How mothers should handle their female child/children

Your female child just clock 16 years old and a lot of guys have start toasting her, she began to wonder why all this things are happening to her, and finally she later discover that she have reach the stage where she began to look attractive to the opposite sex and that is why the opposite sex is always toasting her anywhere she goes

Now as a mother who wants yo guide her child will start beaten her child anytime she sees her with men, but is that the right thing to do as a parent ? No of course but what would she do as a mother when she see all these thing happening.

First men are been attracted to what they see and when a woman is fully grown, that is breast all grown up and her backside is tempting, then I can assure you that there is nothing a mother can do to stop men from toasting her daughter because at that stage when every thing is fresh she will be very attractive to men, and that alone will make men to start queuing and see who will first date her and at the same time have sex with her, because they want to taste what is fresh.

Now as a mother the only thing you need to do is to make your daughter your friend and by doing that she will begin to tell you her secret like how many boys toasted her in a day, which one she likes best among those guy that have been disturbing her.

The only thing the mother have to do after hearing all that her daughter have told her is to be her guide and give her advice rather than condemning her or start abusing her that she have start sleeping with different men. As a mother tell her the reason why she should not engage in sex at her age and tell her that it might lead to unwanted pregnancy which you as a mother don't want that to happen, tell her the reason why she should face her studies instead of seeing men as her priorities and ready to drop pants because of money, tell her the advantage and the benefit of putting her studies first before thinking of men and sex, tell her the danger that's involve in unwanted pregnancy and what she would bring upon her self if she get pregnant at her age e.t.c.

With these kind of advice its shows that you understand what she is passing through, that you were there before her and you have a proper understand about dating.

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