Release People With Your Closure
Sometimes its really hard to leave a closure on so many things before or after it gets worse. We've all seen closure happen before... like when you intend finishing your article and you just give a brief description of what you wrote for readers to fully understand. But this isn't where I'm headed, people mostly men don't close doors behind them and you would ask me why is that? What I meant by that is, a lot of times when you break up with a man or thing goes bad and you get ghosted or go on a break and the man doesn't show up to sit you down, talk to you and say I'm going to express my mind and let you know that this relationship has reached its peak, going on way too long and you're just not a good fit for me either I'm I to you and I want your happiness in life so it's best we path ways and I release you... it hurts when all of this happens and you can't find a reason as to why and this doesn't only affect the ladies but men as well, so don't think you are exempted too..
The main reason this happens, is when we don't know the conditions of our actions, fine you break up and it's all done but on what basis... she fine and he fine, has everything you can ever desire.. the looks, the body and character. So why would you call anything off without further engaging the affected.. everything in life is a huddle, we can't say how well we will be in a relationship and we chose to use that moment as a test in discovering the best option.. A very good example is let's say you don't have money and you have so many things laid down in your heart to purchase but eventually when you have the money your option changes from what you had in mind to several other design or style. That goes out to any relationship, feelings changes overnight then it ends in misery.
This really affects friendships, families and work setting. But to you.. you really don't intend to compromise regardless of how it looks, to your very best choose the people that make you happy even without a closure because it's hard for anyone to come closer after ending an intimate relationship.. it's so hard to hear of a relationship that started from a young age till the final engagement, because our minds keep on looking for an upgrade...
The main cause of this, is not getting involved with a matured minded person or equally you not showing that you seriously want to be in an endless relationship.. An unhealthy union doesn't last, wouldn't it be nice to at least end it properly than leaving people hanging. One necessary thing you have to take with you today;
***'stop giving people a revolving door to your heart, in order words stop wanting a person who doesn't want you... because if you take him or her back that person will hurt you big time'***
It takes an emotionally intelligent thinking to go through with a closure, regardless of how you feel or your hatred towards that person.. both of you could meet and open up to so many issues, or takes strength to move and most people that went through that haven't. You'll be surprised that a break up of 10 years running is still upsetting that individual..
The next thing you have to put a closure on is your **prayer**, you make promises and when God does his works you turn your back on him. Then you run back when it turns upside down and you can't know what to do. If you really can't fulfill it then don't make it, it keeps piling up and there will be time when you may need to fulfill them before you receive any more from him..
Do not carry yourself too high like a mini God, because you will never know if you would be the next to be in that position. Whatever line of work or income you are presently on, make sure to set things right before leaving or before handing over.. you will open more doors if you do that and I pray God gives us the heart and the will to do so from today...
Lastly, ***"what happens after a closure?"***
You've heard it countless times already but you'd think nothing else could come off it, but doing that can make you understand the why's and the how's of your speculations and your resolutions.. There could be a second chance waiting for you, in a relationship and any other engagement.. so don't be too quick to flee come back and see things straight..
Thank you for reading through to this side of the article...
Happy Sunday, and happy Halloween to those who celebrate and mark the date and also to everyone..
I put a closure to October..
***31 October 2021***
"Underneath The Despair" Here It Comes
Just like no other travelling experience, few friends from Nigeria took a trip to spend some time together... you wouldn't believe the joy and happiness for old time highschool friends with their girlfriends, never expected this to happen this way as they all had separate jobs at different locations in the country and always occupied... Ali, Thomas, Okafor and Leo came through right on time then followed Beatrice, Jasmine, Tolu and Kreg literally the odd one out of the bunch.. few minutes later it was time to depart as scheduled. It was planned not to allow any of them know the destination of this trip.. Trying to catch up on the tides of friendship, it was fun when they talked for a while and made jokes relating to the non cool guys from school and the bullies.. Thomas recalled the times when he scared few of the boys, and due to his height and size he went away with everything.. on arrival, a vehicle came through to pick them up to the exact destination..
Three hours later after a long boring ride, they all exchanged words with the driver to find out where they where actually going... and there was this weird smile from his face nodding continuously and giving them assurance that they where in safe hands..Leo tried calling his friend who arranged the whole traveling experience but the network service was out, he quickly collected Jas's phone it was the same thing.. it was a rough night as the men grabbed their lady just to reduce the tension, the glass window was tinted and even from the inside you wouldn't tell what is happening around you.. it was getting late, the fear grew and then the driver stopped the car and told them to get down.. after they all did, he drove off very fast and got lost in the dark..
The house facing them looked very old and immediately they ran close, twisted the knob it opened and the interior felt much better Beatrice said and felt relieved..
The walls of the building had nail peelings and some carving..screaming louldly at once to know if anyone was in there.. when no voice was heard they all chose separate rooms.. and after series of unwinding and planning of where to visit with excitement, it was late and they had to go back to their respective rooms to have a night rest, each of them to their boyfriends..
Their craziness started off, as Ali and Tolu first intimacy at the first night out of the usual. But Tolu kept on seeing something crawling on the wall, like a dark image and everytime she leans towards his body it comes out and when she raises her face up she sees just a part of it move.. She touched Ali and said she saw something strange but never mind Tolu its nothing Ali said to her. I'm going to protect you and she knew he would until the bed they layed on started shaking and making squeaky sounds... both of them stood staring at it and everything they planned to do had to stop at that point. Probably they needed to wait till the next day to get on with it, what gives both exclaimed together and they slept apart.
It was 2am, Tolu got up to use the rest room when she heard a a very soft voice whispering her name... she turned back to check if someone was pulling a prank on her, no one was within where she was, she turned to the straight door on the left...
The door opened up, but was so dark. The voice grew louder as she walked close to get a glimpse of whom it was and what was happening.. she got very close to the door and saw a little girl all white and pale, water gushing from her mouth telling her to come close, she still thought someone was pranking her as she was the smartest among them and when she got near, the girl screamed so loud and immediately 5 other girls came forward and grabbed onto Tolu's hand and pulled her into the room... but before Tolu would call on anyone the door was slammed, that made everyone wide awake.
Ali noticed she wasn't on the bed with him called onto the rest of them.. within themselves they all heard the screams, well Tolu wouldn't have gone far maybe she just took a walk outside Thomas said, although he was scared too but wanted to reduce the tension..
All but one left in search of her, Kreg stayed to keep an eye of her return and that wasn't the end of the it all.. she got upstairs to take some of her stuff, and she heard sounds like someone sawing.. Following the thick noise, she went into the same room and she saw a man standing beside a wooden table and thought maybe her friends where back.. she acted too fast and what she saw up close was a man with just one eye and half of his face burnt, it was as if he was under someone's control.. she tripped and the man got hold of her and what she heard really was a chain saw, the man placed her on the table and when he was about ripping her off in bits and pieces
*The boys arrived and the man vanished immediately... Tolu was lucky as she screamed loudly, the boys heard and came to help her*...
Explaining everything to them, how she would have been dead in just few seconds if they didn't arrive at that time... they went to their rooms to pack and when they where about leaving all the doors in the house was shut and everywhere became so dark, "why do you want to leave?" The little girl came out, completely terrified one of them asked "who are you?" I'm the little girl that was murdered here so this house belongs to me and you all are not leaving till I have my revenge.. but we just came to have some fun here, no one told us to stay clear of this apartment the boys said trying to protect their girlfriends.. I have taken one of you and I will keep having you all till I'm done.. your presence awakened me and I haven't had much friends and fun for years now, so let's play together..
She opened her mouth wide and brought out some set of toys, and told them to join her or get killed... their only way out of there was to defeat her in every game and get a key to open the door and if anyone fails to do that he or she dies, then she called up her friends... the old lady crawled out walking with just her hands alone and the creepy man with a burnt face stood beside them with his chain saw, that wasn't all it became a hell hound as some creatures came from the floor with a twisted neck, you could see a hole in their chest with no organs.. then came the 5 little friends of hers as well, white and pale...
The situation now is that none of them could play the games as they looked strange to them, it was even more complicated than a child's game... you'd have to roll the dice into the aligned path and anything lower than mine will not win this round as there won't be any point to continue...
*Ponting directly to Okafor as the first contender, she rolled her dice and got the highest number it was his turn to play... with fear in his eyes he made a wrong throw and it was 4, immediately the man with a saw grabbed him hit his back on the nail on the wall and removed all his body parts starting with his heart.. the rest of them pleaded for his life but she kept on smiling and waving him good bye.*
Then the next game began and it was time to have more fun, she took a knife out and told them a story of why she was murdered and who was responsible for it. She discovered a deep secret of her uncle and that's the main reason he killed the little girl just to protect himself, and do you want to know how he did it. He threw a knife at me and it hit me directly in my heart..
The next game is to place the knife at the exact spot on the wall, Ali started first this time and got the right spot.. he was the first to win a game and was given the key to leave surprisingly he ran non stop to get help for the rest of them...
The third game began and it's the whole five left that will be playing together against me, Why are you doing all this? Leo asked as he kept wondering what he will play next, she replied him that all she ever wanted was to be happy and now she can never be... it's too late for me to, I have killed my family and loved ones you all are next.. I'll let one of my friends cut one of your body parts either your hand or your legs and anyone who survives past 45 minutes will be let out of here.. Ali finally reached out to the police and to the person that recommended there to him, made a description and they followed him to the place but before his arrival the last game already started following the rules..
The guys chose their hands while the rest of the girls chose their legs.. After it was done with rigorous pain some tried to stop the blood flow but the old lady whom was watching told them with her deep and creepy voice "remember the rules or I will eat one of them"... the girls couldn't bear the pain, they died before the stipulated time. It was down to two boys although Leo was untouched, as he wasn't hurt like the rest of them..
Closer to the minute gap Thomas passed out... The police luckily arrived and took over the whole place, went in and saved him but they literally didn't see the little girl and the rest of the monsters, likewise his dead friends.. It was a haunted house and people who stopped by, don't always live to tell the tale...
There's a funny but bitter twist after all, every one of them came to the hospital bed where Leo was and he was shocked at what happened, he was pranked after all and they all wished themselves a happy Halloween... well it was a way to get back to him although at the expense of his life. But they told him the main reason why he couldn't reach his friend from the beginning was all a plan.. and the driver was a part too.. He said, but I saw your legs and arms removed and I saw him ripped completely! How come?. that was in the plan too, it was all a pay back for what you did years back...
"So what would you do if you where if you where faced with this horror and it was all a prank?"
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***October 2021***
I'm really sorry for not stopping by to leave a comment, but I made sure I left a little drop on most post... today has been really hectic, and it's still hectic till this moment... accept my apology....
23 And Feeling Worried
I tell myself that 23 is still very very young and life kinda have its natural flows and so I attract what I am, where I am and what I would become and so what I really mean by that is when you are ready, your minds starts to really look and it sees things that it otherwise did not see when you weren't ready. First instance you are in a season and then you work really hard to and you're trying to reach your goal that is for to become a great writer in the next three years, really that's a huge task that you have going on.
The mind cannot focus fully on finding relationship, likewise other things and also doing your work, so you and I priorities now is our work. That's where my attention and energy is going, and that's what you look like. What if I looked like I was into something and I don't have all the time in the world to be distracted, because my focus is on the grace and not that I can't have much fun if I wish to but it's just an unending ride..
Its not like you'd spend the whole time in the world getting facials and hair do or whatever it might be. I've got to stop listening to what other people want for my life and if that is my desire I have to first look at the roots.. the pressure I face daily, where is it coming from? Have I made efforts towards achieving my goals within the required time? Sometimes I feel that I'm going to miss out on the things of life because of fear..
I've got to look at myself, and be okay and comfortable with everything I do. We all have diverse preferences and good standards ... its back down to preference, do I set unrealistic goals and because someone else does the same thing I want to do that too. Life can be really complicated at any age, but if I want to break through worry and thinking I have to put in place some factors. If my goals are too risky that it makes me bothered everyday then its not a healthy one. If my goals are too ambiguous and complicated then it's not healthy too..
At my present age, so many thing could go either the right way or the wrong way, this is the ideal time when so many income related thoughts and how to settling Bills becomes too deep. If I'm not careful, it can lead to some serious mental issues very soon. It's also the age when everyone expects us to be vibrant all the time and make good use of every opportunity, we will find a way to pull that through but at the cost of hurting..
Let me not lie to you, I check my blood pressure daily because some part of me is feeling the strength and daily struggle.. It doesn't really help much as I'm going back to my shell planning another route to achieving my goal. I think I digressed a little bit but back to the picture, take good care of yourself always. There is time and season for everything, do not reach the end and end up dying out of frustration...
*A little story as I wrap up, so a friend of my sister.. the same set but different course had a serious issue that she kept to herself and never told anyone even her parent. She endured all through her university days until she couldn't hold it much longer... her heart rate was easily triggered anytime she worries over anything. After her 4th year in school before the convocation ceremony she slumped and died instantly. It was a very painful happening that day which could have been stopped if she where on drugs and was tutored the true consequences of worrying and anxiety...*
As I was composing this, my sister told me the full story and my mind was made up to take things easy... it may take more than the expected time frame, but with dedication we will meet up..
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***October 2021***
Dating In Week 20 Vs Marriage, What's Your Take?
Lets be practically real here, "what's your deepest worries about a relationship?" I guess we all have different approach to love and to be loved.. but the idealogy of what he pays for he own, something in return for your heart is the currently used method with most start ups.. so if a lady sees love as a man helping with the Bill's and a man sees love as a woman showing love as intimacy then that's the way both speak their love but there is a big clause. It doesn't last too long till you let loose and feel insecure.
If everything ends at being at the dating stage and what was originally the intention is broken the heart is as well. You gotta do what you gotta do at the right spark, you need no validation or test to know that you both need to further this thing... looking at the solidity and consistency of a relationship but it's also going to have to be both ways, neither party shouldn't buy their right to be a husband or a wife.
Dating isn't for a man to see how the lady is good in bed 😊 or the woman to how well the man can provide anything, if that's the case it would just be a relationship with benefits and not feelings. This could also be trusted as one leading to marriage, because you already understand what you are in for so maybe I'm not fully aware of what dating means but I can put you up for a test... **"how long have you been out together and how many times have you brought up the word marriage and how many times was the subject changed?"** The way you all are dating and your requirements in dating have nothing to do with marriage..
At the end of the day the question needs to be asked **"Can I trust this person? Is this person going to be faithful to me? Is this person going to treat me with respect?** Paying Bill's and having sex is not a priority in a relationship.. these days where the lady earns even much more than a man does so if a man provides he would have to be the greatest person in the world but if it turns out to be the other way around it still doesn't matter. Marriage should be about love and not an expense paid trip to a fantasy world or dream works so should this be mixed up together.
There are some stories that will should serve as a good example to you and I, reflect on your decisions and do what's right.. but if you are more comfortable just being around him or her that's your choice to make too.. What would you rather do when the money stops coming or when the love suddenly vanishes. It's hard sometimes when we really desire for the relationship to move further than where it is now but you can't only be the determining factor...
I think I have exhausted some points, but your opinion will be much appreciated... The first to fifth dat usually have a name to it, seen a movie about that but can't remember... I hope I have solved some really rough questions.. do not make it a requirement all the time for your partners to be 100% at their game.. if she doesn't do certain things that doesn't give you the chance to see any fault in that and if he doesn't do a particular thing right that should also give the chance to pick faults..
You feel that you can tolerate a lot in dating than in marriage, you all need to get something straight and clear it's time to stop worrying about marriage or its logistics... when you have somebody you can build a bond with don't wait too long because time is running he or she could leave you any minute and what you've lost can be hard to get back...
Thanks for reading, watch out for my Halloween scare on the 29th, then answers to some questions on the 30th... love you all..
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**October 2021**
"Should You Speak The Truth Even When It Hurts The Recipient?"
"Why do you have an excuse to judge me from my mistakes as if you weren't flawed just like me? As if you didn't say something and the same time contradict yourself with your actions, trust me I will rather tell you about what you want to hear.. so the question is **"where do I see myself in the next 5 to 10 years?"**
Sometimes it doesn't matter how many times you fail, you can fail like a million times but all it takes is just one success to make you forget about all those failures. So its something I should probably have about answer to, but really I have no straight idea because I haven't really re-evaluated and although writing wasn't one of then in the first place but I'm going revolve around it and build my personal finance and add it to that as we improve educational aspect where I can work with people more directly to build foundation even earlier.
It's so easy to say I'm going to die then all but at what cost, what if my hard work doesn't equal my success and then I can't further my ideas or goals. So I'm willing to push myself further to establish something not withstanding every penny I have made so far and the further drive in development in some years from now. I think once you start investing and understanding what your risk tolerance is, you start focusing more on a long term basis because you'd feel this level of uncertainty and question your idea if that will be the best path to take and that feeling never really goes away.
Condition our mindset to always create for more, but due to the fact that its hard to work that way in the next 5 to 10 years analyses the obstacles and the barriers then re-establish a concrete support and when everything seems to be hard and doesn't go our way that will be available to get us going. It may not take that number of years, maybe more or less so if you fail while trying do not give up.
Always a side of advantage and disadvantages to anything so in several ways this is up to us. So in simple steps,
**Tactics**
Have you been in a place before and you hear the sound of gun shot, then you start running immediately then suddenly you are faced with two road connection and you can't tell where is safe.. that's how life troubles are, you keep going everything is smooth and immediately you hit a road block that requires your zeal and your profound ability to cross over... what do you do?
Think of other ways of bringing those things together, have I really done my research enough towards this. Go back to the drawing board, your real life goals could be different from mine but whatsoever you feel you can achieve within that year either through investing or business do the maths again and this time try to tell yourself that time isn't there to waste anymore..
**Break up or Fracture**
This is very easy to do, break it up and fix it back.. analyses the future usefulness, the quality, the content, and the long run statistics... well I know some crypto geniuses that would study the hell out of anything. This will simplify the process and give you a better understanding to what you have planned to do.
**Don't stop**
If it gets harder, do not stop. You didn't hear this first from me, neither will it be the last time you'll hear this but the more you choose to give up someone else will pick up that same plan and make it better than you do... if you really want to be better then be optimistic.
**Maintain**
Maintain your level of mentality, don't say because someone is doing great than you are that you are just not it or I can't do this all by myself. That is a negative mindset, do not compare and do not stop the process till its completed.. feed it, cause its normal to feed a plant to make it grow very well.. so give it full force and make provision when neccessary..
**In conclusion**
It may sound weird when someone ask you this question amd even suggest to you, but that person is really showing you love that no one on earth will.. don't take any question asked too personal but learn from them..
Thank you for reading.. I haven't been to well today but I really wanted to drop this..
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***/October 2021/***
All It Takes For A First Breathe Experience
What if my younger me's inability to accept responsibility has delayed your late arrival over the years... maybe I've been blessed with an angel in flesh but when you actually arrived, your wings would have been clipped and the first thing I'm asking for is your forgiveness.. there are a lot of fathers here who already have lovely daughters and sons and will appreciate the fact that you got a lot closer to your partners when you had your first child... you would realize that the presence of your child feels like you have just started a home and there's nothing more that could come in between.
You may be asking if Gozie already has a kid? Maybe it's my imagination playing tricks with me but I wouldn't trade cherishing these moments for anything in the world. Back to where I was, some of us don't realize the fact that every thing we do in the past has its turn in the lives of our future... more like a reincarnation of ourselves, we wouldn't want that right. It's not up to me but up to us to watch our children grow and be a better character than we are already.
I wouldn't mind reading your letters to your kids even before their arrival, you've got stories to tell... does having a child change your perspective about life generally or would you want your addictions, your habits, and your lifestyle to equally be the same with theirs.. taking a deeper step into a relationship you don't need anyone to tell you to change.
Then what if her first breathe where the reincarnation of an aborted child in the past, you would wonder why your daughter is the way she is when we both know what you did.. you can never feel good about what you chose to do in the past and even when you didn't love God that much or yourself enough to give her her first breathe, she's still welcomed into this world..
Maybe you and your partner had some growing up to do because a princess could have brought you both together.. you didn't realize the value of that yet ran away from every responsibility and look where it all ended up.. you got hooked up on the looks and reality hits harder than expected.. now it feels sort of late to rewrite the wrongs, I think there's one tiny luck out of all this.
You've got to let them breathe first, but as they grow please don't be surprised when people look into the window of their soul and ask themif they've been here before.. that's how bad it could get, you have to make sure you guide them towards developing a good mindset and all that is there presently with how you live your life should stop...
This is a moment of test for the strong hearted, and if you love them you have the pro choice to choose what's best for them to watch and learn while growing up... you really brought lives into this world, and this is their first breathe experience into a new world.
Now what we want as a character trait of our kids, is the best lives.. loving, rule abiding, cheerful, obedient and much more. It's time to pray and stop those style of living, pray for them even while they are still little it will go a long way in their future as they become more matured.
Everything has its roots, if these are linked to us, we can teach them from the start good lessons, good morals, and good character choice. Even before that force manifest in them, their minds are already clothed with so many good thoughts. What you do from now determines everything, and if you really want to change you can do that.
Thank you for reading... it may practically look strange, but we have seen it happen quite a lot of times..
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***October 2021***
So Many Wins In Life, But One Failure Changes My Perspective
Writing is adding to all that, l just want to make the best piece I possibly can for all of you as much as I can and be responsible for the things that I'm responsible for. So I think having this experience is really unique and will always be the only thing I went into this year that I haven't regretted doing.. I have this very high standards for myself and I have been beating myself a lot about it.
I can understand what other people are going through, like I'm extremely privileged.. I understand it and I'm so thankful. Thankful for every opportunity but I equally don't feel entitled to anything, like the one thing that I really really hate the most is entitlement. And I think it robs us totally and steals our joy, I want people to have gratitude and thankfulness for every progress and for every failure because like I do I'm so thankful for the things I get to do...
I just wish we could be more compassionate, caring and loving towards ourselves and other people, and when there's an opportunity to get to know people don't take that for granted. Be okay with your preferences and be okay with that, understand balance... you're not a lost course if you missed your shot at doing a particular thing. What the concern should be is how to get better, by doing this be satisfied with every progress made and realize that you'd always be you. It's your ambitions, its your goals, and it's your pattern.
You begin to internally analyze the demons that wrestle with your thoughts on a day to day basis and all of a sudden comes those who begin to criticize you and your art and in order to save yourself, you applaud your pages and it hard to let go of the good works you've created. So regardless of the failure your countenance still brightens up because of the good things you've done or happened in the past and those still yet to accomplish. Can you accept the fact that you can't recreate the system, forget about what happened but simply work to be a better one next time.
You have every right to celebrate laughter in the midst of every tears and every failure... you ask me how would you do that? It's a matter of what you do believe will happen in the next week or month from now, do you anticipate something massively better or still believe you'll keep failing again and again till you run out of ideas..
So let's say I'm not trying so add to add up to something or make something better than it seems, who am I going to blame for the later course of things when it becomes too late to do them again.. what if all I needed to do was add a few better lines, better touch or better spice to it next time for me to have my win. You see a loo of drama play out in the real world and it becomes so hard to trust in yourself..
It's easy to accept defeat, yes I said that because over the first quarter of 2021 after the experience I had.. I gave up on literally everything. But did it change what had already been done, No! It didn't. So wouldn't it be nice to start over just like @HappyBoy wrote in his article to start all over than to throw in the towel. Meanwhile you had people's support, will you throw all of that away as well..
**In conclusion**
This topic is to make you more enhanced when you come face to face with anything, could be your career, your art and your creatives..
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***October 2021***
I Better Be Better In My Way To Your Heart
Out of proportion my heart has never remained the same ever since I saw what happened over the years... my love for you is just like the love best known greater than a father to a daughter. But I see you trying so hard to be free from yourself, in your decisions and in your acceptance.
But what If you fix your eyes on me and watch me fix us both to show you that I'm the one for you. Come on, you need a relationship with me if you really wanna know me you going to have to give me the opportunity. I knew there where times you needed me and you thought I had left you but you know me I will never leave you nor forsake you.
Then I watched everything blow up, your heart became bitter, one thing I have to remind myself of is I have to keep myself together. Your growth was my complete test and how you would make an impact to become better. I have heard the news its everywhere, **"how did you change from being the Godly person I know, to be in this form?."**
But I still feel the way I do regardless, I'm still ready to have you back. I'm going to be the cover you never had, I will make up for all you've lost, I will cherish every moment with you in the way nobody has ever done in the past. You got too excited of the presents and gifts you received that you got a false conviction and immediately what I struggled to build was pulled down by a mare faded lust. I thought that our bond couldn't be broken but it did. Look, I know your heart has been broken but I'll make things right again only if you accept me.
I have equally waited for you without looking else where and I want this to be the point where things will be made right, and you have seen deeply the true instability of humans. And out of fear, out of anger, out of insecurity, out of a bad conviction, your ability to know what to do when you ought to shows that I'm still going to be there when you need me.
When you do certain things or make impulse decisions and when it's messed up by lies, and several other things like cheating, if you give in to your guilty pleasures then its hard to ever come out of it. The doors to your heart can't remain locked and you expect me to break my way through, that will be extremely hard to do. You really do have to understand what is out there and what is working against you.
***"Seriously this is a proposal of what I want and what you can't let go of.... so whenever you need me to fight for you, I'll always be there.. whenever you get lost I'll be there to guide you*****..."**
What will you choose, **me or your Ex?**...
The decision is all yours to choose from.. we can get so caught up by what people think and feel that it makes sense than what the truth is.. You see I have called you out of darkness and into the marvelous light, your acceptance is your only way out. You where being deceived to becoming a slave but through me who was able to bare the pain on the cross can set you free.
It's hard to be better at finding you but its better to not give up at finding you.. what you see in all those things you did in the past can all be wiped off if only you accept my proposal... so this is where I'll stop for now..
***That is all you need to believe...***
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***October 2021***
Just Because Someone Tolerates You Dosen't Mean They Like You
**Out of a huge number of friends you have, what if I told you that I don't like you....**
Some reasons, whenever you speak I just want to fight you and you really think I never thought about this. It seems you're having problems staying in your lane that at best your style is comparable to a broken one that has no direction, and your dressing seriously you need to check your game. The affection you will ever get is from a man or woman too damaged with low self-esteem and who is too broken to realize the truth.
I can tell as a child that you where neglected, so it makes sense why nobody ever checked you. You have to understand that everyone can't like you and at best what you'll ever be to me is just nothing. So it pains me really bad when I am around you, if I stick around to hear you speak it reminds me of how worse you've become.
Your name and mine in the same place should be considered blasphemy and what you will ever be to me is just a mare person reminding me of what I don't want to be. I pretend that I love your smile, your tender spirit and your loving heart where it's the complete opposite.. it pains me that God created such a person as you, this earth will be better of without you.
I know I have said too much, but does this look familiar to what you face now in the hands of those that pretend to be your friends. If you recall then, me needing to tell you so many things hidden that you saw as a sign. Will my friendship still mean anything to you after hearing these things, will you still hand around with me with the fact that I hate you so much and I'm ready to see your downfall.
The choice is yours to make, people tolerate you so much that every slightest mistake you make you'll see them saying a whole lot and it doesn't mean they love you. What we should do hence forth is identify true love....
True love signifies a friendship that words no longer linger in the air like a hot pepper spray. If your friends don't exhibit the character trait then its time to leave that commitment. Your friends should wish you well instead of saying so many horrible things to you.
True love represents calmness and a peace heart... love your friends, your family, your kids, only one person is enough to make a person down completely. Do not associate with them a lot because, because you may not come out of the hateful speech you hear behind you.
Understanding the true meaning of friendship is key, not all friends are to stay with you for a long time but when you do find a great one it's going to amazing. I had to separate myself from someone because back then because I was mislead, he really wanted me to do what would have cost me my life.
This will be short today as I'm just coming back from a long distance ride..
Thank you for reading
**|21 October 2021|**
It's Not About Win Or Loose, Its About The Love And Appreciation Achieved #club1BCH
I'm writing this today because I'm a bit worried, I'm worried that we are loosing the ability to actually connect with each other...we desire it but it doesn't come that easily to us and I cant think of anything more important. Because it's difficult, and also appreciating people takes effort. But at the end of the day we all want to know that who we are and what we do matters. And I've decided how I would want to appreciate this idea and I wouldn't take this moment to mean nothing.
My appreciation is recognizing the value of, less about myself but more about them. So I have a clear understanding of what I'm doing today to appreciate the people who I am completely inspired by. "How many of you will want something taking away before you realize how much you really appreciate it after it's all gone?...all of us right. But there is a significance to everything we do from this moment.
I have seen the efforts put into this writing competition, which it was never easy to plan in the first place... its equally not just about proving anything, but about a joint mindset in helping the community. It takes team work, from all works of life with various individualities coming together and making sure that the goal is achieved. In collaboration with club1BCH the competition was set as a review opinion of Bityard and the valuable innovation now and the later ends of 2021, clock ticking last submission date 22nd of October 2021..
This is a blessing in disguise, it actually pushed me out of my comfort zone and I just say the run through to really sit to understand everything on Bityard since lunch and I'm sure other participants also understand what I'm saying. Coming up with the title and a content was challenging, eventually its out there. And if I dont win, it's still remain something that has challenged me to be better. There are users who have done a great job on their entries, #club1BCH and feel free to check them out... you will be amazed of how much more there is in the integration of Bityard that you never knew before now. And also a step by step guide in its usage is equally available for you.
Special appreciation to the creators of this wonderful family....We see your efforts and contributions and we will stand with you anytime and any day.
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I know I haven't had so much time here, but I am completely overwhelmed with happiness on what I have achieved and I planned to appreciate those behind.. so can you imagine how powerful it is to actually let the next person know they made an impact or to be told that you've made an impact... yes this will be a game changer and I hope your further aims and objectives will be achieved.
With complete understanding of BCH and the main goal, and we all together in one voice say a big 'thank you' to whom ever is the sponsor and for this privilege. Not just myself alone being grateful, but my friends from my country Nigeria and the rest of the world can't contain our joy anymore but we release it this moment in appreciation.
It's not much about winning, but creating something special that no one can ever forget you did... God bless you all.
This is my entry to the bityard writing competition here https://read.cash/@King_Gozie/tension-reduced-to-fractions-with-bityard-you-can-never-go-wrong-b82335ce
|21 OCTOBER 2021|
You Think You Got It Down And Figured Out But Life Hits Harder
Today we live in a world of constant uploads and downloads, constant information overload our senses. We see, we hear, we taste, and we feel, then we like and we share and we hashtag and we tweet our thoughts and feelings. So those on the opposite end of the information spectrum look at life through filters that hides the imperfections of life and we smile at the perfect images that these filters mean for us to see. But what is wrong in finding perfection in the beautiful imperfection that is life.
Can you look at life and see pureness of it, your mind expectant of life contradictions but not allowing yourself succumb to it. We all wish we could find a way to turn back the hands of time and find a balance but then it's our imagination, you would think everything is in place but then suddenly everything crumbles again. Where do you see yourself in the next day or the next week or the next year from now, what really shows on the outside of us looks quite different from our insides.
Let me shine some light in the pure artistry of a person... we are really nothing without the backing of God, fine we could be bright in a specific arra but can we stand on our own. The color we are can fade with time and become less vibrant that your craft becomes really nothing anymore. Re-create your thinking... in the first place would you have survived the impact if not that God kept you alive.
I want you to close your eyes and think about your past and your future self, "How far have you come, and how far will you go?"
Share your passion far and wide and don't give up too quick because of an obstacle, rather dig dee... deep down into your colorful creativity and watch how God will envelop you and give you your desire. So the question now is "How can you help someone in this condition?"
What we have to do as close friends or relatives is to keep praying, it really depends on the type you keep. "Are they the ones that want to see you progress and discovering true potential. So choose now and make sure you pray for them.
I could remember when my mum got a job somewhere and she thought it was really getting better with her stay there, and the next day she got sacked by that same company. What would you think she did afterwards.. always relentless even now and she got a better paying job. It may be rough now but trust the process and it will turn out very great.
There will always be an helper that will stand by you, maybe your prayer partner, your friend or your spouse and even your kids. You've got to believe within you that you will cease every little opportunity.
***In conclusion***
Life will always hit harder, but there are several ways to act upon that... will you take the direction of throwing in the towel or leaning back and working towards a better plan. The choice is yours.
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***October 2021***
1 Day Of Laziness Equals 10 Days In Reality
This was the reality of my experience and I must say that it wasn't a good one. So my day started off too well, I woke up by 6am... made sure I did all there is to do, went for a run then finally back home. And there was something really important for me to do based on my job, frankly speaking I intended to go through with it...Immediately I listened to my body and slept again. I was literally shocked when I woke up way past the time for my objectives, seriously it was really bad as that singular act of mine made it worse for me to finish the work. If I had done it within the time I was supposed to and finished up, I would have avoided the new strategy that will cost me an additional days to finish up.
Have we been held hostage by taking a nap or a break or something close, let's just we are in a different realm and the requirement for staying in there just for a day is 10days in the real world. The only way to best the time is to be on track so as to finish up quickly before the day is over. Laziness and tiredness are complete opposite but both can easily represent the same facts. Not doing exactly what is meant to be done at the right hour Vs resting coz you've done a lot already.
Sometimes we feel the impact on neglect even as a writer, like its hard to really maintain a plan... we all have this amazing idea of one article per day and now its hard to still keep track of. Our world is made harder due to the every day life style of working, schooling, teaching and its hard to keep up with both. Is it just me that sees noicecash and readcash together as a serious work, some people still maintain daily and hourly routine. It just takes you to plan and execute by avoiding any form of lazy self.
Particularly you and I must remain consistent in the goals that we set... If our daily task isn't favorable then change it to work for you and really don't compare someone else agility to yours. By now you should know your strength and weakness, its funny how I was speaking with an old friend and he suggested "what if we get paid while we sleep?" He went further to say that the more we relent or hesitate we run out of time.
I was very interested about the point he made, who wouldn't want to be paid for doing absolutely nothing. But you could build yourself to be a sufficient dividend machine that will super charge you into a different person. I'm still trying to walk my way straight to avoid these, it's hard but when I can fully recall each time that I need to sit up then I think I can do things differently. That being said, you know spending 10days without doing anything will be 1o0days in the outside world.
Many times, you would count more losses than profit with this lifestyle.. what if your target is to make $100 and for every day missed will be short of $3 and you've missed over 10 days... many times laziness affects our streams of profit, our progress, and our mission. So wouldn't it be best to stick with the time and rest later than rest now and leave the job undone.
Laziness leads to procrastination, on returning to our senses we discovered that we have consumed more time than we ought to. My lazy attitude is a work in progress, how about yours? I hope you can learn a few things from here, its past midnight here and I just decided to drop one now and take a break.
Have a great day, thanks once again for reading.
A prompt from @JonicaBradley feel free to write on it..
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***October 2021***
Everyone's Favourite Mistake
Imagine having a cake, seriously stay with me 😊 it's going to be worth it... then you have a several bites into it, you're going to be happy because its sweet and delicious but at the cost of increasing your blood sugar level and being unhealthy. Now these outcomes don't make the cake good or evil, it's just cake and if I was craving for it I'd focus on the positive which is how fascinating and delicious it is and emotionally I'd be motivated to eat it but if I was thinking of my health I'd then be focusing on the negatives and I will avoid it. Whether you are motivated to eat it or not is based on your emotional response or the gut feeling in you and it could be misleading if you choose to.
I think by the end of this article you will understand the true intention towards this topic. I got better when I got to know this platform in the area of personal financing and investing and it allowed me build walls significantly easier. Me combining this aspect of my life I gained new perspective which was inversely valuable. So things are coincidentally mistakes that can make you better in life, maybe you clicked on something and boom you got a reward without working or solving anything.
Joining read.cash wasn't a mistake for me but having that financial freedom and savings was what I never thought I will have. So sometimes what may look like the negatives could also be better and vice versa, it's best to choose the pro chance to live and always expect something little from everything.
So the key message is to separate the way the world happens and your emotional response to it, in order words think about it like two circles, that one of them represents all the things you may worry about and the other all the things you can control. Striving to separate both with the biggest misconception wouldn't be to opt yourself out of everything but rather embrace a mindset that leads us to be less impulsive, more aware and more reflective.
If you want to make money then do it but don't compromise your integrity or peace of mind or let your peace of mind depend on money... so if an opportunity comes to you by mistake, maybe a job or any other thing do not easily off set that but look at it like it was grace for you to have encountered that concept.
Some of the things we do now, initially never made us happy, but we waited for it patiently in days, weeks, month and even years. Take for instance, you made an error in an exam and when the result comes out you wonder how you passed and had even the best one... relate it with everything you are into now and let it be a reminder that you are just a throw stone away from your favourite mistake.
It could happen in relationships, marriages and even our kids... where we make mention of how we hate it with that person and at the end love happens. So let me know in the comment section of mistakes that has happened in your past that turned out to be a blessing...
Thank you for reading... happy weekend.
***October 2021***
I am really sorry for being absent yesterday, it was a very terrible day for me... my phone got spoilt, so I will really try as much as possible to catch up... love you all so much 💞 happy Tuesday
Tension Reduced To fractions With Bityard, You Can Never Go Wrong
For now my focus is mainly on crytocurrencies but there are other opportunities in trading as well. This is one of the very few exchanges that have licence in few countries like USA, Singapore.. so my perspective in Bityard innovation doesn't lay low within a small margin but I see what Bityard has pulled through months before now and I'm equally certain that there will be much more to be achieved from now till the rest of the year. In the aspect of new changes to what is already available, maybe more licensing power, and more adaptation and global reach will set the label towards complete usage by people like you and I.
So basically apart from easy regulation of standards bityard has gone to a great lengths to ensure that users experience is very efficient by cutting across several stream lines to just a few simple steps. It makes it easier to focus and avoid digressing from what matter most which is a profitable cryptocurrency trading. I'm sure you know you could actually trade with a very small amount, with this effect you may need to know that it was made this way to accommodate people into the ecosystem.
To sign up on Bityard, you will need only two things... **An email address or a mobile phone number**, and also funding can commence through other leading cryptocurrencies such as USDT, Tetther, Bitcoin, Ethereum and the likes. Once its cleared you can leverage trading and be reminded to fill out the necessities for your interest within a stipulated time.
**"To ease your tension and questions, let me tell you just a bit about Bityard"**...To create a better understanding and not to bore you out of this article, Bityard does a very good job in several ways of cryptocurrency option creation and a trading space with low entry levels, unique complex contract and pretty much a user friendly interface which is simple to understand. With all of this known and written, there will always be competitors in that cycle.. but there are few things that makes it shine and blossom than others...
Crypto trading options can be quite complex for beginners, which I'm also a part of... with the style of use, the processes have been made easier to understand for new users. Fully functional now and have reached a clean state and also less terrifying.
***From provision of digital asset exposure through derivative contracts has proven that this model will provide lower latency, deeper order and also low price shipage.***
I'm sure the best is yet to come, so stay with me... you'll be surprised how much profit you can achieve with the use of Bityard and this has been a one of a kind process for me as I have recently seen things differently which brings maximization as a key option.
Security levels are also tight, and very safe for your trading options even as high as 100-$1k and beyond that.... so the potential is there, more or less to say you are in the safest hands... coz your funds are safe, and withdrawals are easy to process within a short time.
***You may also choose to be more protective and secure your funds with an inbuilt security systems, as a password can be set for that purpose.***
**if I am to give my personal preference on a coin that will be bullish in quarter 4 of 2021...** this is going to be a huge answer for me as more than one will be. But I guess I'm going to have to stick to just one, my mind really feels something towards Bitcoincash amidst other booming smartbch..
Over the years Bitcoincash was one of the main topics of discussion, but when you talk about crypto now in 2021 it feels like it did lay low while other alt coins started to shine... but regardless we are still talking about it and it's still making its wave.
If the plan can still be maintained, I'm sure it will still stay around....having faster speeds and lower speeds. What I do see happen at the end of 2021 is to get to some nice highs which will bring us to a good end. This is my view but nothing too fantastic to imagine, anything can happen from now till december and will be the determining factor. Because we are already seeing a reversal after it dropped below $500, so if the price go beyond the level which it is now we will see a continuation of the run.
I chose bitcoincash even though it may not adequately be linked, but I do believe there will be a future innovation on the site.
Following this choice and decision wouldn't get you ship wrecked trust me, you could still do your findings and feel free to pick what is best for you. I also do believe in the impact of #Club1BCH and I can proudly say that the work has continued greatly because of your dedication and loving spirit...
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**October 18 2021**
Fortune Tellers In The Crypto Verse
When you have 90% of your total net worth in crypto, that is the time to listen to every speculation because you are a long term investor and you're really comfortable putting your net worth in that risk position. And maybe you believe even if you loose them you will definitely have them back in no time.... I will then say the biggest trap is investing more than you're willing to loose, and when it comes to risky investments especially with cryptocurrency they are extremely a volatile process.. never knowing if its going to perform really well or proven fundamentally strong or solid.
Everything forecasted in the future is all based off of hopes and right now it feels like they haven't yet proven themselves. When you are trapped in that universe you're prone to panic selling, especially if you see that your particular coin or maybe your entire portfolio really red and below your set resistance. You will be heading straight into that survival mindset to harness right now on the ones you have down, and also you're going to be prone to thinking short term naturally because of this.
I think once you start investing and understanding what your risk tolerance is, then you can start focusing more on long term because these temporary dip doesn't really matter if your intention is to hold for the next couple of years... so what happens now really dosent matter, in a nutshell.
You're seriously going to think back to today, this specific moment and think "oh snap" my portfolio went down to 40, 50 or 60%.. A lot of people will be scared when moving in quite sooner than they should, I mean that's what fortune tellers do to know when averaging into reality. I don't know when this will be tanky but I do know some people will be there with their analysis and all what not and still derive a new outline or a pattern..
One thing I believe is that time in the market is always better than some timing in the market, a saying goes this way
***"The best time to do something was yesterday and the next best time to do anything is today.."***
But what if it starts tanking or going down by some percentage of your money, you've got a choice to choose from the available options or re-route your nap and decisions. This constant feeling of uncertainty always kicks in, and you end asking yourself just the way I do if you're heading in the right direction and doing what's best for what you have... it is a conditioned feeling.
Condition your mind to what you feel is right, do your planning your self if you have to... at the end of the day, it's your money or rather it's your possession. You will hear stories of how mystical the market values can be, it draws you in and you have no choice than to walk in.. but what you need to do is take out time to do what others do, or just lock up and wait for a future miracle.
Ask yourself the why's in everything,
**"is there value to what I intend doing?"**
**"Do I have to wait for somebody's lead?"..**.
Just a fraction of questions to worry over before attempting any risky trade or investment, for those who are using all their total earnings.
So do what is right, and don't feel pressured to choose what someone else does, because you may not handle the shock like the next person would. Fortune tellers do exist, I mean its been happening for years now yet they still know what time to invest or opt out...
Thank you for reading... love you all.
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***October 2021***
"The Person You Think Of As Yourself Exist Only In Your Mind"
Something that I find super helpful is to stop caring about what other people think within reasons and for the most part I really don't care about what other people think about me.. you've got to appreciate the good comments towards you but the one that are really stubby never stress about that, they really can do better than hating on you everyday.
The chances are you're never going to see this person ever in your life and if that's not re-assuring here's another way to practically think about this which is a little more explanatory..
***There is a different version of you that exists in the mind of every single person that you know, and the person that you think of as yourself exists only within your mind. Every single person that you have met or will meet, maybe had a relationship with or make eye contact or done businesses with or went to the same school all have a different version of you in their heads.***
You will be amazed that you are a different person entirely to your parents, your siblings, your co-workers, your neighbors, your partners and even your close friends. So you really do exist in several you's or let me express it as several versions and if you come to a conclusion you're not really just what you think.
In the end you have to do what makes you happy in a moment as long as it does not negatively impact someone else life. If you want to be a content creator, a singer or a poet you have the free will to do that as long as it doesn't affect anybody.i think the meaning of life is to simply live it and enjoy living life.
We can really get dragged into working our butts off with lots of sacrifices towards future goals... when we take life as a journey that only starts at one end and ends at the other, one representing your struggles and the other happiness then you and I will give room for people to keep saying what they say about us. Just take time to listen to the sounds and just dance and be happy.
Start now to shake off your unfriendly friends that come as though they are helpers and meaningful people in your life. It's bad for you to still keep them because all they do is torment you either with words or messages. People who do love you will always have something good to say about you and always want you to be better.
I had a little thought of what to share today and this came up immediately...
I really do appreciate my readers and every upvotes and comments too. You all are the reason I'm still here, God bless..
***October 2021***
Change The Genre's To Inspiration
Change can't always be put in people's hands, the true greatest remains that you can bring hope into a hopeless situation. This artistic mind of mine wont take time to heal but it will stop for anything... I tend to digress so I tried to progress but life is full of contradictions and lately to you pain feels way better than it should. You're feeling it, but still submerged into your notebooks refusing to come up into the surface to breathe life into suffocation.
I am looking at someone who was dying to love and someone so scared of going insane that really needed something or anything to tell you something different about your situation or problems. You've got to try to cease the inspiration presently there, avoid looking at the facts on the table saying you can never amount to anything. You would see that the more you tried to leave, the more something stronger is pulling you back.
I'm drowning in self inflicted pain, I am that black wolf howling... but you know I've been trained to be a monster in a world full of monsters who don't like monsters who has mastered the art of becoming monsters. So I feel people spit salt to our wounded hearts and we try to survive daily in a place where people don't really care about us and our vision.
You really have to come out of that mindset, do not let those weaknesses cause you to loose the purpose of your living. And anyone that says you can't be who you want to be is a monster in human clothing. This is your moment to change your genre's and everything you hear and believe into an inspiration.
Rise up and put on a smile, walk in God's marvelous light and the stories that was known about you will be written off. Stay clear from the side of lies, but stay daily on the side of truth. Live life in hope, that there's going to be a resurrection or rather a restoration of what you feel you lost in the past. Earlier this year, I could have lost my mind coz I was too attached to things that I lost all the money I had with me... like everything was gone. Giving up wouldn't make it easier, or make it look good so I picked up my broken pieces with confidence and went in with full force to regain my balance again.
It's never too late to surprise our doubters and prove them wrong.
Thank you for reading..
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***October 2021***
Minimum Number Of Regrets In 2022
I'm much more happier approaching 2022 than any other year till date, because in reality its just me and what I was able to create for myself... and did I really achieve that? So my biggest regrets is that I'm constantly worried that my luck will eventually run out, like really will people still be interested in what I do or I'm I still doing what is best for me?...
Failing is a great learning opportunity and I still believe it, there are different levels of failing and it could be something really small where you can learn from and grow and no big deal. But what if it's a massive failure, sure I'm going to learn from it but it's going to hurt real bad and when that happens "what do I do?"... I mean I could probably start something else from that point, but really how long would that last?"
My favourite thing about all this is, ahead from here will outweigh the regrets that I could have. So wanted to project myself forward into 2022 and say now okay "I'm looking back at my life, I want to have a minimized number of regrets" and one thing that could hit my head is never to have tried everything that came my way and I see that as a stepping stone for me to stay relentless.
I am directly contributing to something larger than myself and hopefully solving a problem for the things I could accomplish way ahead of this current year. But at the end of the day other than having the opportunity to be free my other favorite thing about this year is that, it forced me to be a better me. Because I have worked for myself and I have a bit more flexibility with how I live my life everyday.
Having this flexibility translates in creating more valuable approach in better with my content. So for me it's a bitter sweet experience, I failed so many times and still didn't realize how much I have wasted already.... so the start of 2021 was so terrible, but I got to the center and I became more open minded and very cautious of what I did and the decisions I made....
Then it came to my notice that I have started running towards something rather than running away from something and that has made me see beyond what I would normally see and kept me focused too. So generally I believe that the coming year will be a better start for me as I would want to continue with the same mindset..
Do you have any weird or tough experience that you may like to share from 2021, you could do that in the comment section... "what are you grateful for and also your regrets?"
I'm grateful to be a part of something, which I'm still a part of till this moment... platforms that have changed my thinking approach, has taught me life lessons and also gave me more opportunities to venture into...
Thank you for reading..
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***October 2021***
Weighed Down By The True Value Of Time
I have recently been thinking a lot about timing and money and literally this equation really started to connect with me "Time equals money". When you work for yourself or even when you're a hourly employee you are constantly reminded of your hourly rate and thatvis how much you could be making. And if you worked an extra hour you're always faced with an opportunity cost which is the next best option that you could have made with your time.
No matter what you're doing you still have an alternative option, should you watch another episode of a Netflix series and maybe some very new interesting movie or should you just stay on writing without getting distracted.
This way of thinking about it does have its advantages because if we value time against a hard monetary number then we may be more intentional with our time, we would spend it wisely and derive more value from it. But it also has its disadvantages, because again you're constantly being weighed down by the true value of time and what more can be achieved which can get really be depressing. You will always think about it this was ***"what else could I be doing, I'm just feeling bored and enjoying life after spending lots of hours working straight" .***
Our perception of time is now much faster over our life time and because the existence of time as a percentage of our lives decreases over time. When we where kids our 24 hours is always 24hours and we will play and sleep all through the day that it become really slow. But when we grow and become occupied with life works and challenges it becomes a small fraction and 1 year takes significantly less time to pass than before, so basically time differs with age and responsiblity.
Have you ever experience this before? like when you write or maybe do something else and you feel like you're already in the zone, flowing and you feel really connected to whatever task you're doing. It happens that way when you don't get distracted. Unfortunately it's really rare to accomplish that, when we see a popped up notification or get distracted from house duties or work schedules.
What if our eyes are always glued to our screens and all other things that could come in our way are turned off and our focus is 100%, you will notice that you and I will be able to write 3 to 5 articles in a day and that would be worth doing. You will have enough time writing and feel really productive and at the same time much more focused as well.
Imagine if you could finish your work faster so that you have more time and more focus to do other things and when you focus deeper in those other things, then those task will also take less time thereby effectively giving you more time in your day. I am terrible at being mindful but if you can stick to those moments, you won't wonder around things that really doesn't make you productive.
Sometimes in life we feel that we are really against time and our brain tells us to rush our way through which makes us less productive, it will be much harder to complete our work during a short time. Therefore time will always pass by faster and the best thing to do is fill our days with new experiences and new knowledge which would trigger our brain to process more.... try out something that can help you stay focused.
I feel bad when I fall short of this and i can't say more than that. I still try to adapt to my own set out standards of timing. I hope we can stay on track each day to be more open in whatsoever we do.
Thank you for reading...
***October 2021***
Do You Feel Really Behind In Everything?Then This Read Is For You
Has this ever happened to you? while you're on your phone you just start scrolling on Instagram and then you come across a random user around your age or even lower and you're like "oh snap this kid has gone more in 19 years than I'll ever achieve in my life. They already an Aston Martin, a mansion.... so you could this small task for your mental health and click on their profile to stalk them even more, causing you to enter an endless spiral of self-doubt, financial hate or envy with the fear at the back of your head of falling behind.
After 24hours of stalking, you decide to put your phone down and reflect, maybe it could stare up your mindset to work even harder to make more money. But more likely not you're just going to feel fucked up afterwards and all this young guys and ladies already boast of thousands of bucks in their accounts. But also on the brighter side you'd think that if you where ever in a boxing ring with these rich people you will really beat them to it...
I've had those feelings myself, like I'm behind on a curve and looking for ways to improve myself financially "How can I even reduce my spending?" Do I deserve to buy double of what I don't need or just stick to buying one?" Though I may become too conservative where I don't have to buy unnecessary things, there's still gonna be this financial war that goes on in my head which to me can be exhausting. But do your really want to know the good things that could pull your strength up to come our of it?
First understand why this comparison actually happens, and does it actually happen to everyone?" This concept of comparing to others could be psychological or even biological, if you literally see anyone above you... you will be like "what am I really doing wrong?" These are needs to evaluate ourselves at every phase because human beings can't define themselves independently, the only way is in relation to something else greater or better and this has been enhanced with social media now.
Imagine setting a plan that nobody knows and you make billions from it, maybe just by placing a tech over another to form something amazing... if you still see your peers making it better than you do, you would wonder why you aren't making much more than they are, and that is always the reality of life.
***Stop Doing What You Do***
You are making an error, you can even tell if the person you compare with is miserably happy or happy happy. I think you nat need to compare yourself now to where you can be later, maybe 10-20 years from now, then your base of constructive term can grow and develop within a time frame. Think about all you can do now and what you can do later. And set out a realistic huge point, let that channel you much close to be better.
***Choose To Feel Guilty Or Come To Terms From Mistakes***
Sometimes our perfect world could be "why weren't I aware of the chances of Bitcoin or Bitcoincash before now?"
Just because someone started way ahead before you did... but you have to decide based on what you can do now and also what you can learn that will stop you from feeling the way you do.
In all this when you are generally happy with your choices there is no reason to feel that you are behind. Whatever soothes you now, go for it and learn to be happy with every milestone you have achieved in life.
Thank you my readers....
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***October 2021***
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Persistent Quote "It Would Have Been Better If You Never Existed"
That's really all you hear "I hope you die and burn in hell, it would be better if you never existed. And then if this is your reality I need you and expect you to know that truly your life don't depend on the thoughts of others. I cannot imagine how difficult that must be, if you're the one, I think you've got to shake those negativities off of you.
You're not disgusting, it wouldn't be better if you died and burned in hell and it wouldn't be better if you where never born. You are loved, your life is worth something so please shake it all out to be yourself. This has to challenge you and I even from hearing it and as a follower of Jesus if you learn to love your enemies... not the person you see daily at work or school that gets on your nerves but the person who has most offended your humanity, disrespected and dehumanized you.
If you learn to love that person then you begin to understand what the love of God is like. My understanding had changed over the years and the last few years have been me really deconstructing my life.. I was confused at some point in my life, why I really kept some friends in my life.
There was a time when we couldn't r afford anything, and then you meet friends to help out and all you get is abuses and courses. I kept coming her for help, till I got the answer I never expected. "If its money you came for, then I think you should remain in your state because you deserve it" immediately tears drop, and from that moment I never came back.
Do I really deserve to be broke, or completely empty? That was on my thoughts for a while, till I realized that people will always say what they feel about us... but when you know whom you serve, those things dosent matter coz God alone can beautify you.
I think from there, I never went back anymore..in all of this i have written always remember that God sees you differently and you can never allow your self be consumed by the things people say.
You've got the power in you to take a stance, who you want to become and where you want to be even after all this happened from people you may trust. Maybe what happened to me was what pushed me to go further because I was frustrated and hurt... neglect and erase every negative opinion about you and you will see how your life will witness a turn around.
I couldn't really think of something for today, but I do hope this has served as a motivation to us, to always disregard every thing people tag you as. Love you all.
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***October 2021***
"You Are My Audience For Today, Be The Judge"
I know you all be like, how did he end up being a convict... let me tell you a story about me...
In the beginning, sovereign vocabulary crafted a universe and light was birth with speech from a being who breeds heaven in earth. Called Eden a garden, settled in the same dust used to mould man in the image of him. Then it happened clay sinned and hope faded, then it became my reality that it's not really about who I was but about what I've done.
I was called up to the podium, a prosecution and my defendant waiting to get smashed at the truth. I was trembling, but I was confused....never knew why I was been convicted coz to me I never committed any crimes.
The question was thrown out to the prosecution "what are the crimes he committed?" Immediately answered and told the room that I was having sex with my girlfriend of whom we weren't married yet, I wore clothes that was cut by the knee sides, I listened to songs that weren't Gospel genres, I had piercings and I had a tattoo at my backside....not just that alone but my haircut was not right.
Proceeded to speak further, told the court room that a man who is truly serving God or considered Godly shouldn't be seen with those things.
It was the turn of the defendant to speak forth and the reply was "Isn't my service to God meant to be from my heart and not by my physical appearance?"he is allowed to be who he is if he chooses to and still place God first over anything. And by the way won't the relationship lead to marriage, "so why should he hesitate on getting involved?".. don't you think you are taking things too far.
I highly disagree with your statement says the prosecution, because if you are truly saved, you shouldn't bring yourself to the point of committing such act.... he should be committed to putting on a particular attire that well represents christ. So what is a proclaimed child of God, if he goes out sleeping around with ladies calling them soon to be wives.
I refuse that my client be called that, because are you sure you haven't even broken the law yourself says the defendant to the prosecution.... now let me let you know that not all Christian's you see today are giving it 100, you see them dressed in the way you say it's fine and good and in the eyes of people all well and good. But "have you checked inward?" They represent two separate beings and still haven't gotten the idea yet.
Hold on.... a Godly man don't do that unless he is drawn to his flesh, do you have anything to say for yourself? "the prosecutor asked" can't a man still be himself and as well serve God with his heart? This is me and my style and maybe you don't get something straight....but how I choose to live my life has nothing to do with anybody.
Prosecution replied "that will be all for now" cross words between the both parties...
Then a final statement from my defendant was, shouldn't you be yourself whilst serving God, meanwhile all these things you think he must have committed where minor flaws that even you could fall a victim too.... should that count to make him pay. He is a just God I'm sure he will read only the heart of this man and see how close he is to him.
Back to my audience, you be the judge... "what do you think is right here and what do you think represents how we should live our lives?" To me both parties where wrong, they both saw things differently both deviated from the main point...some questionable part from the prosecution went too far with what shouldn't, while the defendant arguably supported what was completely wrong.
Let's just live our lives and work in Gods precept and always ask God to keep us till the end... and I'm sure he will..
Thanks you for reading through.... I was really out of a topic today and decided to bring you this, I hope you all had a great day...bye for now.
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***October 2021***
If I Where A Fantasy
You have this flickering sprinkle of thoughts going on within your mind, and you want an explosion soon. You feel like you have the world held within your palm and you can alternate from one universe to the other, living the picture. What if I told myself that I had the power to and my wildest imagination could just begin.
All of a sudden everyone stops moving and I have full access into any tech store and guess what I pulled with me my dream HP laptop costing around $800....then I just moved away unnoticed, it didn't stop there but the time flipped again and I saw my self with the keys to my new car. I wanted to show a little kindness, I still left a tip 😊. There was a cloud movement turning every where and everything pink, well it was me in a club partying alone.
I saw a portal open, immediately I jumped in and it was Paris....I wrote down every adventure from @Jane dream vacation and I made sure I visited everywhere, then suddenly I remembered that I need to see every one of my virtual friends then several other portals opened up to destinations like Hongkong, Philippines, Venezuela, Spain and London.. and several others..finally I saw, Tiredmomma, Jane, Ruffa, cLEE, Janz, Kleah CoquiCoin, Bhargi 'theblackdoll' and many other friends. I exempted Nigeria coz I'm presently here but I do love my friends here.
My imagination began putting things into place, I never knew I would have much more deeper intentions than just living my dreams....suddenly every one began moving again... then I appeared in a home filled with lot of rooms with the best interior designs, chandeliers, swimming pool and an outer garden....I claimed it as mine. I wasn't satisfied yet, time flipped again I could feel my self in a room very bright that was almost blinding... that was a jewel store picked up the best chains, the best gold rings and wrist watches. Boom I got back to the house with them.
My mission wasn't extremely over yet, time flipped again and this is a portal that took me back to 2009....to acquire my first 20bitcoin, maybe just to have that feeling of accomplishment even though I could just command anything I wanted to reality. No fantasy without this.
I think my lucky charm was almost fading then I used my last chance to command the heart of the girl I wanted so badly to be in a relationship with to me, I won't mention any name.... after all I did to bring everything I wanted together, it struck me really hard that I already made bad use of my timer.
I would have taken the form of rusty and tipped myself anything I wanted, after going through If I were rusty from Jane... that would also be amazing. Imagine being a money paying bot for a moment, that is wild.
Then it hit me **"Why wouldn't I imagine myself free? Why wouldn't I imagine my family together? "Why wouldn't I imagine myself forgiving them?" Why wouldn't I Imagine getting the things that will last and not things that can easily fade away?"** I guess most times we don't really desire to change things that are important in our lives but only things that are fun and captivating. I was back to my usual world, maybe I would have been a lot happier if I saw something more different.
I would never not imagine the good things I can achieve, but I know many of you would be like "this isn't what I desire" but deep within you, you don't feel happy about it... the fact that you can actually have whatsoever you wish you had and you don't have to keep hurting by not believing....there is still someone up there that sees your desperation and can make it happen..
*A little thought*
what if you where given the opportunity to be me what would be your first dream to have... would you consider mine a waste of character and time..
Thank you for reading. I love you all.
My entry to the new prompt by Jonica.
***October 2021***
Bitcoincash At $0 In 2022, Dont Judge Me Yet
As we finish off 2021, it looks like Bitcoincash is heading right back where it started, price seem to be going back up and heading towards that yearly open level. Bitcoincash had a nice run throughout 2021, it went all the way up into that $1,600 range in may and since then it has been in a deep correction till now...leaving it in that $600 range and it continues to break major support levels which really needs us to hodl more.
Things aren't going exactly as planned for Bitcoincash in 2021 and just to top that off, it lost its spot within the top 10 crypto's, but still remain as one of the main tradable cryptocurencies. I'm not too happy how its performing but even though things aren't looking good right now, I still think 2021 can be a better year and Bitcoincash would still have a chance of heading towards those highs maybe even higher than $1,600 range.
For this part of the article, you would get to know how I really feel.....I think if Bitcoincash can move up past that 670 average we can see a new bullish trend for it. Over the years Bitcoincash was one of the main topics of discussion, but when you talk about crypto now in 2021 it feels like it did lay low while other alt coins started to shine.
There has been a bit of a drama over the years for Bitcoincash whether it is the original Bitcoin and also the harsh wars that happened in the end of 2018. You could even say Bitcoincash was the main reason why bitcoin and crypto had a major correction but look where it is now, in 2021 we are still talking about it and it's still making waves.
If the plan can still be maintained, I'm sure it will still stay around....having faster speeds and lower speeds. What I do see happen at the end of 2021 is to get to some nice highs which will bring us to some good end. If it dosent go in this direction then I see it carried over to 2022.
This is my view but nothing too fantastic to imagine, anything can happen from now till december and will be the determining factor. Because we are already seeing a reversal after it dropped below $500 so if the price does cross over we will see a continuation of the run.
This is a clickbait though, be calm I believe we can never get as low as that, everything is skyrocketing in cryptocurrency now and it's a good one. From the global use of BCH it will solidly stay firm, even though it seems as it is now....we must still play our role in restoring it.
**In conclusion**
This is what I think would end the year, but its my view anyway...let's be expectant of what this month will be first before moving out further. Bitcoincash has helped me a lot and I'm not ready to let go.
Thank you for reading through....I love you all
*October 2021*
My General Overview On NFT's For A Startup
If you don't really know or sure what a NFT collectible is, there are different types of versions of them, a lot of artists sell their digital art for cryptocurrency specifically ethereum. But there's also types of NFT collectibles that get released and you can do what we call minting and you can mint these specific NFTs which also have different variations making some rarer than others. So for example you may have seen different types with varieties and traits so it may have a rarity score. The rarer they become the more money you can make by selling this on the market place.
But it's a matter of how to find them, @PVMihalache has been able to put an extensive guide on this and I'll want you all to check that out. You could also check his page for more helpful links that will give a more broad explanation on NFTs. You may find it a little weird though, if you have crypto to maybe play with it could be in turn a good investment. It's not much of the art really.
The questions is "why would people be interested in these stuffs?" Think about it like a pokemon card and you have your rare ones that you want to trade or you have one's that are not so rare and people collect these cards for that purpose. You can easily go get them and hopefully they go up in future or you can buy rare ones but you really need to get the NFT before they come up on the market place because the floor price can go up at anytime. It's your decision to hold your NFTs and make real profits, when you are selling them remember that some where once sold for a few thousand dollars. And then they were sold for 10k, and the person felt like the smartest person in the world until the next person flipped it for a 100k.
Research is your best option from the start, go ahead to do some research before choosing anyone. You could buy NFTs as it is trustworthy, easily transferable and will also maintain ownership rights. NFT turns your digital assets into one of a kind by creating g a unique digital signature which defines the ownership of your assets and that can be bought and sold for real money, cryptocurrency or any other asse.
Like a non-fungible token also known as NFT, actually means that they are not interchangeable and each of them represents a unique asset owned by a specific person. On the other hand fungible tokens can be interchangeable and can be broken into smaller units to form the same value. Each NFTs contains distinguishable information like who owns and who sold making it whole verifiable by securing originality.
It basically creates a blockchain based digital for a collectible mostly art and it gives a unique identity. The programming language used by NFTs are the same as the blockchain cryptocurrency and majority exists in ethereum blockchain but are quite different which enables you own and sell thousands of collectibles.
Proving itself to be an impact in many lives, and due to its popularity can be worth a lot. You can get it from giveaways, like I got mine also from VooDooDs recently on telegram.
I'm sure sooner it will represent a more digital accessibility in coming years. My message may not be widely explained for you to see the opportunities but I said initially, just to tell you why you should go for it.
***So is every NFTs unique?***
In the boring, technical sense that every NFT is a unique token on the blockchain. where there’s only one definitive actual version, it could also be like a trading card, where there’s over hundreds of numbered copies of the same artwork.
***"Who would pay so much to acquire all this knowing fully well of its flaws?"***
If its something you really find interesting and would stand the thirst of time, then it's worth every penny. Not a financial advice....if you believe in it, you must chose to adapt to any change along the way.
These are just a few questions that you may be needing an answer to well you got them here, feel free to check this link for more information and giveaways too.
Resource
NFT questions explained https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.theverge.com/platform/amp/22310188/nft-explainer-what-is-blockchain-crypto-art-faq
Thank you for reading through....
*October 2021*
I'm so sorry for not really engaging here as much as I would, I don't like stopping by without leaving a tip no matter how small.....I'm still your number fan my friends...by next week I will pick from the pool of opinions sent last month and tip something to the next winners..
Tension "Do you Feel It The Way I Do?"
Could we always consider that the battle is bigger than just an instincts, when our worrying factions fractures like fractions by our divisions putting ourselves over each other and multiplying by our differences....leaves nothing tangible when we allow our minds to be consumed with fear of absolutely an unknown factor.
It feels improper when we worry over every slightest thing that come by us, let me put together something "being in the world means you are a being in the world" whatever you feel is yours, don't allow tension to deprive you of that....you have every rights to feel the way you do but where you may highlight this feelings may be much more worse with a part of your problem still present.
So you have lived in a world searching to find something and the more things are opening up to you you'd eventually come to the bottom of the facts and then hold!, you become at war with yourself. Sometimes you shouldn't put your entore life and vision in just a space or a box, feel free to blend and adapt to everything new.
This the part where I loose followers,but can you really interject an opinion without getting scared? If you feel it is right, why not proceed. Ever since BCH has been present many people have characterised it as a scam, because they are scared of committing time and efforts....maybe it will all vanish suddenly. But the people who stayed can still conform its credibility till now, and I am one of them.
Have you tried talking to someone about read and noice before and they will be like "leave that thing man it's all a scam" never even tried or been there before to make that kind of line. Sometimes we have to sacrifice a lot in the process to achieve what we want or desire, tension will only make you stay idle for a long time without opening your eyes and understanding to what is right there.
Let us all try out something today, a small practical " pick up a rubber band, pull it up and use it against something that is falling apart. You will see that a rubber band is useless if not pulled at both sides and always effective when at war with itself" there will be forces that cause you to maybe give up or may scare the hell out of you but if you get distracted and miss out on what is coming by you now....you may loose your grip.
Questioning its usefulness, "are our minds judgements of our limitations? Do we always see everything as little as others see it till it blooms without our notice? What is your right way to ease up life tension?" I know you will think this is pertaining to what is happening or what has been happening throughout yesterday but not exactly...this is a long life question because from now everything changes with the decisions you make.
By answering these questions, I will like you to remember the last time you where confronted with something and you disapproved cause you where afraid..., then you regretted not taking that opportunity long lost...the cost of everything achieved today is fear, nothing happens at first without being scared of the possibilities of failure...that is what you pull in, then next is to have a rethink and likewise see the other side of the spectrum.
What do we then do in this condition?
Firstly you've got to do your research first, if it's something that wouldn't last long or be sufficient you can pull out. No harm in trying though, secondly manage it and control it.....don't be swift to reject or accept an offer.
The way I would handle tension, is to sleep over it....I don't know why I always choose to do that, but I can make my decisions if I hold back and inquire more I could be at peace with myself.
**In conclusion**
No one is beyond having doubts, but you solidly do not have a choice when it's not much of your capital investment but your time and energy....you may need to reconsider. Three words from the start factions, fracture and fractions take note of it....
That will be all for now, thank you for staying with and reading through.
This is still @KingGozie I love you all.
*OCTOBER 2021*
@King_Gozie
