@Kelzy
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I'm dead, I'm pregnant!
Lead Image https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.132healthwise.com%2Fwhen-can-you-have-an-abortion-due-to-unwanted-pregnancy.php&psig=AOvVaw2JLeo4erJLivNRknQToX3g&ust=1638885425589000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CA0Q3YkBahcKEwio_5aWqs_0AhUAAAAAHQAAAAAQAw "Knock! Knock!" small sound coming from my door. I don't expect any visitors so I just ignore it cause I think it was just my neighbor's kids. Knock! Knock! "Kelz? You there" said the familiar voice. I get up and quickly open the door. I saw my friend crying and I can't help but pity seeing her eyes. I hugged her. "What happened? Why are you crying?" I said worriedly. I didn't get any response but a sob. "It's okay, just cry. I'm here to listen when you're ready." I said while tapping her back. 20 minutes passed and she had already stopped crying but still hugged me. "I'm dead Kelz, I'm dead!" She said in a low voice. I'm so confused about it and asked her "What do you mean? "I think I'm pregnant," she said in tears. "I'm scared if mom will know. What will I gonna do?" I was stunned for a minute cause I don't know what will I say. I'm shocked. "I'm delayed for 2 weeks now. My last period in September is 13 and in October is 19. My menstruation is irregular and I'm 35 cycles so it means my expected period is on November 25 but until now there is no sign of it coming. I tried to use the pregnancy test 4 times but all the result is negative. Kelz I'm dead, my parents will gonna kill me." "Calm down. Maybe your period is really delayed?" "For that long? It's unusual. I'm scared cause we had contact last October 31" "Wait let me search it on google" I grabbed my phone and quickly browse on the internet. "It says here that one cause of the delayed period is hormonal imbalance." "I already read it but I'm still worried. Watch vlogs from Youtube. There are testimonies that it is possible to get pregnant even in a negative test" "Did your boyfriend know about it?" I said. "No. I know he's not ready if there is a baby inside of me." She started to cry again. "He needs to know!" "For what? For be a burden to him?" "So what is your plan?" "I still don't know. I hope I'm really delayed cause if not this is the end." "Don't say that! Let's go to the doctor tomorrow!" my voice rose. "That's another problem, I don't have money." "I will lend you just to confirm what it is." "I'll wait 3 more days." "Why?" "Maybe it comes and I don't have to spend. I just need someone to talk to right now." She hugged me. I was so worried last night when this friend of mine suddenly visit me. I don't know what to advise her cause I don't experience the same thing. I pity her not because she was reckless but I'm afraid her parents will not accept her if it happens. I let her stay here in my apartment so she can think properly. For mommies there, from your experience, is it possible to get pregnant even the test is negative? Hope to get your response to relieve our worried mind. Thanks for reading! :)
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S'ya 'yung sinabi mo kanina sa post mo sa noise.cash, Ate? I can feel her worries ah. May mga nababasa din ako sa Watty and base kila Mama na may chances na talagang mag-negative at first 'yung mga PTs. Pero sana if preggy talaga s'ya is panindigan s'ya ng boyfie n'ya and sana 'wag magalit si mother n'ya. Expected naman na pero sana mas maunawaan s'ya.
Ako nga kinakabahan para sa kanya e. Yung pag pt niya di yun isang araw lang. Magkakaibang araw daw tapos negative talaga. Kaso diba 2 weeks na aguyyy. Kahit ako matataranta na pag ganun. Sana may sumagot na mga mommies.
This girl shocked me with the title! Really Kelzy?
Haha. Don't worry Luci, it's not me hehe
I care about you. You know that, right?
Need na talaga maconfirm if buntis siya, kung sakali man na buntis siya wala na tayong magagawa, if buntis nga siya mas ok na magsabi na agad siya sa parents niya kahit alam niyang ikakagalit nila. Hayszz kaya dapat tlaga pinapractice ang safe sex kapag nagmamake love para iwas sa mga ganyang bagay, morality should always works gaya nga ng sabi ko, dapat alam ng isa tao kung tama o mali ang isang aksiyon at dapat nangingibabaw padin ang isip kesa emosyon, pero kung sakali man na negative talaga, maybe may hormonal imbalance lang siya kaya delay period niya.
Sana lang talaga mag negative bebe. Lesson na din sa kanya.
That's very unfortunate. I had a friend with a similar story, she end up aborting the child. I hope your friend will find better ways to keep the baby.
Oh no! Yeah I hope so too. I just wished she is really delayed.
Nakakatakot nga yan lalo kung ayaw pa talaga ng parents niya mabuntis siya or kung di pa siya handa. Pero at the end of the day mother will be a mother pa rin naman. If ever lang na magpositive, there's no other way but to tell it to her parents esp her mom. Pero if negative naman, I'm sure magiging lesson na rin sa kanya yan.
Kaya nga e. Sana lang talaga negative pagnapacheck up na siya
I think she is worried for no reason because the test showed negative for 4 times.. Tell her to check her thyroid levels because I used to get my periods late before I tested positive for thyroid and once I started taking thyroid pills, everyting is normal now
Oh, this helps. I'll watch on YouTube how to do that.
you cannot do it in house sis, she has to go to labs to get her blood work done
Oh! Thought you did it on your own. Haha. I search it and found some diy tutorial. We'll go to the lab 3 more days to go. Hope the result is all negative
Hoping so and tell ur friend to be more careful
I had a companion with a comparable story. She wind up cutting short the youngster from her stomach. I trust and hope your companion will find better ways of keeping the child since, in such a case that not, that will be so sad
Once my elder sister was pregnant and she had some home test and it was fruitful and accurate. May i asked her for your friend's favorable information?
That's something scary especially when her parents doesn't want her to be pregnant at young age. But you can't do anything more when it's confirmed that she is, you keed to tell it to her parents so they'll be aware about what's happening. Let's just wish that she's not pregnant
We wish. Finger crossed 🤞
Ganyan din nangyari sakin noon, father ko yung strict, but kalaunan natatanggap din nya, lalo na nong nakita nya apo nya, ay naku..Ayaw na humiwalay.
Sana nga ganon din pero mas sana wala na muna kaso di pa talaga siya ready e.
Negative Naman Yung nasa test , delay lang siguro
Sana nga ate yen kaso grabeng delay umabot na ng ilang araw kakaba
It's possible that she's pregnant and it will also be showing negative, she will have to go and do a blood test just to be sure, coz it seems she is using the home pregnancy test (the one where she has to pee on a pregnancy testing stick). Those type of test are sometimes not accurate, so she needs to go to the hospital or a clinic to carry out a blood test, that's the best way for her to be sure.
I already told her about it but she said she will wait 2 more days.