I hope that when you look into the mirror, you feel love for the person you see and that you are not judging yourself too harshly for your imperfections and mistakes.
I hope that you are super kind to yourself on days where you feel really down and that your re always taking care of your mind and your heart.
I also hope that you have come to realize that the way people have treated and made you feel in the past does not measure your worth. And that you don't need to be perfect in order to be loved by others and by yourself!
5 Gratitude Quotes To Uplift Your Day
Gratitude is riches, complaint is poverty.
Gratitude makes everything grow.
Showing gratitude is one of the simplest yet most powerful things human can do for each other.
The real gift of gratitude is that the more grateful you are, the more present you become.
When life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate and when life is bitter, say thank you and grow.
Have a grateful and powerful day 💖
The moment we realize our own value, our own worth, our own self love, is the moment we become absolutely limitless. We can see now that reaching happiness does not mean obtaining the next new thing, job, success, friends, true love..... It is being ultimately happy with who we are in this moment.
This is where we find home, that ultimate place where gratefulness, joy and abundance and unconditional love flows within us, and out of us like liquid gold. We are our "home"
It is THEN the universe " knows we know" and truely can AMAZE US.
You won't spend all your life in suffering. You deserve better and you will receive better. It's time to get over worries and embrace your stronger version. Find courage hidden within. There is no other option. It's time to bid goodbye to the old patterns that withhold your progress.
TO WHOM IN MAY CONCEARN Losing all hopes and feeling like things won't ever be okay, is okay. If you no longer believe that life actually gets better because you have been sitting in pain for too long, that's also okay. This is your life after all, you get to decide how far you want to Keep going.... The problem with being pessimistic is that it does not lead to a promising future whereas holding onto a little bit of hope can actually make room for a miracle to happen. Again, it's upto you. Your mind is powerful. If you feed it with negetivity that's all you will ever get. Just think about this...!
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TO WHOM IN MAY CONCEARN
Losing all hopes and feeling like things won't ever be okay, is okay.
If you no longer believe that life actually gets better because you have been sitting in pain for too long, that's also okay.
This is your life after all, you get to decide how far you want to Keep going....
The problem with being pessimistic is that it does not lead to a promising future whereas holding onto a little bit of hope can actually make room for a miracle to happen.
Again, it's upto you. Your mind is powerful if you feed it with negetivity that's all you will get.
Just think about it!
We are all going to leave this world one day and everything will stay behind, so while we are here, let's spread love, let's be kind and try our best not to torment others.
Let's make a positive impact on our communities.lets be humbled and treat others with respect. Because in the end, what will matter the most is how we lived and made others feel.
Learn to be by yourself and enjoying your own company. Make it a habit to spend some quality time alone from time to time, to meditate and get to know yourself.
Many people have no idea of who they are. They have lost themselves throughout the years to their traumas, fears, insecurities, people's judgements and influences.
It's very important to be aware of who you are. When you know yourself, you won't seek external validation and won't be moved by people's wrong judgements of you. Self awareness will make you more confident
CREATE NEW MEMORIES
A bad experience is not a bad life. Dwelling on the negative memories will only keep you in hurt and haunted for the rest of your life.
You are a co-creator of your own reality. You are not a tree, you’re not obligated to be tied to the past. If we were only meant to stay in one particular place, we would have roots and not feet.
You can’t control life but you certainly can choose to create new and happier memories to have something valuable to reflect on.
You owe yourself that for all the years you’ve spent in darkness. Only you can transform your life.
Creating happy memories is not even about doing tremendous things. Great things are in the simple things of life. The little things are the big things.
The last can be heavy, the past can be traumatic, the past can be full of negetive memories but the past cannot dictate rest of your life.
A time will come where you are going to have to decide to move on from the past. Moving on is not about cancelling or forgetting what happened. The mind never forgets.
Moving on is about taking your power back. It's a decision to give yourself and your life a new beginning.
Shoutout to everyone who is doing their best even when others don't see it.
To everyone who is working so hard to build their better selves, address their toxic traits, make better decisions, chase bigger dreams, keep good people.
Shoutout to everyone who continues despite their awful past. Who strives to pick themselves up after every downfall. Who still take steps forward after a series of stops.
Shoutout to everyone who still have hopes in their hearts that the day will come when everything will fall into place and all will be worth it.
SELF LOVE
Think about someone you really love and care about, someone who means alot to you and everything you would do for them. if you could give them the world.
Just pause and think about that person if anyone comes in mind .
Now replace the image of that person with yourself. And Start giving all that love and kindness, to yourself. That's Self Love.
Love others but don't neglect or put yourself last, you owe yourself compassion, love, respect, patience, and kindness. Please give it to yourself. You need it.
It's not your job to make people see your worth or value you. It's not your job to make people see you for who you truely are.
If you know who you are, then you have nothing to prove to anyone because whether you like it or not, some people will always misjudge you and criticize you based on their personal feelings and what they have heared people say about you.
You can't control how people feel about you, but you can choose to not let their opinions bother you. You are not for everyone.
We only fail when we stop trying. Never stop trying. Rest and try again, don't quit.
We should never give up on what matters to us.
Everything great and valuable takes time.
It takes time to raise a child and grow a family. It takes time to build trust and grow business. It takes time to perfect any craft, to become the master of a trade
When we are persistent every day we a little bit better, a little bit closer than the day before. It all adds up.
If you should carry one thing throughout your entire life, let it be hope.
Hope that no matter how challanging a situation is, you will eventually overcome it in time.
Hope that hard time pass no matter how long they last.
Hope that a closed door is not the end of your story.
A Morning Advice For you
Rejection does not mean you are not enough. Sometimes you need to experience worst scenerio in order for you to grow and become a better person. someday those people who rejected you will eventually realized your worth and by that time, all you can do is laugh and say it's okay.
Amazing things will start happening in your life when you prioritize YOURSELF.
Diverge all the energy you are putting into worrying about the things you can't control and the people that are sucking the life out of you into something that makes you happy and brings you peace.
There's something really powerful about focusing on the things that matter. Many times people get stuck in emotions because they struggle to find something healthy to help them cope with reality.
When you find yourself asking questions like: why me? What did I do to deserve this? Why is life this way? Just why?
You are only setting yourself up for more hurt because you may never end up getting the Answers you are looking for.
I want you to know that's it's not just you. It's many other people struggling too. It's children fighting cancer. It's good people being abused. It's alot of pain happening every where, everyday; it's LIFE.
Express your boundaries, communicate your standards and stay in your lane when the energy is not reciprocated.
Arguing, chasing, manipulating, getting revenge, or trying too hard to prove your worth to people are not high value and will not get you any respect.
Standards, boundaries, and walking away from situations that don't serve you, will put some respect back on your name.
You can have everything in this life; you can have the job and relationship of your dreams, a good circle of friends, alot of money, popularity and a high status....
But if you have no peace within, none of that will matter. Peace is the most valuable thing to possess it's such an underrated blessing.
Peace will help you sleep at night and make room for happiness to settle in your heart; How you feel within will reflex outward. Make peace of mind your priority and organize your life around it.
Think of life as a book: Some chapters have already been written for you. This is why you will go through things you won't see coming; things you won't be able to avoid because they are meant to be on your path.
But then, other chapters have blank pages that you will have the responsibility to write by making the right decisions.
When fate surprises you with the unexpected, don't put a full stop on your existence; take over and decide to rewrite your story by making choices that will transform your life.
A positive note to start your day with 🌻
People are often the reason why other people feel and react in certain way. Let us today he the reason for someone feeling:
A part of, included, valued
Welcome and noticed
Listened to, cared for and supported
Loved.
Just better than they perhaps felt yesterday
GIVE YOURSELF TIME
Take if one day at a time. Remind yourself that there is always movement happening even when everything seems stagnant.
Keep working on yourself. Change will come.
Right now, focus on making progress. Work on removing yourself from things that are not serving your best interest.
Make a step forward everyday, some progress is better than no progress. Believe you will get through this and let time do the rest.
RESPECT YOURSELF
You can’t force people to respect and like you. You also can’t obligate them to see you for who you truly are. But you certainly can refuse to tolerate their disrespect by distancing yourself from those who make you feel less.
You know, not everyone is going to see your goodness and light in this life no matter how bright you shine.
Some people will only choose to look at your flaws, while others will actually see your greatness and feel threatened by it because it will expose their darkness and trigger them to reflect on their vulnerabilities, weaknesses and insecurities.
My friend, let people feel whichever way they choose to feel about you. But don’t let anyone treat you the way you know you’d never treat them. Choose self love and respect over anything and anyone.
Don’t give anyone the power to make you feel less about yourself. Prioritize and protect yourself from negativity. Again, it’s not ego, it’s self love.
Can we all live the life we aspire to?
Every person wants to live their dream. The dreams we strongly turn into aspirations have the greatest potential to become real.
when we think of achieving something in life,but has to be accompanied by determination, consistency, and perseverance. When people fave obstacles on their path, most tend to give up. This is why many dreams never turn real.
Pursue your dreams, and be ready to overcome the challenges. Even if you don't entirely achieve what you want, you will surely land closer to it.
The battle of mind is the most challanging of all battles. Many people have been stuck inside their head for long years; struggling with old wounds.
People are here out till processing and trying to heal from traumas that happened years ago. The battle is real.
Never go a day without feeding your mind with positivity 😌 and uplifting words. It's needed everyday because the mind is battlefield.
Make a list of the wonderful things you want to accomplish in your life. Write it all down from the most important to the least.
Then organize your life around that list. This will give you a sense of purpose and something to look forwards to.
You have alot of strength and courage within you. Even when you feel like you can't keep going anymore. The fact that you have made this far, is a proof that you still have some hope for a better life.!
Every time you wake up in the morning, you always have two choices, either to be happy or to be sad, whichever choice you choose will determine how your day will go.
Whatever dominates your mind dominates your life. Think positive thoughts, and you will live a positive life.
You will only be as happy as you choose to be. Choose happiness and everything needed to make it so will fall in place. Even if it doesn't, there's no better way to live than to intentionally maintain a happy state of mind, for it draws to you the best things of life, much more than you can find.
Life is struggle and the potential for failure is ever present, but whose who live in fear of failure, or hardship, or embarrassment will never achieve their potential without pushing your limits, without occasionally sliding down the rope headfirst, without daring greatly, you will never know what is truely possible in your life.
A very good morning to all of you 🌞
Many of the people who have deeply hurt you probably don't deserve your forgiveness. And if you are holding a grudge against them, that's absolutely understandable because no one other than yourself knows the amount and level of pain they inflicted on you.
But if there's something I have learned throughout the years is that forgiveness is never about the other person. It's a decision one makes to take their power back and liberate themselves from the prison of bitterness.
Just remember that while you are so angry at them, they are out there living their lives, not worried about you. You have to find a way to move on in order to heal from that hurt. Holding onto anger is certain not the way out.
Just a reminder to avoid making decisions when you are feeling strong and intense emotions like anger, despair, stress and sadness. You will end up in regret.
Making a decision when you are feeling intense emotions is like going to the store to buy food when you are starving. You will end up buying things you don't need.
Allow your emotions to cool down by sleeping on your feelings for at least 48 hour before taking action. Wait until your feel another emotion to look at the situation from a different perspective.
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