I need advice, I'm in love again

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You've ever been crushing on someone that's far and finally you see yourselves getting closer? That's my situation now. I want to pour out my recent experience here and I seek for your experienced advices. "Experienced advice"? Yeah because I'm too sure that in one way or the other, you've had experience.

First of all, I've been there once, I've tasted relationship some times ago but decided to back off due to some attitudes and manners I received.

I have transformed my heart to a "rocky nature" that it doesn't feel anything anymore. I love it that way because it has helped me a lot, especially declining some people that've been giving green light.

But just this lady....❤️

Okay, there's this lady I've known from afar, I just have natural likeness on her, not infatuation or so, I just liked her and I've been admiring her from afar. We are in same church together and I often see her every Sunday. Hey! I'm an usher and coincidentally, I've been the one giving her seat for some times now because the other usher at the front door usually direct her to my post/sector.

Each of the day's I've seen her, I've always wished to get to her but the thought of "she's no different from others girls"kept blocking my mind. So I decided to let her go, but the more I try to push off my concentration towards her, the more the attraction increases. " I can't come and fall for this girl, I don't want to be rubbished again" these were my thought and decided to let her go finally.

Just like a dream, she appeared one day on my work place to buy food, I couldn't just control my nerves I had to say "hello church member" and she responded with "good day church member". The conversation ended there with just normal pleasantries and she left with her food. I should have given her free food because I was the cashier, right? Lol🤣. It doesn't work for me that way.

All these while, I had no idea of her name cos we were not close or we haven't talked. So each time I see her I call her "church member".

Fast forward, I don't know how she did it, I found myself so obsessed with her thought and that was when I knew that my "so rocky mind" has been captured and melted finally by a stranger. How do I get to her? Since I don't know where she lives or her name, the only opportunity I have is church and most times I'm so muchly occupied by the Sunday duties and people are always crowded that it takes time to locate someone unless by chance.

So I decided to locate her by all cost the following Sunday. Luckily for me, that Sunday I was lucky to meet her after closure, she was sitting with her sister under a canopy outside the church auditorium, I approached her, asked for her name and her number which she told me her name JENNIFER and also gave me her number. Mehn! I was fulfilled that day. I was on top of the world!..I got home from work that night and called her around 10:00pm and luckily she picked, we had sweet conversation and I found out also that we are from same tribe. This can't be mere coincidence! There's some made! Lol.

Today making it the fourth day we've been communicating and I must say, I've been feeling like I've been with real angel with wings from heaven. Though I haven't directed my calls and chats towards asking her out, just normal random talks. From research or studies, they said it's weird/wrong to pop up the relationship talk first without introducing a little bond, so I've been taking my time.

Now, my mind is convinced but I have double thought.

This is where I need you guys, the experienced ones to step in.

• Yeah, I know the scopes but I don't want to loose her.

• I know when and how to make the call but I don't want to loose her.

• I know the kind of text to send to her but I don't want to loose her.

• I know where to take her to but I don't want to loose her.

• I know it's very possible for her to be attached with someone (has a boyfriend) but I want to snatch her.

• I've asked Ladies out but it seems this one is different, I don't just want to let her slip away. Maybe I should go and use juju 🤣🤣🤣

Guys, what do you suggest? What scope do you suggest I use? Do well to help me out on the comment section.

Thanks all!

16days to Christmas🎅❇️💞🎄💥

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