Where to go Ramblings?
Date: January 30, 2022One day to go and we will welcome the month of heart which is February. Speaking of love of heart specifically February 14 known as "Valentines day" I am happy to announce that our calendar doest have February 14 at all hahaha. Geez, time is fast approaching and we never notice the ending like your relationship charot hahaha. It seem like yesterday was January 1 but now we are in January 30. Honestly because of fast moving of day I never know what symbol year this 2022 but thanks toy the calendar given by sari-sari store and uki of Mama, I am able to know that we are in Year of the Tiger.
Sundy is my best day ever as I can go to church to worship and listen to the word of God with excitement and heart filled with happiness. Sadly, my used Sunday feels suddenly fades. I felt no more excitement and happiness and Sunday was a normal day and going to church became a tradition which I feel few Sundays have passed. My mind decided to stop serving Him and I already composed a chat message to our pastors but afterwards I instantly erased it. I could God didn't me to stop serving Him because surprisely Pastora communicate me and ask me about having counseling which I agreed upon. Throughout the counseling Pastora listened and let me express my feelings and later on she explained and advised me what to do.
Very unusual to wake up at 6 in the morning to prepare everything and do the household chores but now my waking up call is 7:00 am because my mindset was to be late. I found it convenient to arrive when the service had already started. Like what happened today, I arrived at 7:40 am where praise and worship almost ended. Luckily everyone is so focused that it seems no one notices me.
My sister and my cousin 's wife decided to start a small business to earn even a single penny. It's been three years since they started. By the way their business is afternoon snacks and when evening comes they sell barbecues. Every around 2 in the afternoon, I will help them out in exchange to have and eat when something's left. You know food is life hahaha.
Moreover, how could you tell that someone is toxic? Can a friend be called toxic if he/she chooses to side with others and says many things just to make him/her heroic?
Note: This is not my story but we are friends.
Our circle of friends are super supportive and we are all vibes but we cannot deny that we have one friend that we don't like his boastfulness and always making everything he says is right. Recently, they had a misunderstanding that led them to call him toxic because that person says something towards my friend's enemy to save his name without thinking that his behaviour might break their friendship. As a girl in the team, I tried to be transparent on both sides because I want to understand each side. Since that day, they never talked to him or pansin him which I felt sad about. Initially, I am the one who talks to him and the other side also without favoring one side. I know he made mistakes and also they are and I already did my part to explain his side. So, it is up to them to decide.
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I realized that I cannot judge both because they have boys who only understand. Sometimes boys are complicated but girls are more complicated. Right girls?
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There are many times inday that is better to stay silent, and people who boast I don't like generally!