I'm Going Out Of My Comfort Zone
One of the common reasons introverted people don't want to get out of their zone is because they don't want to get hurt. They are aware of what's outside and think negatively in advance. The risk to lose is more dominant for them without thinking about the chances they can get if they will venture. If they continue to act like this they won't grow and suffer in the future.
I, myself can say guilty about this. I don't want to try new things even in the food because I'm afraid it taste not good and I might waste it. I always choose where I am accustomed to while my boyfriend contradicts and pushes me to ruin this thinking.
Just like yesterday, we went to the grocery to buy food stocks so I won't buy nearby my apartment because goods here are quite pricey and stores might close because it's already Holy Week. He picked this Instant Carbonara and I stopped him because I'm thinking it tastes bad. He said he already tried it and it was delicious, but I don't believe him. We almost fight because of it yet he still put one pack of it in our cart. It was cheap and I don't mind if I will pay for it I just don't want to waste money if I don't like the taste. It cost $0.23 and he paid for it for my peace.
"Just try this one. If you don't like it then don't buy it next time" he convinced. I don't have a choice it's already here.
Earlier today I tried it and my judgment was not right. It is so effing good! It's the real smell and taste of carbonara! Its creaminess was just exactly right. I now regret why I only have 1 pack. I should have listened.
This is also perfect if there are big toppings. You can add it to your choice.
It's already 3 hours since I ate this but I still taste its enjoyable flavor.
This made me realize that trying new things is not always bad. It might also surprise you.
I decided now to get out of my zone to face my fears. I want to learn and discover new knowledge that will help me to grow. I don't want to be locked and left here forever. I want to revive my buried dreams here in my comfort zone.
I wasn't like this before in fact I'm independent since I was 8. I managed myself on my own, cause my mom wasn't there for me and I lived with my relatives who don't treat me well. I told myself I will work hard to get out there and I made it. I stepped into college and financed my study believing that I will get a better life after I finish, then again I made it. I keep my dreams in my heart that someday I will succeed and all those people who belittle me will see.
I miss that fighting spirit of me, but now it sleeps for long. I want to wake it up to fulfill the dreams I left. There is still a chance to change. I'm still young and I should go wild. Wild to reach the life I want.
If you're like me who gets comfortable with what you have now but knows it was only temporary, this is the time for you to think seriously.
Recall the opportunity that passed because you get scared.
Think of your colleague who has a better life now because they tried.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask if you're already contented with your life
Take an action now if you know you can make it much better
Do you believe that we humans are guarded by good and bad angels? That they whisper the decision we will take. Who do you want to follow?
The bad angel says you won't get hurt if you listen to him? But the good angel promises you will be healed when you fall and saved if you drown.
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I also don't want to go out of my comfort zone, I am afraid I might be hurt and the negative thoughts comes first. I should try going out soon hehe..