@KatinessEverdeen 6 December 2022

If you want to change your life, you need to overcome your fear of losing people. You need to stop making decisions based on what you're supposed to do, what will ruffle the least amount of feathers, what will make others celebrate you and shower you in approval. Stop hiding your real thoughts to make yourself more palatable to others, to increase their comfort while disregarding your own. The right people won't abandon you after witnessing your truth. They will appreciate your transparency and vulnerability, and will love you even harder. Yes, you will lose certain people when you stop letting them walk over you, but they will be the wrong people. The people who didn't deserve you anyway. If you want to change your life, you need to overcome your fear of losing people. You need to stop making decisions based on what you're supposed to do, what will ruffle the least amount of feathers, what will make others celebrate you and shower you in approval. Stop hiding your real thoughts to make yourself more palatable to others, to increase their comfort while disregarding your own. The right people won't abandon you after witnessing your truth. They will appreciate your transparency and vulnerability, and will love you even harder. Yes, you will lose certain people when you stop letting them walk over you, but they will be the wrong people. The people who didn't deserve you anyway.