is.. this is my life I want to be different… I could cook for my partner if want to, I could do things differently if I want to… I could buy you flowers a hundred times if I want to, it’s me and not you.. Showing love to the fullest doesn’t make you weak, so my own direct advice is to love…
It takes the heart of two to make it work, it must be in alignment.. when you love, love for real don’t pretend to have attributes that isn’t yours. You can’t come to a realization of your fault when the union or the relationship is called off. If you happen to be my close friend, I will tell you the truth..
Thanks to all my readers for always staying with me… I really appreciate everything and also your beautiful comments..
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***November 2021***
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The Alternative Good Side Of You
Everyone is a good person until you’re hit with life problems and temptations then that makes you truly a good person if you can still win through all of that without having to loose your mind or loose your personality along the way..
There are times when we get closed by the negative side of us and it gets in the open, we want to retaliate to every thing that passes by to create an attention.. And when you fall into that trap, it’s so messy coz it will take a long time to get off the event that took place..
What I’m saying right now is to take caution, you aren’t who the people in your streets know you as… if you need to be known for a better purpose work it out because it’s starts from now. There’s an alternative side that should always wait when it’s critically not good to throw a word and that side of you must have a memory that absorbs the threat, the curses, the bullying and the torment better than your usual self..
**“Have you reacted too quickly before and you regret doing that?”** If you don’t feel a remorse over your mistakes, you are not ready for a solution to take place.. many union or relationships has ended because of easily angered party, he or she tries to bring you to understand it and you wouldn’t listen.. The more time spent, the harder it is to control you.. Everyone gets annoyed sometimes but the good side must always outweigh your bad to avoid complications.
**“Is there a solution to what has already been done or from the impact of anger?”**Most times the harm done could be long lasting and even dare with the consequences as time goes on if you can work on yourself, you can reach out to say sorry and also prevent a repetition of it again.. You have this side of you that no one has seen before, and which is kind and loving. Don’t forget that it starts from today, you have to ignore anyone or anything that triggers the the other half of you..
You can’t win over your dark self without prayer, be ready to allow him work on you and change right on the inside… everything is possible so always believe in his word of healing an deliverance, if you want to be free from all of that then praying if one that can get you really far into his presence.. If you want to be a good person, this is your moment to work deeply for the name tag. Any place you are right now maybe in your job, your school or any other place they will recognize that you’re a different person now..
Everything that has occurred wouldn’t have in the first place if you have worked on yourself before now, open up to those who could be of assistance to you.. No one knows you better than you do, you are good and you can be loved…
So this is my alternative to you, let your good sides shine… it may not be as bad as I have written it to be, just a little love will make you realize a lot of things. It must have been years since you told anyone ‘congratulations’ or ‘Good work’… be happy with peoples progress, be comfortable if someone doesn’t greet you, or if someone steeped on your shoe.. I hope and pray for a change upon everyone going through this phase, it’s temporary..
Thank you for reading…
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November 2021
A Hard Reality For Us All Today
I was just going through a lot of things and looking at the world from every perspective and it’s so bad that the world we live in is so superficial and I guarantee you that if you met you goal income, not like your ultimate life income but your next income goal let’s say you’re at $75k and you want to get to $100k if you can find a way to get to your goal weight then you’d need every strength you can gather… if that will drastically change your options and should it be that way No! It shouldn’t.. because it’s so hard..
For every legitimate increase or decrease in weight your options changes drastically and you’d know that there are certain things that can’t be changed.. The sad thing about this world is that a lot of times you’re sitting down and obsessing over it and so you’ve got to change everything that isn’t what the trend is and literally you go from one job to another finding a breakthrough. And when that doesn’t come through you are already discouraged.
I’m just telling you about how people are and their perception, It will take you a little bit of research, going through this process.. if you and I don’t see things differently, that will be the sad truth of the day because it comes down to the work we do on ourselves and it’s usually the hardest.. The last little bit of work is always the hardest, take for instance if you knew just a little bit about life and you earned much everyone will come to you as they’re trying to figure out the same thing.
Your options change and this is the hardest part, the work you’re going to be doing on yourself becomes uncomfortable, becomes too unfair then you realize that anyone who doesn't accept who I am really doesn’t deserve me.. It’s not fair to ask somebody to accept you at your mediocre best, they want you at your best.. It’s not fair asking lecturers in your department for marks to be added when you where no where close to any form grade.. It’s not fair if you work hard and later on someone else that doesn’t do much more than you gave comes in and takes the exact same spot..
So guess what the hardest little work is just a little change and when you commit to making that little change things change for the better..
You may think you are better but have you seen the man behind you or the man standing in front of you, if you take too much pride in yourself someone else will come in and did it better, immediately taking all the glory.. That’s why in Nigeria if on is progressing in a trade, you will watch how several others will want to do the same thing and guess what funny in this whole thing is how they will open up several shops closer to that just to sell the same thing..
The reality shouldn’t make you not bring out the best idea in anything, but to make you ready for the competition out there..
Thank you for reading my dear friends.. I love you all..
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*November 2021*
“Do You Always Have To Tell People When And How To Treat You Better?”
This is a question for you, do you only get attention when you let someone know you exist... when people aren’t giving you some gratitude it goes beyond being ungrateful, people who ignore or treat you worse even after putting in your effort are really not deserving of you and likewise you to them. That person is truly toxic to you, you’ve got to stay at a distance rather than having your life on the line then he or she calls it just anything..
Anyone can do that to you, then another picture of this... as a person do not force anything into anyone’s life that does not benefit them because everyone needs to elevate to the level you’re working on but if they choose not to then please that’s not a place for you.. you deserve respect, you deserve the love, and being who you are is your choice to make and no one should tell you not to be that.
what I notice in this world is most people are greedy, most people are selfish and self centered and that’s what I realized, be honest with yourself look at this way.. as the blessings and glory doesn’t always come from man but from God.. so when you are honest in your service God sees your heart and he will reward you and give you blessings you did not even ask for.
Because of how you are and because of the position where your heart is, you’d get even more than a usual payment or a recognition... and people who don’t see that are always wondering when you’ll confront them to get it. You don’t need to fight your way to be noticed, your hard work will always single you out by the right people...
Telling people will only make you look desperate and seeking attention, but if you do that based on the fact that you both are in a relationship it may not really be the right kind of solution..
If he or she doesn’t see how brilliant and hard working you are, telling them wouldn’t change or solve anything... the first question you need to ask yourself, “Is the love still there? Sometimes you don’t even get back the love you give out, it’s already fading but still you give it your full 100 percent.. You can’t get far in life by an attitude of lack, everyone who sees what you do daily needs to have an attitude of gratitude at least..
I heard a story of a man who served his boss for a very long time faithfully, like ran errands gave concrete account and did supervision all through the many years he stayed with his boss and the promising year where he would be released to stand on his own he wasn’t appreciated well enough with the finances he needed to do that... so people don’t get to be better at you cause you served them better, that’s just the mentality of so many... but even regardless you are surviving without their impact on your life...
Just saying two words ‘Thank you’ will go really far, you may not show love or receive love for doing what you do, but a little bit of appreciation is really deserving... If God can remember you when you serve him, and blesses you abundantly for that, anyone whom you force your affection on will only make you more unhappy because he is not the right person to be with.
You worth more than the level they place you at, do not stop being amazing.. you will be recognized by even the people you’ve never had a communication with before... So cheer up and never stop..
After putting in much efforts, someone will still end up telling you to be more hard working at work.. What more energy do you want to add into it again, if you keep adding more and more it will still back fire as no one will notice that you’re trying.. so far it is only the deceptive and dishonest behaviors that are likely to get supported and rewarded it’s so hard... But to you, you hardly ever forget those that have contributed to help you... do not be weary as the right timing for your recognition will approach soon..
Thank you for reading through... this was meant to be published yesterday but I wasn’t feeling too fine to compete it.. I hope the little message will be passed across.. God bless you.
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***November 2021***
Instant Gratification Vs Studying The Process
One of the things that I have seen happen in our world for a long time is basically the advancement of everything from social media, TikTok millionaires, YouTube millionaires and even Instagram high earning individuals and you got lottery ticket as well, so all these developments have shifted people into a mindset of instant gratification.
There are a whole lot that believe in this process, you know when you desire for something and you want it instantly without doing anything... the overnight miracles, and one thing I have realized in studying greatness and studying the process is that nothing is easy...
Any reward that you see a price was paid for, a sacrifice equally was made for it... and a lot of times we don’t know this till it back fires right in our faces when we do it. Have you ever wondered how a basketball player hits 10 shots and never misses one, you’d try the same thing and wouldn’t hit one in 100. You realize that it’s not easy, nothing is easy and even the easiest thing on earth isn’t easy to do...
You would acclaim everything to your name, you have the biggest body, you have every advantage, I’ve got the brains why am I not getting the big jobs, I’m an entrepreneur but still nothing to show for it listen to me without knowing the true pattern, to anything it will be hard..
What if I told you someone out there whom you want to be like put in 300 percent more of what you think you put in daily and when you need to evaluate yourself you still don’t approach a quarter of that..
Look back over and see why all of that happens the way it did, and be contented with what you have if you feel that isn’t enough for you then that’s the exact same spot your ability and agility is gotta change for good.. self evaluation comes into play, have you unleashed the full potential to live the dream, you really want someone to put a hard-earned money into you for you to live a dream or a fantasy... Hold on it’s just not balanced..
You can use just the same time to produce a bigger result.. I read through @TengoLoTodo recent post, where he explained the 80:20 reality to us and I was really glad I did stumble on that because it changed my perspective.. people may ask you what you do for work and you are like I do so many jobs, like seriously what do you do? Do you choose to convince yourself that you are dedicated or that’s the facts about you..
You can see the price, the praise and th progress but do you understand the real intimate process and the pain and the sacrifice. So please be careful whom you envy if you can’t do what he or she does please draw back, but if you feel that that is my life and choice then please love the grind..
What if I told you all of this is your test,
*“How long can you study a person to make you at the same level?”..*
it’s your choice to choose either ways but then be ready to face the heat... if you are not contented with where you are now, work harder to become the better you than no one has ever seen..
Thank you for reading through, this is an encouragement even as writers who want to be the best... Be at alert do not loose focus, your hard work will pay out very soon..
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*November 2021*
Your Relationship With Bitcoincash Becomes Too Toxic For The Normal You
Let me ask you just few questions Did you ever fail at one of your financial goals, you forgot that you had bills to pay and you spent more than you would in a month? Did you ever feel so frustrated from failing and this thoughts keeps trooping in and you make yourself feel extremely terrible just because of all of that.. I think you’d have to turn to your own advisor as it would motivate you to be better next time.. Many people are going through with this due to some reasons of the market value of bitcoincash as it became really unstable few weeks back...
But even though you felt held back, a part of you wanted more but because the relationship you built about crypto generally is just wrong, you feel it’s just as other investment that when one door shuts several others would.. Improve your financial situation today and realize the why’s and all the reasons responsible.
The simple need to stay safe always causes this, so if you see something in the charts it shoots straight up to your mind that it’s time to sell off every portfolio..so the survival of any coin seems too low to you..
At the end of the month, when you don’t meet your financial outcome you become more stressed and anxious and even feel left out... remember you wouldn’t have had this opportunity if not for the things that came your way all of a sudden, so wouldn’t you count it all as a blessing.. You do feel you can avoid feeling like crap then you blame the failure on something else. So to fully protect yourself from the nervousness and self esteem it becomes a cycle that you loose the believe of it..
I think when it comes to personal investment patience key, if that wouldn’t be what you rely on as a monthly income but if it is then you have to be watchful as the temptation can make you lose track.. but you can contribute to your financial future If that’s what you prefer long term... another aspect of it is having a softer compassion, it’s okay coz everyone fails and face the same problem as you do just always remember to be much more kind and at peace with your self it does give one an edge over anything..
Expectation doesn’t lead to the real deal, the universe are in the same spot as you are in... so why overthink through when it can still bounce back again... You’ve got to understand that every failure shouldn’t make you fall off and respond negatively to it. Right now if you gained back 200 percent of your investment I’m sure you’d be much more happy about it, but it’s going to take months and even years so remember to give yourself hope..
Crypto is just like any other business in the sense that you feel that this job I do doesn’t bring the same gain as it would before so do you choose to be kind to myself or walk away from it.. to preserve your personal interest, you still end up staying and try as much to manage the same income.. The inspiration you give to yourself about anything determines the length at which you can dwell on it.. Have you heard the rumors, is that alone able to make you happy or sad about your decision...
So choose every side that is right.. it’s not your fault that you placed Your bet on a coin and it ends up being unrelated, it will keep growing and you may not see that happen in 2020.. Grab every opportunity, you cant put all your resources into one portion but be careful when you do that.
This is where I will stop, all of this is about having inner peace... if it doesn’t go the way you planned it to, don’t stop believing..
For over a week now, every coin in the smartBCH world has been growing and doing that fast so why give up when you can make everything back both your investment and profit.. so please stop hurting when you see that 0.0000001 just left the chart.. if you have built a solid relationship and considered moving carefully, the impact wouldn’t affect you more than it should..
***This isn’t a financial advice only here right now because I care about you...***
Thank you for coming through.. Love you..
***November 2021***
The True Reality Of A Crazy World!
Have you been in a relationship and it feels too comfortable but you don’t get the meaning of what is happening... like seriously what is the meaning of this, he touches you in weird places and calls you so many disgusting names...
Please can we have sexual maturity in our age gap, another thing is you need to stop letting grown men or ladies control the narratives. You are going through a lot of pressure to make sure your relationship stands, putting in a different character, going beyond what your believes where..
If you where being called those names by a different person would you take it, I’m sure you’d lift up your hand up to give that person a hot and resounding slap... but because he is the one making the provision, you try to cover up.. I encountered something much worse today and that was the main reason for this topic, judge this case with me..
So a lady came out of a mall and she was walking out with a guy whom I supposed was her boyfriend and the next thing I saw was he pushing her towards a vehicle forcefully pulled up her clothes right in public and it felt like a normal scene as people kept walking past them.. I don’t know if that’s normal to her or to me but it’s not, These character traits won’t stop no matter how hard you try to convince the person about it..
Let me tell you what the problem with the society is, that we stopped using common sense a long time ago and we get to the place where we just start to do everything on the sides of the adversary not knowing that it breaks you completely.. you’ve got to put up boundaries in your relationship.
You’ve got your standards to take this to marriage and suddenly you fall, or you want to just live in peace but that doesn’t work either...
what you’ll do is to fold your arms and watch the humiliation, and watch them call you all manner of things.. I wish I could mention them here but that wouldn’t be allowed.. As humans we have our way with a lot of things and think we can get away with it, it always ends in shame when you are being controlled and you say nothing about it...
life happens and when you have the blue prints of your life, it changes when you meet that person... anything that’s worth having is worth waiting for, I am not a relationship advisor but I’m not going to avoid not saying my displeasure towards this issue.. he calls you a whore, a sex machine and every other unspeakable things..
Your objective shouldn’t change because of a 1 month pleasure you would get.. I’m preaching now stay with me, instead of that why don’t you wait and don’t dive in rough.. he be playing you for weeks and you didn’t notice it.
You’re a damsel, you’re beautiful and no one should harass you publicly like that... That’s just the reality In the word, it feels a lot better when you use every opportunity to cause pain... But this isn’t always normal, most times it’s what we see in pornography or what we have seen physically in our dispensation that comes with a devilish character..
Make sure the person is cleared from any psychological problem before you engage in any relationship, don’t be a slave to anyone...
The lady would have chosen to be free, I still don’t get why she let him do that... but it’s not my case to look into, maybe she has a different taste entirely... in as much as that area was public then I doubt if she was truly knowing what she’s doing...
Thank you for getting to this point, and it looks as if I’m a bit all over the place... sorry about that.
***November 2021***
10 Minute Negative Self Talk
People could tell you stories of being 100 percent faithful and being accused of cheating by their significant other to no end and you’d be like what in world is this, when I have given you any inclination that I would cheat on you.... ‘what in world’. And then you probably need to remind yourself that you were completely faithful, treated that person like a Queen or a King but still getting beat on, cheated on and they are still faithful to their partner..
The adversary don’t care who you are, don’t care how you’ve been together, how long you love your job, he gonna plant those thoughts to make you uneasy. You will notice that’s you just get upset for every little thing happening in your life and right they when those crazy things roam through, you do not want have it unleashed to anyone coz you could really do the worst with every advantage you can get..
You have to admit that you still need to work on your ability to process a lot of things and never you riding with something different than what you can’t control. Have you this feeling if wanting to just strangle someone at work, like when you work really hard all day and you boss or senior colleague says “what have you been doing all day?” And you have been attending to the same persons request, you would only not hesitate because a sack letter awaits you if you do..
Where I’m navigating today is to learn to control the other side of you, a side that doesn’t hear calm down or let it slide... we’ve all had them, anyone who dares come close to you will have himself or herself to blame for that... instead of thinking towards how you could make someone’s like a living hell why not talk to God about it, and allow him do his work and make it right.
If you can’t tolerate your partner, your superiors, your parents, your siblings then why don’t you leave that place at that minute to avoid saying or doing what you ought not to. Even when they say a lot, yes it’s supposed to be this way and you should flare up because anything that happens beyond that will be your loss..
So ask God to give a higher level of peace, that’s kind of peace that ensures and take the side of a different approach... it’s like when you know who that person is, you understand the condition he or she goes through daily you really don’t need to add much more problem in to it. Separate yourself from being just a grown boy to being a matured man, and you don’t process like a kid would it like any crazy person would.
So please shift your mindset, and say guess what I can’t living a prisoner of my own self because it doesn’t always take 10minute that was just my exaggeration so you need not be a prisoner to stress, to insecurities, to worry and all what not so you tell yourself that... So if your wife or anyone is out there late, why will your mind allow the devil play games on you that they are out there doing something crazy.. So for those with the negative mindset, stop it you are really thinking a lot... Commit the situation and stop a false condition..
Thank you for reading through... Happy new week, I ought to have published this yesterday but I was really weak through all of the stress..
`These are my favorite people in the world, thanks for being amazing`
***November 2021***
I’m really sorry for not engaging as much as I could today... Still your biggest fan always.. please accept my apology..
I will still stop by and drop something before leaving, take care and have a blissful Monday
1 BCH Achieved But There’s A problem
Somehow I was thinking about something, and it is when we get so comfortable with being mediocre, we get so comfortable of having an excuse of grace and I see it play out in society... And we are so passionate about our life to a miserable lifestyle, you wouldn’t know how it affects us, How peaceful life could be, how great and blessed life can be if we allow it to. But we are always comfortable living in pain and you need not do that to yourself... You can’t normalize what is bad and unhealthy, fine pursue excellent in every area of life but do not deny yourself the most valuable gift..
Its going to be hard sometimes because it is sacrificial and it is one for yourself... You have this back injury or you have a fracture that is unbearable and you decide to manage the pain without going for treatment and surprisingly you have the money to go get the necessary treatment and you choose not to... You would get worse overtime and whom do you blame from that. Be intentional to yourself, nothing is every worth more than taking good care of your body...
What if doing those things you really don’t feel like doing makes you more satisfied with yourself. You really always get tired when a TV show comes up on the station and you just stay off and not interested and just when your kid or your sibling put it up, you feel really good watching it and you gain much more.. So please look at your life and where you need to stop procrastinating and be better in your hygiene, in your daily life and all what not. Pursue excellent in all area of life and don’t settle for less, because your life could just get better but requires a little token to be enhanced...
Back to my story, so firstly I had to replace my faulty phone which was a serious headache to me... You could see the battery protruding out the back glass, and not just that the screen was affected. So that changed few days ago I felt so happy even though I spent a lot, I never counted it as a loss on my side. Then next was helping my mom out with some money over 200$, you can’t just be working and not support your family when it’s needed...
This isn’t to castigate anyone, what you do with your money is up to you and no one should say otherwise... But do care so much for yourself, how can you have so much money and you can’t get yourself medicine when you have malaria or a fever... Be your own best friend, you may be holding but what happens when you lost your life and there’s no one to spend the money after you’re gone..
We where discussing about this in the WhatsApp group today about having so much over 6bch and none of your relative have the private keys to your portfolio when death comes... It was an intense conversation as everyone shared their opinion on it, then some agreed to let their loved ones have it.
when you do that you feel accomplish “Yes I did it” and you’re gonna have an area that you’re weak in and struggling in, maybe working out, maybe yoga and you go get them... like I would say it’s a high level choice to choose what’s right. It may not be monetary terms, but your attention to things around you that needs to be done for you to get better..
Please identify your struggle, identify what you must do not to trip off.. Where you can get started in that when you fall you are right back to problem again and again. So if it’s your money that works for you very fine and if it’s prayer then it’s fine and if it’s exercising then it’s fine...
I have seen many user struggle on a daily basis just like I did, make your priorities nobody is going to blame you for that..
***Without the people behind these platform Sir Marc and Sir Simon, This wouldn’t have been possible... so I’m thankful for the blessings and I’ll keep praying that no evil shall before you all, God bless you... I would always call you the real MVP’s no doubt about that...***
***Then finally my sponsors and every upvotes, God bless you all for being there right from the start and still there even now... God bless my wonderful 12 sponsors and my readers... I love you all from the bottom of my heart..***
I would further do a break down of my 4 month journey some other time, stay tuned for that.
In conclusion, stay healthy and live healthy your life is priority...
***November 2021***
People Don’t Understand When You Are A Walking Testimony
Not everyone will understand your process and pattern, and a lot of times people don’t want you to talk about the money you earn or the success you’ve had, the accolades and the things you’ve accomplished and people don’t want to hear mention it because they call it bragging.. The reason why is because hearing about the things you’re happy about, hearing about your success makes those particular people feel less about their life and that’s a personal problem but when you share something good and it’s from the right place not to make anybody feel bad and it’s not also to put anybody down but it’s because you genuinely happy.
You are truly happy with the results with whatever it is in your heart because you know outrightly speaking you could have been homeless, you could have been dead, you could have been lost without a course and you can’t feel bad about your growth and also when you are changing for the better, you can’t feel bad about celebrating your wins as long as your heart is in the right place when you do it.
A lot of people wouldn’t understand that either, but you are I n control of what defines your life, your gifts and your purpose... you’re still figuring the will for your life and you’re gotta be okay understanding not everybody’s going to understand or get it or even like you what you will represent is who you are intended to be for and be okay with it...
Some people you meet along the way are going to judge based on their insecurities and people will confuse your selfless act for arrogance, but it’s really a reflection of how they see themselves and not you. When you are always explaining you’d get tired because more questions begat more and more... And when they try to tell you what you ought to do irrespective of it being your struggle, you then have to look at your image directly at the mirror and define your happiness, joy and life..
Appreciate those who do understand that you’re only trying to help them get to their peak, and your testimony is only to maintain the mission and not to alter it, and those who will support will and respect your process always.. So please do not envy but rather find contentment and peace in whatever season you’re in and even when you earn little or close to nothing you have a conviction that it will work together for your good...
For writers on here, you see them keeping us updated, the main reason is to let you understand the process and also coach you towards the right path... learn to understand the message within and you will equally win and stay winning...
***In Conclusion, celebrate with whomever that is thankful for holding on this long and always see their process as an open door to get to yours...***
God bless you my friends...
Happy weekend.
`you always know I appreciate you all for your support... Thanks for showing up...`
***November 2021***
Life Will Give You What You Require From It, You Gotta Be Okay Walking Away
This is the hardest thing in the world because we get desperate, and what I see is desperation coz when you are much younger and you have to learn these lessons in business, learning this from walking away from the table to opportunities and deals and things that’s peached to you and of that nature where we can say Yes to and also make something out from it. It really gets better but does it really fit me or rather am I happy, so I have to be willing to walk away from that.
when it comes to this, no doubts it’s really hard and I have these things I call the four impacts..
The first impact is **Attraction...** it’s just physical coz you get attracted to them and that’s it, you go through each and every step and you derive your plan on how to get them or how to get that job or that girl or whatsoever that’s related but before you know it, it sweeps you off position and you fall back... you know why that happens, it tells you that not everything you dream of in life comes into manifestation so you’ve got to look for alternatives. But likewise, when you finally hit the fame spot it becomes too unbearable to the point of giving up, what you have to do is walk away..
The second impact is **Like**, so you see somebody or something you like and you get to know their personality, their likes, their dislikes, what and who they are or aren’t, and you fall in or step in to Like and you do like what you see.. It’s normal for you to go through with this, as everyone who comes in contact with what is good immediately Likes it and shows interest. So most times it is beneficial because of the monetary reasons and satisfaction he or she would get from it.
The those impact is **Love,** and with love it is a space where you start to give of yourself, you’ll give to them, you‘ll work for them, you’ll be there for them and it goes a little deeper as the commitments wouldn’t let you see that the particular place you are is the wrong place. But because you’ve given it your all and when someone tells you ***“You’re never going to be there anymore and basically no explanation for it”*** you hurt yourself badly and this could witnessed in occupations, relationships and any significant order...
The fourth impact is **Self,** and to me this is highest level of love. In the sense that when you’re at this level you, you’d love the person you’re with and you’d sacrifice for them and you’d as well give everything, but you are willing to do that for a short period of time and you also know your time presently is limited... So when it’s time to walk away, it wouldn’t weigh you down because you would love your self more and when you feel cheated or completely not okay with the way things are you can easily call it a quit. If anyone wants to keep holding you down, you tell them it’s over for good..
In this life, seriously speaking if the love you give isn’t reciprocated or you all ain’t communicating on the same language or from the same point of view, if they don’t treat you with love then you have to walk away. Don’t move round in cycles because you still feel relevant, My dear you don’t anymore... ***‘You’ve lost the shine shine bobo love’ In no time you will be humiliated publicly if you don’t pull out on time... So please shine you eyes and do that as quickly as possible..***
Have you had this lust after somebody and you both go on a few dates and then you get into the bed.. When you get into the bed, your lost has now driven you to the bedroom so now you have effectuated your relationship by being physical within the first meet. So after that when you may be living together or hanging out and all the time you’re only giving to them and neglecting yourself and you see yourself doing all of that but deep down you don’t like the person.. the arrousement and sexual drive you had initially was all there is to the relationship. And when you keep doing that constantly you become weak and for you not to keep deceiving the person you’re with about how long lasting this would become, you’ve got to give that person a chance to walk away.
I would stop here for now and I do hope you have given a thought to it, because to every life you live now that makes you upset every time and you constantly hate yourself for being there and there isn’t any alternative, trust me you really can’t dwell on what causes you pain.. It’s unhealthy to you and you may go into depression. So please take your time to outweigh the good and the bad and see which way that fractions out the other.
Thank you for reading...
**November 2021**
Having A Friend Is Not The Price, Having A Good Friend Is The Real Price
There’s no amount of things in this world that’s worth your sanity, you’ve got to choose the right people to hand around with and you may think you do it wouldn’t take long till you realize that. Friendship see you win and be happy, they see you make everything in life and still stay wish you more, they don’t get okay if you ain’t okay. So you would say it’s too much and you don’t have anyone who would want that for me, you have to realize that you’re in the wrong zone.... Just as a relationship gets, friends could be that close to you as well and just when things gets uneven you’d see them comforting you.
You can have just few of them, with the same mindset towards each other.. it then becomes your views and equals out and that’s how you two just keep growing together and really there’s nothing that could cause either of you to go wild. That will lead to things that would open up so many wounds leading to so many things, it’s all about going through the same thing and operating on the same level of trust... Having someone who wouldn’t go on to tell the world lies about you, that is the kind of person you should hang with...
I guarantee you, when you don’t have a close attachment to anyone really is the best but you can’t run away from friends coz you come across with a lot daily and they will want to know more of you and even even become your best friend... An article of @Infinity did so much justice to that and even gave so many attributes regarding who a true friend should be..
Having a good friend is the real price because you are really just happy being around that person, their words serves as healing to yourself, you can tell them life huddles that you can’t tell your siblings or your parent and feel comfortable about it... They are rare to come by, but not impossible to and if you see your friend as being toxic or people see you as one... then this is the moment to remember the harm you’ve caused and try to make things right. It will go a long, you may see them as being irrelevant in your life but when you literally see what they do for you behind your back you’d be amazed.
Our friends could be our way of escape, you can have someone who prays with you and even take up your problems to God and it goes being that... They make a commitment to God about your problems, that’s the friendship... I over head my sister praying for her friend and after interceding she committed a great seed to God to completely help her out of it.. that is true friendship, with the growth mindset set for each other..
Our friends could be our way to financial freedom, a childhood friend told me about how his mom accepts IT students and would tell his mom to help me when it’s about time... I didn’t ask for it but he went further willingly to help me, you could see that happen with some testimonies of how some users got into read.cash... How a close friend wouldn’t just stop but keep pushing you to opt into things that will be beneficial and keep on assisting till you get better, I equally would really thank someone really special for every help he has rendered to me so far...
There are several other beautiful benefit of this, but with this little points I hope the message have been passed... It could be you who needs to be more caring, give back the love you receive and if you want to keep hanging around that individual you’ve got to do the same. Take on the person’s burden as they to you, show your support when they are down and if there’s an opportunity for them make it aware. Do not always be on the receiving end, share the same common attributes.
Thank you for reading...
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***November 2021***
A Lot of Work To Be Done, Stop Critiquing
I was just sitting over my balcony and tried to pick it and kick start where I really left of and I’m here to tell us both that we’ve got a lot of work to do. A question someone asked me is “Do I really know what benefit he has received from getting to know cryptocurrency for what it is now?” When you look at the question it identifies the best outcomes of what we are presently in. It’s definitely a good thing that you came across these platforms and you can testify the good, the bad and the ugly situations. So I say this today that we still have a lot to do, got a lot more and we’re meant to be doing it... it may sound crazy to the first person you talk to but out of many it doesn’t.
so please do not come out to critique how anyone’s trying hard to keep up with the mission but derive your own plan and execute it based on your judgement. Your testimony could be your strategy, your lifestyle could be yours, your social life in school and any other place could just be it. **“What is the purpose of this?”** You are not supposed to know everything about everyone, God bless you you reach out there and people will be all over you coz they would see you happy all day coz that’s a method to the message.
And the main reason why I do this is send your focus over to where it should be, your content is unique to you so is your method... so recently you try to copy what the next person does in the same community but you know your Strength can’t and that is what bitcoin.cash Nigeria Forum is doing so much to achieve with so many input which represents energy and time and hard-work... I could go on and on mentioning all the name here but I’ll do justice to all the amazing members soon.
Sometimes we put emphasis on the wrong things and it’s all you to weed out the wrong message at the right time... you’ve got to have patience because most people will drop off even in the first trial. The average watch time of everything is determined by how you bring out your style, take for instance you pursue sowing as a career and you made a really lovely outfit... “How will you make that hit and sell the millions of materials you have in mind?” It takes dedication and input to get the output, simply out garbage in and garbage out...
This is a blessing to us all, don’t let it just stay within the confines of these walls.. reach to people even beyond your residence that will put more efforts into making a difference... I really could appreciate quite a few people who took out the time to encourage me and teach me most of the things I know of now and I’m glad I listened.. I’m not saying you should just force your way into people’s heart, No! However little way you choose to. I know I have seen read.cash post on Instagram before and I was impressed.
People have become billionaires because of social media networks... and severally its a platform to be informed of anything around the world, but I don’t advice you paste your total earning over there just part of it will do. We are working towards going beyond here and making sure Nigerians are fully tutored and aware of the red and green light of the crypto verse generally.
we don’t anybody to get hurt, but as we grow so does the coin and it’s very effective coz it makes people wonder why is he coming after me and why is he or she really interested in me. So when you open up they would listen to us.. for the Founders and co-Founders. @Fexonice1 @Princessbusayo And @HappyBoy I really appreciate your constant aim and projection towards bitcoincash as a new path for every nation across the country..
Thank you for reading. Have a lovely night my dear friends..
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Then a big thanks and a special one entirely to @Jane and @MissJo for renewing your sponsorship, I’m truly happy you believed in me these months.. this is huge as just thank you wouldn’t do... may you all November goals be achieved.
***November 2021***
I Got A Crush On You And This Is Your Test
***"Wouldn't life feel so good if everybody we came across with into our world told us their intentions for our life"***
Like you'd get someone approach you and say "Hey Gozie, I don't really like you, I feel like you're a little too arrogant because I feel insecure and so let me really pretend to just like you, pretending to like your message coz of the benefit I could get and what you can offer on the table.." Like seriously wouldn't like be amazing if everyone could come clean like that, cause they ain't liking what I do... but no, it will take me a while of an emotional struggle to get to know the real individual standing next to me..
Like 1 in a million dates would tell their intentions so shouldn't that get you prepared for really decipher who is real and who isn't.. what if right now I'm giving you my own test and trial and could I really get answers for them..but what do I portray to you "A clown disguising to be a King?" But why exactly do this sort of test on women occur regardless of how we love or not... this could could be based on one or two reasons, he doesn't trust women or he doesn't trust himself.
So let's say if a man has been cheated on, and now even though you see a lady pass the test of morals, values and keeping her standards it still isn't going to work... so when you see a man hesitate on the first date to maybe be overly protective or wants to lay with you quickly or ask too many unreasonable questions, have it at the back of your mind that we are looking for a greater test from you because you didn't pass the initial one...
There are far too many people out there who have learnt to play the game better, so when somebody poses as not who they seem to be and wants a relationship with you... you've got to be careful and don't give room to just anything, it will really cost you so much to get out of that... The fact will remain that everyone's got a choice, how you feel towards another is quite different so instead come clean and just tell that person how you feel. If you don't like the standards and feelings portrayed then easily just walk away..
Meanwhile back to the main topic for today, after reading my **poem** I hope I could find my way back into your heart...
***"Glowing in the dark here comes the white flame.***
***Chose to grow wilder as I could come a bit close..***
***It feels like something never seen by mankind and you really was just anything till I took my heart off for you..***
***Then the flames became darker as you grew fond of me..***
***There was a blast even though we've never met before but your rhythms are blue coz of the spike...***
***Never seen anyone as gorgeous as you are, and my heartbeat in bits when our eyes meet..***
***Would we be on a test, just so I can show you my other sides..***
***I loved you since day one even though you never noticed...***
***I cry everytime you ignore my little flame because it ain't matched with yours..***
***Let this be my hidden love.*****..**
***Let this be where things will forever change between us.."***
Let me not expose myself yet 😊, that will be all for tonight.
But the main thing you should take from this is to notice the signs and when you feel there isn't Love between you too and its only subjective, then that isn't a place for you or a relationship for you... You should be in a relationship built on lies, and the only mission is to extract from you or for the benefits the other party will get.. maybe based on your followers, your popularity, or business plans...
Set your standards and please be okay with you, and be okay with what comes with that and also be okay with people who can't meet you at your level... leave them for good...
Thank you for reading...
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Happy new month..
***November 2021***
Revamped Questions Of October
These where drafted questions from an article in October, and I would give an honest opinion to them... I appreciate some users who gave their opinions to them @Kleah97 and a few others.. it was wonderful..
**If I had known read.cash for so long would I have given it my best before and now**?
So many of us put so much importance on the things that we desire that we end up trying to force them into existence and when we do that we come from the place of lack.. and often times the affirmations and the visualization process are coming from a place where we both are trying really hard to make something happen. So it comes down naturally to the goals and expectancy I would have from the onset...
Then if I end up not reaching it, would I give up? Would I end what was about to be this good? Or rather would I continue like so many other users here who had given their best before and still doing the same presently.. And when we take actions that are not coming from an inspired state or when we try to bring something into existence, the truth remains that we will keep getting in our way. The way I was carried along would have been the same, the way things where different from today would have made me quit..
I would give it my best even with all of this, so many things can be applied in several ways. Sometimes when we try to achieve something we get hindered, so I want you to think about the times when what you truly desired manifested, this would keep you moving..
**Do I like being who I Am?**
Well this is a tricky one, I will agree to this... and in as much as life comes hitting hard I would still still be the kindest and loving self.. This is me constantly looking ahead of time and seeing me becoming great and even loving myself more.. I remember when I was young, I would always wish I had a different body, a different hair, and a different status..
**Would I question God if he gives me a different answer or solution to what I asked?**
I do believe everyone would at some point, but there is always a reason to everything in life. What I would ask God is to show me how to make good use of that answer. In life we only come to God whenever we need him for something, so it could r a test and you just failed by complaining.. So I would work with Gods plan.
**What is the worst memory of my childhood?**
I got beat up by a girl in class, I was humiliated for a whole year though... she was much stronger than I was, this was like several years ago.. and I got a scar from the incidence that still shows in my face.. I tried cooking up a lie about it, well this is me revealing it..
**If I could change something from my past what would it be?**
I would wish for every lost loved one to return back, maybe this is really going to be hard to do but to see them once more... and another wish would be to get back every opportunity I allowed pass me by...
**When do I ever want to leave the single life?**
I'm 23 now, you all know that already 😊.. so maybe 29 will be fine.. but I got my eyes on someone already, it may be you reading this...
**If I Decide to Quit Everything What Advice Would You Give me?**
If this was channeled to read.cash and noice.cash, then I would be looking at the reasons behind it and why the sudden decision... But I think the good sides will always outweigh the bad, if you don't earn as much as before do not give up... if you don't receive a heart value from your post still do not give up...
**What Are My November goals Looking Like?**
I am not even going to try to set any, coz I want this to be the first month where I'm relaxed and just staying happy with whatever I earn... I put my life too much on the line, so if things goes the other way around I hurt myself too much for long.. Don't misquote me, you can decide to do that but I will stay low this time.
***Thank you for reading my playful sides and I wish you a happy new month in advance... October was a tough one but really interesting with so many amazing articles from uniquely different users.***
`A very big appreciate for your support over the course of the month, you all are amazing`...
To all my readers, God bless you for staying through with me and my articles.. I wish you all a fantastic new month.. and a big appreciation as well to the Randomrewarder AKA Rusty..
***October 2021***
@King_Gozie