You know when we were little we pray so hard to grow up fast and become adults because an adult life has no restrictions on like a childhood life,we wanted to be free to make our own decisions,date who ever we wanted,be able to go to places we dream of,and go to clubs do crazy stuff like getting a tattoo without having our parents shouting as us as if we are still kids, just do anything we want without having anyone to look down on us as minors.
But believe you me when you grow up you finally find out how complicated an adult life is ,yeah is very complicated in as much as the fact that we can do anything we wanted that at some point it will still suck and will want become kids again even for second when we didn't need to worry about things like
Getting a job
Dating
Stress because of daily demands
Uncertainty of one's future
GETTING A JOB
Trust me many young adult struggle with the right kind of job for themselves when they become adults ,you know getting a job as an adult who has daily demands to meet up with is not the same as an after school job,especially when you are staying on your own ,you have to make sure you have electric appliances , you will need to feed ,you will worry about clothing, light bills and so on..
And many find it difficult to get the right working environment ,every time they get bored working in particular place or they don't fit in or they can't cope with the demands of the work or they don't give the work their best and end up getting fired i mean it is one of the most powerful challenge for young adults.
DATING
Another thing is dating ,yes dating it sucks most times especially when you love the person and the person doesn't love you back or when you start losing bonds with the person you plan to spend the rest of you life with or the person doesn't care about your feelings they only care about themselves and what they are getting in the relationship not caring what you want, trust me at some point you will give up you will want to close your eyes and everything will just go away trust me i have been there.
STRESS ABOUT DAILY DEMANDS
Yes daily demands trust me when i say it's a must that you meet up with your daily target if not your future is at stake
Remember time waits for no one and time is money ,many adults struggle with daily demands for example they have their bills to cover and the same time they have to visit home and see their younger ones find out what they need help plan for their future find out what is lacking ,bond with them as their big brothers or big sisters, pay some bills that mom and dad are unable to meet up with and also worry about their own work and issues ,it is not easy at all.
UNCERTAINTY of ONE'S FUTURE
Many adults don't know how their future will be and many don't know how to plan for it ,yes it is a big problem with adulthood, many don't know where to start planning for their future they don't know what to do ,all they know is that they want to be comfortable but they don't know how to go about it.
But when we were kids we didn't need to worry about all these things though we had limited freedom but it was worth it ,we didn't need to worry of what to eat tomorrow or what we are going to do to get money for this or for that .
All we knew was that our parents are there with us to provide those things we needed we didn't have to worry sick or stress ourselves about our future all we knew was to make sure we get good grades in school .
We always thought to ourselves that as far as our parents are with us and we get good grades in school what can happen.
When we were kids our parents would take us to the park and get us ice cream ,candy,chocolate wow we would play with our friends and and on Halloween free candies we will go to our friends house, trust me it was fun and we never needed to bother ourselves for anything we just had to get good grades in school ,pray for our parents and have fun.
So trust me when i say childhood is a worry free life.
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