People think that "boy and girl cannot be friends without a thing" or some level woman as "slut" or something when they see a girl is befriend with some guys or surrounds by boys. How toxic mindset. I also preferred to be with boys because they are real and genuine. They don't talk behind my back. Yes, I do have two boy best friends but they don't know each other😂. I am a type of person that has boy friends but also I trusted one.
Let me introduce my first ever boy best friend. Note, it is not the guy I was talking about in my previous article titled "Diary of Admiration". I want to extend my appreciation to him and share amazing people I have in my life.
Lemme start😊
Our first ever picture together, it was in October 2017. Do the chip in, in foods, cottage and entrance just to celebrate and have fun by bonding. The funny fact about it is that before bonding we are just a casual friend saying "Hai, Hello" type but then as we talk random things in the pool together with our church mate then magic happens we super close instantly and closer as years pass.
He became an artist. I love art but arts dont love me. So, I called his help because I remember he is good at arts. He drew almost 5 pieces in just a few hours. That time he was just out from his work. He gives it to me at night, to do my part which is coloring. As thanksgiving, I gave him a sketch book for him to enhance his skill. Later on, I discovered that he is not into drawing anymore because of his busy work.
He became an instant technician. When my phone has problems or deficits one person I will call immediately and it's him. I'm not knowledgeable enough in gadgets, especially the system of it. Here, he is a gadget person. That photo and cell phone belongs to a friend of mine. I remembered, I called him because of errors in uploading our vlog as our projects.
The photo was taken by him for being our tour guide and videographer doing our vlog project. He knows the place because he was there before. I called out his help but then he was the one who pays my expenses (fare, entrance and food).
He is my supporter, my stress reliever and especially my crying shoulder in times of my downfall. That photo was captured on December 21 in the process of coping up with my brother's death. The most memorable is when he talk my mama after New Year Eve for me to be with them. School paperworks stressed me out especially in spending hours in solving and facing numbers. One call away that whatever he does, he still picked it up.
Despite that, we also encountered hardship in the process of making our friendship stronger. Suddenly our friendship became cold within a year. We are back to casual and "Hai!, Hello!," friends. It hurts me. Our use is totally null. Before the year ended in the same year, I reached him out to save our friendship, we took personally bringing out the problems and many more. He said directly in my face that "I am selfish" for not checking him out and told me that he encountered difficulties and I was not able to be there.
It was a year of developing ourselves, healing ourselves and becoming more independent. Within that year, I faced our own struggles, became our own stress reliever, our self-supporter, made our pillow a crying shoulder and through that year we are able to nurture ourselves, and be more dependent on God. It is a year of processing for both of us and a year to test our friendship. Now, our relationship is stronger than in previous years.
Our best friend also needs us. A simple "how are you?" means a lot. Time will test our relationship to make it more mature and stronger.
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JustMaryel sending you love and positivity❣️
You said very well because i simply hello hi Means alot but unfortunately we don't understand and sometimes our partner wants time but we don't give .