If you want to change your life,
you need to overcome your fear of losing people.
You need to stop making decisions based on what you're supposed to do,
what will ruffle the least amount of feathers,
what will make others celebrate you and shower you in approval.
Stop hiding your real thoughts to make yourself more palatable to others,
to increase their comfort while disregarding your own.
The right people won't abandon you after witnessing your truth.
They will appreciate your transparency and vulnerability,
and will love you even harder.
Yes,
you will lose certain people when you stop letting them walk over you,
but they will be the wrong people.
The people who didn't deserve you anyway.
If you want to change your life,
you need to overcome your fear of losing people.
You need to stop making decisions based on what you're supposed to do,
what will ruffle the least amount of feathers,
what will make others celebrate you and shower you in approval.
Stop hiding your real thoughts to make yourself more palatable to others,
to increase their comfort while disregarding your own.
The right people won't abandon you after witnessing your truth.
They will appreciate your transparency and vulnerability,
and will love you even harder.
Yes,
you will lose certain people when you stop letting them walk over you,
but they will be the wrong people.
The people who didn't deserve you anyway.
We are all going to leave this world one day and everything will stay behind, so while we are here, let's spread love, let's be kind and try our best not to torment others.
Let's make a positive impact on our communities.lets be humbled and treat others with respect. Because in the end, what will matter the most is how we lived and made others feel.
A Very Good Morning to All of You
PEACE
Make peace your priority. Peace is the foundation of a happy and stable life.
Let no one and nothing come between you and your peace of mind. Always protect yourself from energy vempires and people who are full of drama.
So many people in life are struggling with peace. Tormented minds, tormented lives.
Even some of the ones who seem to have it all, have struggling with peace. This is why people become addicted to escaping reality. They have no peace.
Protect your peace my friend. Always!
Life is short. Try your best to be at as much peace with yourself and those around you.
There will in your Lifetime be dozens of people who take your breath away.....
Be the one who remind you to breath, the one who knows your life song and sings it back to you, when you forgot the words awhile,
The one who knows how to make you smile through tears, they are the ones you should keep.
You are more than enough. Never delegate your happiness to anybody or let other opinions about you outweigh your own value.
Care about yourself enough to walk away from people whose intention is to disempower you.
Think back at a time in your life where you went through something really painful you never thought you could overcome.
Think back on how you still managed to climb out of that state and go on with your life despite all the difficulties and challanges presented.
This time is not any different. You are still that strong person. You are wiser and more mature too. This chapter of your life is not permanent. You will overcome it. Yous re not meant to be defeated.
Good morning y'all 🌞
Happy start of the new week
Let's grab a cuppa so we can shine as we rise and talk about happy things!
And let's make way for happiness to colour the day beautiful 🌹
In the world of Donna A Favours, " it's amazing how the world changes through the eyes of coffee"
Well, for some it's tea.....
Whatevers in your ☕, enjoy! It's Monday
This world will always search for ways into breaking us, but I hope that despite it all, may we still find reason to keep falling in love with the beauty of being alive, and may we still keep on looking for the good in every person we meet on this lifetime. May we still keep on looking for the good in every person we meet in this lifetime. May we always, always choose to be kind.
IF NOT TODAY, THEN TOMORROW
Your downstate is not permanent. Depression will pass. Stress will pass. Confusion will pass. Whatever is weighing you down will pass.
Grief may seem eternal but in time, you will manage to rebuild your life around it. You will be okay.
Right now just take it one day at a time. Everyday when you wake up remind yourself that if today is not a better day, tomorrow eventually will be.
Keep telling yourself these positive words everyday until you finally get to that day. And by then you will be glad you held on despite everything
You are not meant to be broken. You got light in you. Find and heal yourself. I wish you alot of happiness and peace!
ADVICE
Don't buy an expensive phone. A new version will come out even before you have finished paying for it.
Don't buy an expensive bag. Replicas are scattered everywhere. Only a trained eye will see that it's genuine.
Don't buy expensive clothing. You can't walk around showing the small tag behind your nape.
Don't buy an expensive watch. A 100 peso vintage watch online looks good too, and all kinds will tell the same time.
Don't buy a huge house. Too much space creates distance between family members. They will grow old and leave anyway.
Always settle for the justified price. You can do more with two for the price one.
Remember that it's not the brand that carries you. It's how you carry the brand.
Grow old wise. Grow old happy.
Don't ignore or suppress your feelings. If something hurts or angers you, let it hurt. Feel that pain. Express it and process it until you heal
Suppressing your emotions won't make them disappear. They will eventually resurface in time. You are a human not a robot. You are supposed to feel.
A part of being strong is having the courage to acknowledge your pain. There is no shame in having emotional struggles. Feel to purge. Purge to feel.
A very good morning to my all dear fellows!!!
Have a beautiful day!
LOVE AND BE LOVEABLE
Peace can not be kept by force, it can only be achieved by understanding. Please remember that whether you fail or succeed is no one's doing but your own.
You are the force, so if you would be loved, love and be loveable. Power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent than any love derived from the fear of punishment.
Every seed of true love will give - today, tomorrow or the day after tomorrow - the fruit of love.
SELF SABOTAGE
There is nothing worse than getting stuck in your mind: overthinking and worrying about things you can't change and control to the point of sabotaging yourself.
Self sabotage us a trauma response. People who are used to having had things happen to them can feel uncomfortable when good things come, so they believe all these negetive voices to reinforce their fears.
My friend, no matter how hard you have had it in your life, don't let these negetive voices become your reality. Break the pattern. You are worthy of great things. Believe it..
REWRITE YOUR STORY
Sometimes bad things happen because of fate, sometimes it's karma, and sometimes it's bad decisions.
Get to a point in your life where you feel so sick and tired of entertaining that are not helping you grow. Things that make you unhappy. Be done making excuses for them!
Talk to your depression, talk to your anxiety, talk to the things weighing you down. Let them know that you are breaking up with them and will no longer let them control your life.
Stop saying that you can't. Start believing that you can. The moment you feel like you can't, that's when you will discover that you actually can.
Refuse to let this chapter be the end. Rewrite your story. Choose a happy ending. You can do it!
Good morning
Shake off the feelings that you have made too many mistakes, wasted alot of time, and that there is no more hope for a new beginning. That's not true.
Freshen your perspective by removing your age from your goals. It adds of of unnecessary pressure on you.
You are not the first or last person to have made bad decisions. Things may have not turned out the way you wanted but that's a part of learning experience. Grow from it and choose to do better.
There will in your Lifetime be dozens of people who take your breath away.....
Be the one who remind you to breath, the one who knows your life song and sings it back to you, when you forgot the words awhile,
The one who knows how to make you smile through tears, they are the ones you should keep.
Good night everyone 🌃
LET PEOPLE, BE PEOPLE
Let people misjudge, gossip and misunderstand you. You can't please everyone. You are not for everyone!
If you do what you want, people will find something to talk about. If you do what they want, they will still find something to talk about.
If you do nothing they will criticize you, if you do everything they will still find something to criticize and gossip about you lol.
People will be people. Don't let it bother or surprise you, Get used to it.
Take a deep breath in my friend. Live your life in peace, do what makes you happy and dont worry too much about what people think, say and how they feel about you.
AIM TO IMPROVE YOURSLEF EVERYDAY
I learned that it is important to have a goal to improve yourslef every day.
People with grit always want to improve, no matter how good they are already.
Whatever their goal or purpose is, they aspire to get better at it each and everyday.
Whatever their goal is purpose is, they aspire to get better at it each and every day.
Every day, there are opportunities to better ourselves and grow ourselves - we just have to be on the lookout for them.
It's against you, not you against anyone else
GIVE YOURSELF TIME
Take if one day at a time. Remind yourself that there is always movement happening even when everything seems stagnant.
Keep working on yourself. Change will come.
Right now, focus on making progress. Work on removing yourself from things that are not serving your best interest.
Make a step forward everyday, some progress is better than no progress. Believe you will get through this and let time do the rest.
Just a reminder to avoid making decisions when you are feeling strong and intense emotions like anger, despair, stress and sadness. You will end up in regret.
Making a decision when you are feeling intense emotions is like going to the store to buy food when you are starving. You will end up buying things you don't need.
Allow your emotions to cool down by sleeping on your feelings for at least 48 hour before taking action. Wait until your feel another emotion to look at the situation from a different perspective
If you want to change your life,
you need to overcome your fear of losing people.
You need to stop making decisions based on what you're supposed to do,
what will ruffle the least amount of feathers,
what will make others celebrate you and shower you in approval.
Stop hiding your real thoughts to make yourself more palatable to others,
to increase their comfort while disregarding your own.
The right people won't abandon you after witnessing your truth.
They will appreciate your transparency and vulnerability,
and will love you even harder.
Yes,
you will lose certain people when you stop letting them walk over you,
but they will be the wrong people.
The people who didn't deserve you anyway.
If you want to change your life,
you need to overcome your fear of losing people.
You need to stop making decisions based on what you're supposed to do,
what will ruffle the least amount of feathers,
what will make others celebrate you and shower you in approval.
Stop hiding your real thoughts to make yourself more palatable to others,
to increase their comfort while disregarding your own.
The right people won't abandon you after witnessing your truth.
They will appreciate your transparency and vulnerability,
and will love you even harder.
Yes,
you will lose certain people when you stop letting them walk over you,
but they will be the wrong people.
The people who didn't deserve you anyway.
The apology, the closure, the justice, and the answers you are looking and waiting for, may never end up coming to you. Waiting on them will only keep you stuck in the past.
A time will come where you are going to have to accept that things are the way they are and that there's nothing you can do to change what happened.
Time won't heal you; but it's what you do in time that will help you. If you sit there and wait for answers, you might end up waiting forever. So find the courage to accept the past and gather the strength to move on from it.
LIVING A PEACEFUL LIFE
Peace is another word for surrender and acceptance. Don’t try to control life or people. Go with the flow.
Continuously work on yourself.
Many people struggle with peace because of the kind of people they’re surrounded by. Upgrade your circle and set clear boundaries with everyone.
Remind yourself that no human has the right to sit inside your head and continue to disturb your peace of mind.
No relationship is worth damaging your mental health. Keep your expectations with people realistic. People are unpredictable. Don’t make anyone the center of your world. Don’t expect you from other people.
Give people what they want. Don’t force, don’t chase, don’t beg.
Be okay with people not wanting you in their lives if that’s what makes them happy. Let people do what they want to do, so you know what they’d rather do.
Lastly, don’t stop being a good human. Just change who you’re being good to.
Shake off the feelings that you have made too many mistakes, wasted alot of time, and that there is no more hope for a new beginning. That's not true.
Freshen your perspective by removing your age from your goals. It adds of of unnecessary pressure on you.
You are not the first or last person to have made bad decisions. Things may have not turned out the way you wanted but that's a part of learning experience. Grow from it and choose to do better.
Being super understanding of other peoples pains and traumas does not mean you should become their punching bags.
They have a story, they got hurt, but so did you. You made a choice to heal and become a better human.nthey can make that choice too instead of making excuses for their toxic behaviour.
A person can only become a better human of they decide to work on themselves. It's not something anyone can make them do. It is not your job to "fix" or "save" people.
If you have people in your life who are real, loyal, kind, caring and loving don't take them for granted because nowadays it's becoming very hard to find people with pure intentions.
So many people are driven by interest and ego; people are out there preying on kind hearted people. Trying to take as much as they can from those who are good at giving until they got nothing more to give.
No wonder why so many people have trust issues because people are so unpredictable and you can never know what's behind someone's mind even when they appear to be the kindest.
You are not a burden if you struggle with mental and emotional issues.
You are not a burden for wanting to be loved and understood by others. You are not a burden for being sensitive and wanting world to respond to your feelings.
Your feelings are important, they matter. They are worth sharing and worth hearing. You deserve love and support. Struggling does not make you a burden, it makes you human.!!
Nobody was born with a low self esteem. Everyone was born believing that they are good enough and beautiful....
...............until someone told them the opposite and that made them doubt their worth.
Nobody has the right to make you feel like you are not enough. Nobody is above you. Don't derive your worth from other people's opinions.
When you find yourself asking questions like: why me? What did I do to deserve this? Why is life this way? Just why?
You are only setting yourself up for more hurt because you may never end up getting the Answers you are looking for.
I want you to know that's it's not just you. It's many other people struggling too. It's children fighting cancer. It's good people being abused. It's alot of pain happening every where, everyday; it's LIFE.
This world will always search for ways into breaking us, but I hope that despite it all, may we still find reason to keep falling in love with the beauty of being alive, and may we still keep on looking for the good in every person we meet on this lifetime. May we still keep on looking for the good in every person we meet in this lifetime. May we always, always choose to be kind.
@KatinessEverdeen
